Oxi MarshMellow

My brain, legit, stalled out on the last thing I mentioned because that’s just how much I don’t get it. And leave the bunny and guinea pig alone! AND cold peanut butter is practically impossible to work with. Tearin’ up the bread n shit.

Life. It definitely has a funny way of helping you out from time to time. Even when it doesn’t seem like it. When I say “the process can be something else” I just mean growth is exhausting. It is a pure exhaustion of… all of it: mental, emotional, and physical.

Disrespect is disrespect, and I’m done tolerating it, and why just stay silent? Because silence is absolutely a response and will be the most effective at conveying exactly how you feel about someone/something. Just say nothing. And go about your day. “Take 2” because I felt this could’ve been executed better. Hope we enjoy 😊. Oh! And I learned the full quote is “the customer is always right IN M...

It might shock you to see who you’re not cool with.

Super fun game I was playing with my Nieces and Nephew… that boy is ruthless 🖤.

Remember the dancing flowers? I am not a terrible person, I was mislead into a false belief and just wanted to see the flower dance.

There’s a way to treat people. All I’m saying.

Those mourning periods are no joke. Definitely not something fun to deal with. And other times you do the happy dance like the hippos in “Fantasia”.

Women (that like penis) need to know about guys like him. He does not care about you. You are nothing more than a means to an end. He gets “hot and heavy” pretty quickly- will immediately send you the kiss face/heart face emojis. More to the point if anyone says they don’t like using protection they are a damaged lot, and not for you. Period. He, of course, could go/travel anywhere, so just keep a...

I don’t know what’s happening anymore. Women out here actively choosing (not depressed, etc… making an active choice) to stew in worse than swamp ass, and I don’t care what’s going on out there, stop justifying not having money.

To be clear I’m not referring to things that someone finds therapeutic, like music, exercise, axe throwing, etc… and I’m also not saying everyone needs to go to therapy in order to make positive changes. That’s absurd. What I am saying, from what I’ve seen so far in my life, is anyone that says “I don’t need to go to therapy. I do my own form of therapy”… is the ones that need some help the most....

If you need someone to “snap to” tell them how valued and cared for they are instead of dumping on them and adding to the stress. They’re having a hard enough time. They need to know someone’s in their corner.

There’s a difference between not seeing eye to eye sometimes, and someone needing to be dragged away. Don’t get me wrong. If something seemed too easy or was just handed to you it’s probably no good, but I don’t subscribe to the whole starving artist thing. Not everything needs to be so hard, especially relationships; I said it in a previous episode- I don’t know who made that rule, but relationsh...

The examples I make are not in regards to any person that was born a certain way, had to under-go a medically necessary procedure, suffered an unfortunate accident, or dons anything with any type of hate speech. This is all strictly “surface level” type stuff; basically catty nonsense you’ll get from some people.

This, and oatmeal raisin cookies that look like chocolate chip.

Careful how you word what you wish for. Just sayin’. It’s fine. I’m fine, everything’s fine. Also, Dean doesn’t hate me 😄🖤.

Cut this person off. If they can’t be bothered, neither can you.

Sometimes you have to stop, take a breath, and focus on what you NEED to do.

Personally, I find these phrases to be really rude. Depending on who I’m talking too/the situation I can have a sense humor about the last one.

Toxicity exists in most work environments, and the Hospitality Industry is no stranger on that list- A solid owner will have input, but won’t be on site like that ☝🏽☝🏽☝🏽 a solid owner also respects their co-workers and lets them do their jobs. You can’t just flat out tell guests the kitchen is a fuck off, so you have to do your best to improvise and diffuse potential situations. Which is fuckin...

It was definitely a wild ride, but I made it and the process taught me a lot. Totally cliché, but facts: never say never, you ARE tougher than you think, and any great thing worth having will not come easy, but can definitely be done. You got this… Never forget that. Happy Birthday, Ashley! 🎉🖤🪬🎉🎉 Also, I have done my research, and Oreos are no longer the animal filled thing they once were ☺️…...

And the lord said “there will be no vagina for the slack-jawed mook who is weirded out by a woman’s body. Period.”

Spontaneity in a relationship is meant to heighten excitement. Breaking out of routines, and giving that spark a good jolt from time to time!

There’s hair.. Braid it. Trim it. Either way, deal with it.