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In this episode we will discuss one of the most significant milestones in any relationship: meeting the parents. This can be a nerve-wracking experience filled with anticipation and excitement. When is the right time? How can you make a positive impression? Whether you're in a new relationship or preparing to take that significant step, we’ve got you covered! Website: www.janisspindelmatchmake...

We often seek validation and fulfillment through relationships, hoping that someone else will complete us. The thing is, true happiness and fulfillment in relationships can only be achieved when you love yourself. Before you can fully give your heart to someone else, it's essential to love yourself unconditionally. It's not about being selfish or egotistical; it's about recognizing you...

In this episode, we'll discuss etiquette during the early stages of dating. From planning the date to handling the bill, we'll guide you through the initial dates with grace and poise. Whether you're confident in your manners or wondering how to improve your dating etiquette, we’ve got you covered. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspi...

Traveling alone is not just about exploring new places; it's an opportunity to get to know yourself and create memories that will shape your perception of the world. In this episode we will discuss the power of solo travel and its impact on personal growth, self-discovery, and romantice.  Who knows where love may bloom when you have the attitude that you can fall in love anywhere? Whether you&...

Ah, summer—the season of sun-kissed adventures and the promise of love is in the air. Summer is a time when sparks ignite and new connections sizzle under the golden sun. In this episode, we'll embrace the magic of summer love. We'll discuss summer flings and the potential for meaningful connections. Whether you're in a summer romance or yearning for that sweet summer connection, we’ve...

Have you ever had that feeling of nervousness at the idea of jumping into a serious relationship? Or, better yet, you're really hitting it off with someone, and just when you think things are going great, they pull back because the idea of commitment freaks them out. Well, guess what? You’re not alone! In this episode, we'll discuss the fear of commitment and tips and tricks to overcome it. Websit...

Dating isn't always rainbows, butterflies, and chemistry, sometimes, it's about recognizing when something isn't quite right and having the courage to address it. Breakups, especially in the early stages of dating, should respect the feelings of both parties and leave no room for misunderstandings. It's all about being honest, clear, and kind. So, whether you're currently facing this dilemma, or j...

Lingerie has often been associated with sensuality and romance, but whether or not to wear it is a personal decision that depends on your comfort level and desires. In this episode, we'll share tips to empower you to embrace your inner beauty, nurture your self-confidence, and enhance your intimate experiences. Whether you're a lingerie expert or someone who's just starting to explore, we’ve got y...

In this episode, we‘ll explore effective communication skills that are crucial for successful dating. We’ll provide you with tips and tricks for active listening, body language, showing genuine interest, and more!  So if you’re here to enhance your dating journey or build lasting connections, we’ve got you covered! Website: ⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠@janis...

In this episode, we'll discuss how to stand out from the crowd in the dating world. We’ll teach you the importance of confidence, authenticity, and embracing your uniqueness. We'll provide you with tips and tricks to make a lasting impression on your dates. So, if you’re new to dating, or been dating for awhile, we’ve got you covered!  Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Ins...

In this episode, we’ll discuss long distance relationships and how to make them thrive. In today's world, distance and separation have become all too common, and many couples find themselves in the challenging position of trying to maintain a meaningful relationship from afar. With the right strategies, it's possible to make long distance relationships work. So, whether you're in a lon...

In this episode, we’ll take you behind the scenes for an exclusive look into our world. With decades of experience helping people find love, we're excited to share with you the ins and outs of matchmaking. From how we find clients and matches, to the delicate situations we encounter, like delivering both good and bad news, we'll cover it all.  You’ll learn what it truly takes to be a succe...

Traveling with a new partner for the first time can be exciting and nerve-wracking. It's an opportunity to create new memories, deepen your connection, and explore new places together. It can also reveal new sides of each other and put your relationship to the test. In this episode we'll discuss some tips for traveling with a new partner for the first time. Website: www.janisspindelmatchma...

Red flags are warning signs that something may be wrong with the relationship or the person you are dating. In this episode, we'll discuss common red flags and tips on how to identify and avoid these red flags in your own dating life so that you can make healthier, happier relationship choices. Highlights (01:19) - Communication (lack of and too much) (02:39) - Dishonesty (03:47) - Hot and col...

In this episode, we'll share advice and tips for newly single, divorced, or widowed people who are ready to get back in the dating game and find love again. Whether you're nervous to be with someone new, wondering how to overcome your fear of rejection, or how to communicate your intentions to potential partners, we’ve got you covered. Episode highlights and timestamps can be found below. Highligh...

In the world of dating apps, it can be tough to make a memorable impression and stand out from the crowd. In this episode, we'll share tips and tricks to help you create a standout online dating profile that will increase your chances of finding love. From choosing the right photos to crafting an engaging bio, we've got you covered.  Highlights (01:04) - Which pictures you should include (...

In this episode, we will discuss how to be thoughtful in a relationship. Whether you're in a new relationship, have been together for awhile, or are married, there are always ways to show your partner that you care. We will provide tips on how to be thoughtful, from small, everyday acts of kindness to things you should avoid. We will teach you how to make your partner feel loved and appreciated. E...

In this episode, we explore age gap relationships. This type of relationship has been around for centuries, yet is still very controversial and misunderstood. Age gap relationships can be both beautiful and challenging, so it's important to understand both sides before you judge or enter into one. Episode highlights and timestamps can be found below. Highlights (01:02) - What is an age gap relatio...

In this episode, we'll discuss tips on how to get through a breakup or the loss of a partner. If you're widowed, going through a divorce, or recovering from a past relationship, the pain and emotions can be overwhelming. We will provide guidance on how to move forward in a healthy way. Episode highlights and timestamps can be found below. Highlights (00:59) - What should someone do to help them be...

When you’re single, you need to keep an open mind and have no shame when it comes to dating. In this episode, we will talk about how to have the mentality that anyone could be the man of your dreams. We will discuss how long and how serious it had to be to be considered off limits, how to turn a date into a friend, and how to expand your dating network. Episode highlights and timestamps can be fou...

First dates don't need to be stressful, they should be fun! On this episode, Janis and Carly will discuss the ideal first date and how to make a great first impression. First dates determine whether or not you have enough chemistry and attraction to go on a second date - keep them light and airy. Learn what topics to talk about and which to avoid, how long a first date should last, how much to...

In this episode we will discuss when you should sleep with someone for the first time. Sex is a big step in any relationship, and it’s important to make sure that you’re ready and comfortable with the person. This podcast will help you understand yourself and your partner, as well as navigate the pressures and considerations that come along with the decision to have sex for the first time. Episode...

It’s good to have standards, but you need to be open minded and give people a chance. On this episode, Janis and Carly will discuss realistic expectations and how to know if you're being too picky. Is he too short? Bald? Didn't go to the right school? Doesn't make enough money? How he makes you feel is what matters most. Learn about setting realistic non-negotiables and reasonable expectations. Ep...

Modern dating comes with complexities. In this episode, we will dive into the topic of "situationships," a term used to describe a type of undefined and casual relationship that falls somewhere between a traditional relationship and a one-night stand. We'll discuss what makes a situationship unique, the pros and cons of being in one, and how to navigate the confusing waters of this type of relatio...

On this episode, Janis and Carly will teach you how to prep for a first date so that you look and feel your best. Learn how to stand out, get him to ask you out, the perfect outfit, makeup, location, and more. Episode highlights and timestamps can be found below. Highlights: (01:12) - How to get a man to ask you out when you've been texting for awhile. (02:35) - The perfect first date: coffee, dri...