Our Love Sphere

In this episode, we’ll discuss the dreaded friend zone – that awkward space where one person wants romance while the other remains oblivious. Escaping the friend zone is not easy, but with the right strategies and mindset, you can shift the dynamic, making him see you in a new light, and ultimately, escape the friend zone. Website: ⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook:...

Have you ever found yourself in a relationship where something just feels off, but you can't quite put your finger on it? Welcome to today's episode, where we'll be diving into the intricacies of doubt in a relationship. Doubts in relationships are common, but they can be navigated with self-awareness, communication, and introspection. In this episode, we'll explore how to navigate...

In this episode, we'll explore the delicate balance between socializing and staying composed. Whether it's a casual gathering with friends or a formal event, maintaining elegance and grace is essential for leaving a lasting impression. We'll discuss strategies for navigating social settings responsibly, particularly when alcohol is involved. From knowing your limits to asserting bounda...

In this episode, we will discuss dating in the heart of winter. As the air turns crisp and the days grow shorter, it can be difficult to have the motivation to date. We're here to help you embrace the cold season while still navigating being single and dating. From dating adventures to cozy self-care rituals, we've curated a winter wonderland of insights to make this season your most memor...

Valentine's Day is a day of love, and we’re here to remind you that no matter your relationship status, you should celebrate in a way that brings you pure love and happiness. We'll be exploring everything from solo celebrations to couples' adventures, from gift dilemmas to outfit choices. Whether you're a Valentine's Day enthusiast or someone who prefers to keep it low-key - wh...

They say first impressions are everything, and we couldn't agree more! In this episode, we will discuss fashion for every occasion. Whether you’re going out for dinner, meeting your partner’s parents, or attending a sporting event, we’ve got you covered.  Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365...

In this episode, we’ll discuss how to keep things interesting and add a dash of excitement to your love life, because let's face it, who doesn't want to keep that flame burning bright? Whether you're a seasoned couple looking to reignite the spark or in the early stages of love, we've got you covered! Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandc...

In this episode, we’ll discuss friends with benefits. In a world where connections come in various shades, maintaining a friendship, while also indulging in some added benefits can be alluring. But is it a good idea? And how do you make sure that no one gets hurt?  We'll unravel the intricacies, share some valuable insights, and hopefully, leave you with a clearer picture of whether this uncon...

As we ring in the new year, it's a great time to reflect on the past year. In this episode we will talk about how to start your new year off right and become the best version of yourself. Think of it as a fresh start. What do you want to do differently in the new year? Where do you want to be in your life? How can you make this the best year yet? Episode highlights and timestamps can be found...

In this episode, we will talk about how to start your new year off right and date with intention. As we ring in the new year, it's a great time to reflect on the past year and think about what you learned from it. What were your successes? What were your challenges? What could you improve on? Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: -...

In this episode, we’ll discuss the art of kissing. Whether it's your first kiss or the tender moments shared between long-term partners, kissing plays a crucial role in a romantic connection. But what happens when the magic fades, and you think, “Is my date a bad kisser?” We’ll discuss common mistakes and how to navigate these delicate moments with finesse. Whether you’re single or want to imp...

Being single during the holidays comes with a unique set of challenges. In this episode, we're celebrating the beauty, freedom, and opportunities that come along with navigating the holiday season unattached. Remember, being single during the holidays is just one chapter in a larger story.  As we find ourselves in the heart of the holiday season, we’re embracing the joy of flying solo. Whether...

In this episode, we will explore the challenging topic of reconnecting with an ex. Our pasts are often filled with chapters we've turned but never quite closed, so as you navigate the labyrinth of past relationships, you may find yourself thinking about rekindling an old flame.  This could be the rekindling of a high school sweetheart, reigniting a connection from your college days, or redisco...

In this episode, we'll discuss meeting his friends for the first time and building positive relationships. When you're in a relationship, the people your partner surrounds themselves with can significantly impact your life together. It's not just about casual introductions; it's about building meaningful connections and weaving yourself into his world. Whether you're single or...

In this episode, we will discuss the complex and often sensitive topic, the ticking biological clock. We'll dive into the concept of freezing eggs and how it's reshaping family planning. No matter what age you age you are, if you’re thinking about having children, we’ve got you covered! Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Ge...

In this episode, we will dive into the intricate web of plus ones. Bringing your date to social occasions is filled with thrilling moments, potential pitfalls, and a myriad of emotions. From weddings to work events, we'll navigate the etiquette and drama surrounding plus ones. If you’ve ever wondered when it's the right time to bring a plus one, or if you've found yourself in a dilemma...

Life is full of chapters. Some are filled with joy and love, and others... well, they teach you invaluable lessons. In this episode, we’ll address Dating After Divorce. For many, this can be a whirlwind of emotions. From tackling societal stigmas to ensuring you're 'conversation ready' for a dinner date — there's a lot to consider. Embrace your new journey with optimism and confide...

In this episode, we'll discuss that big, daunting, pack-up-your-life kind of move - out of state and into new territories for the love of your life. It's thrilling, nerve-wracking, and loaded with a mix of emotions. As with all great adventures, there are road bumps. How do you manage leaving behind friends and family? What about settling into a new job? Building a new circle of friends? A...

In this episode we'll dive into a subject that touches many people: the role of parental influence on our partner choices, especially during adulthood. While parents provide a unique perspective, everyone should find a balance between valuing that input and asserting their own feelings and opinions. Join us as we explore the delicate balance between honoring the invaluable insights of our pare...

Have you ever felt more... cuddly as the temperature drops? There might be a reason for that! Cuffing Season is that time of the year, typically during the colder months, when singles find themselves longing for a partner to cozy up with. It's that time of the year when many people have an urge to be ‘cuffed’ or tied down by a serious relationship. Think of it as nature’s way of saying, ‘It’s...

There are many different types of relationships, some are monogamous, and others are not. Ethical non-monogamy, or ENM, refers to a relationship where one or both partners are allowed to have multiple partners. Although we have never had a client looking for this type of relationship, we have had clients who have asked if they can see two women at the same time. It is important to communicate what...

The thrill of a stolen glance across the boardroom, or a spontaneous after-work drink - dating in the workplace is a lot more common than you think! According to Forbes, over 60% of people have had romance in the workplace. From the highs of romantic lunches to the lows of awkward elevator rides post-breakup, workplace romance sure is a rollercoaster. Love might be blind, but if you enter into wor...

Benching, ghosting, breadcrumbing – there's a whole dictionary of terms in today's dating world! In this episode, we’ll discuss benching, where someone keeps you in a state of uncertainty; close enough to stay connected but far enough to leave you wondering about their true intentions. What is benching exactly? Imagine being a player on a sports team, but you're never allowed off the b...

I’m sure you’ve heard the saying “actions speak louder than words,” and it’s true! It's not just about what someone says; it's about what they do that truly reveals their intentions and commitment.  In this episode, we’ll discuss actions to look out for that show  interest, build trust, and foster a deep connection. Whether you’re newly dating someone, or ready to get back out there, we’ve...

We meet so many women who miss out on the opportunity of a great man simply because he lacks a plan. But here's the question: If everything else about him is perfect, would you be willing to teach him?  In this episode we'll explore taking the lead, setting non-negotiables, and gracefully encouraging the man to step up without being aggressive. Whether you’ve met a great man who lacks a pl...