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Food can be a major bonding experience in relationships, but when two people have different dietary preferences, it can add unexpected stress to dating. Think about it—if you’re a vegan and he’s ordering steak, or he’s a foodie, but you’re a picky eater, these differences may feel small at first. Over time, though, they can add up and create real friction, especially if food is something that brin...

When it comes to dating, the question of age often comes up—how old is too old? The answer isn’t straightforward, as it depends on factors such as your stage in life, what you’re looking for in a relationship, and how flexible you’re willing to be. Age can play a role in compatibility, but it’s far from the only factor.  It’s important to recognize that the “right” age range isn’t one-size-fits-al...

In today’s dating world, it’s easy to feel like you're just another face in the crowd. But here’s the thing—standing out and becoming someone he genuinely wants to date isn’t about playing games or changing who you are. It’s about being the best version of yourself, living a full life, and making sure you bring something valuable and unique to the table. In this episode, we’ll discuss how to highl...

When it comes to dating, we can sometimes find ourselves stuck in a routine, only saying "yes" to people who check off a narrow list of preferences. But what if expanding your horizons could actually bring you closer to finding the right person? In this episode, we’re going to explore how to step outside of your comfort zone in dating—whether that’s trying different backgrounds, locations, or even...

Sometimes, getting a second date can feel confusing, but it often comes down to a few key areas. From how you present yourself to how engaged you are during the date, these factors play a significant role in whether someone is interested in seeing you again. In this episode, we’ll break down the reasons you may not be getting a second date and what you can do to improve your chances. Website: ⁠www...

Couples therapy can be a powerful tool for healing and strengthening a relationship, but it also comes with its own set of challenges and considerations. For many couples, the idea of seeking professional help might feel like admitting failure, while for others, it's an essential step toward growth. The decision to pursue therapy isn’t always clear-cut, and it often raises questions about commitme...

Making your partner feel special is essential for a healthy, thriving relationship. Often, it’s the small gestures and thoughtful actions that speak the loudest, showing him that he’s valued, appreciated, and cherished. Whether you’re in the early stages of dating or have been together for years, taking the time to make him feel special can deepen your connection and set your relationship apart fr...

Obsessing over an ex is something many of us experience after a breakup, but it's a habit that can keep you stuck in the past and prevent you from moving forward. While men and women often handle breakups differently, it’s common for women to replay what went wrong or check up on their ex’s social media. Is this behavior really helping, or is it keeping you from healing? In this episode, we’ll dis...

In every strong relationship, shared experiences play a pivotal role in building deeper connections. Engaging in activities together not only brings joy but also strengthens the bond between partners. In this episode, we'll explore why shared hobbies are more than just fun—they're a fundamental part of a thriving relationship. We’ll discuss how finding common ground can help you grow closer and ke...

In this episode, we’ll dive into the big question: Should couples live together before marriage? Moving in together can be an exciting step, offering a glimpse into what life might be like long-term. However, it also comes with considerations that can significantly impact your relationship. In this episode, we'll explore the pros and cons of living together.  Whether you’re looking for a practice...

In this episode, we’ll be discussing gaslighting in dating. Gaslighting is a form of manipulation that can deeply affect your self-worth and sense of reality. By understanding the tactics of gaslighting and learning how to react, you can regain your confidence and maintain healthier relationships. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: -...

In this episode, we’ll discuss how to get out of a bad relationship. It’s never easy to leave a relationship, especially when comfort, finances, or fear hold you back. But your happiness and well-being should always come first. Breaking free from a bad relationship can feel overwhelming, but it's essential for your well-being and future happiness. In this episode, we’ll guide you through the p...

In today’s episode, we’ll discuss the invaluable lessons learned from past relationships. Each relationship, whether it ended in heartbreak or amicably, offers insights that can help us grow and improve our future relationships. In this episode, we’ll explore what really matters, what doesn’t, and how to prioritize self-love and effective communication. Website: ⁠⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠...

Everyone has a unique way of feeling loved and appreciated, and by recognizing these different love languages, you can deepen your connection and foster a more fulfilling relationship. In this episode, we’ll discuss the five love languages. Understanding and effectively communicating love in a way that resonates with your partner can significantly strengthen your relationship. Website: ⁠⁠www.janis...

In this episode, we will discuss the art of balancing work and love. Both are crucial aspects of our lives, but finding the right balance can sometimes feel impossible. We will discuss strategies for prioritizing your relationship while managing a demanding career so you can maintain a healthy work-life balance and ensure both your professional and personal lives flourish. Website: ⁠⁠⁠www.janisspi...

In this episode, we’ll dive into the complexities of modern relationships and offer insights to help you navigate the dating world with confidence. Today, we're tackling a topic that everyone has an opinion on – the worst parts of dating and, more importantly, how to make it better.  Whether you’re a seasoned dater or just dipping your toes into the dating pool, we’ve got you covered. Website:...

In this episode, we’ll discuss key qualities that men find attractive and desirable, and how you can embody these traits to create stronger, more fulfilling relationships Whether you're single and looking to understand men, or you’re in a relationship and want to deepen your connection, we’ve got you covered.  Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarl...

In a world where everyone is online, you never know who you're going to meet. Some people are looking for love, others for a fling, and distinguishing between the two can be tricky. In this episode, we will discuss the importance of meeting as many people as you can, while taking your time getting to know someone before rushing into a relationship. Remember to take it all with a grain of salt....

In this episode, we’ll focus on one of the most essential aspects of any relationship – truly getting to know the person you’re with. We’ve curated a list of thoughtful and engaging questions designed to help you uncover the layers of someone’s personality, passions, and quirks. Whether you’re on a first date, in a new relationship, or simply want to deepen your understanding of your partner, we’v...

In this episode, we’ll discuss the delicate art of turning a date into a friend. Navigating this transition can be challenging, but it’s entirely possible with honest communication, mutual respect, and thoughtful actions.  Whether you've been on a few dates and realized you're better off as friends, or you simply want to maintain a meaningful connection, we’ll provide practical tips to hel...

In this episode, we’ll discuss giving yourself a breakup pep talk. Breaking up is never easy, but it's a crucial step towards finding the happiness and fulfillment you deserve. Whether you're relieved or heartbroken, this episode will guide you through the process of healing and moving on, empowering you to embrace a brighter and more fulfilling future. Website: ⁠⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmak...

In this episode, we’ll discuss finding ultimate satisfaction in the bedroom. From igniting sparks of desire to navigating the complexities of communication, we're here to help you on your journey toward sexual empowerment and fulfillment. Whether you're craving more excitement, seeking to unleash your inner desires, or simply aiming to enhance intimacy with your partner, we’ll provide valu...

Dating after 50 means stepping into a new dating landscape, one filled with both excitement and challenges. In this episode, we’ll discuss navigating the modern dating scene for those in their golden years. Remember, it's never too find love and meaningful connections. Whether you're re-entering the dating world after a divorce, or seeking companionship in your later years, we’ve got you c...

In the hustle and bustle of daily life, it's easy for the spark in a marital relationship to dim, but through intentional dating, couples can rediscover the joy of companionship. In this episode, we’ll explore the importance of prioritizing quality time together, shifting the focus away from parenthood, and infusing intimacy and excitement back into relationships.  From sharing meaningful conv...

In this episode, we’ll discuss how to be interesting to men. Picture yourself as the curator of your own narrative, weaving together diverse interests, engaging conversations, and a polished appearance. Remember that charm is about embracing and enhancing your unique characteristics.  Whether you're looking to ignite sparks in a new romantic relationship or simply aiming to leave a lasting imp...