Our Secret Spot

For Pride Month, we’re diving into the realities of modern queer relationships with elite gay matchmaker and relationship expert Daniel Cooley. From dating app burnout and modern matchmaking to monogamy, non-monogamy, communication, and the biggest misconceptions people have about LGBTQIA+ relationships, this conversation goes far beyond the stereotypes. Daniel shares what thousands of conve...

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence sit down with renowned sexologist and relationship counsellor Alice Child to answer one of the biggest questions facing modern couples: Why does intimacy break down, even in loving relationships? From mismatched libidos and emotional labour to communication challenges, parenting, stress, resentment and screen-time overload, Alice explains [&#8...

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence sit down with internationally recognised dominatrix, sex educator, and somatic practitioner Eva Oh for one of the deepest and most psychologically fascinating conversations the podcast has explored yet. From power dynamics and long-term psychological play to shame, erotic liberation, BDSM, submission, embodiment, and human desire — […] T...

👉  Get tickets to the Live Recording 🎟️ Jess and Lawrence are diving into Reddit’s wildest open relationship stories — and things get messy fast. From ethical non-monogamy dating struggles and first-time anxiety to sex club boundaries, changing rules mid-play, safer sex debates and questionable couple behaviour, this episode unpacks the Reddit posts that made […] The post Reddit’s Wildest O...

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, we explore people, policy and pleasure podcast conversations with Deputy Lord Mayor Jess Miller, unpacking the hidden history of sex-on-premises venues in Sydney and how thoughtful legislation has shaped safer adult communities. From the legacy of the Disorderly Houses Act to the Bodyline precedent, police discretion, planning reform, and […] The post Peo...

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by Dr. Leigh Barlow for a candid conversation about sex stigma, sexual health, STI testing, condoms, herpes, BV, and the choices that help people stay safe without shame. Together, they unpack why stigma around sex still exists, where sex education still falls short, and […] The post Sex Stigma and Smart Choices with Dr. Leigh...

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence unpack one of the most relatable (and chaotic) parts of modern relationships — red flags in dating and why we ignore them when attraction takes over. We’ve all been there… The red flags are obvious, but the chemistry is too strong to walk away. From cocky […] The post Red Flags We Ignore Because We’re Horny appeared first on Our Secret S...

🔥 Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! In this exclusive, sneak-peek clip from our new segment, Raunchy Recaps, Jess and Lawrence share some of the wildest swingers club stories from inside Our Secret Spot. From dungeon encounters and orgy room chaos to hilarious behind-the-scenes moments, these real lifestyle stories […] The post Dungeon Anal, Orgy Showers and...

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence sit down with Genevieve LeJeune, founder of Skirt Club — the world’s largest women-only community for bisexual and bi-curious women. With over 27,000 members worldwide, Skirt Club has created a safe, empowering environment where women can explore sexuality, identity, and desire without pressure or judgement. Visit […] The post What Happe...