Our Love Sphere

In this episode, we will explore the challenging topic of reconnecting with an ex. Our pasts are often filled with chapters we've turned but never quite closed, so as you navigate the labyrinth of past relationships, you may find yourself thinking about rekindling an old flame.  This could be the rekindling of a high school sweetheart, reigniting a connection from your college days, or redisco...

In this episode, we'll discuss meeting his friends for the first time and building positive relationships. When you're in a relationship, the people your partner surrounds themselves with can significantly impact your life together. It's not just about casual introductions; it's about building meaningful connections and weaving yourself into his world. Whether you're single or...

In this episode, we will discuss the complex and often sensitive topic, the ticking biological clock. We'll dive into the concept of freezing eggs and how it's reshaping family planning. No matter what age you age you are, if you’re thinking about having children, we’ve got you covered! Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Ge...

In this episode, we will dive into the intricate web of plus ones. Bringing your date to social occasions is filled with thrilling moments, potential pitfalls, and a myriad of emotions. From weddings to work events, we'll navigate the etiquette and drama surrounding plus ones. If you’ve ever wondered when it's the right time to bring a plus one, or if you've found yourself in a dilemma...

Life is full of chapters. Some are filled with joy and love, and others... well, they teach you invaluable lessons. In this episode, we’ll address Dating After Divorce. For many, this can be a whirlwind of emotions. From tackling societal stigmas to ensuring you're 'conversation ready' for a dinner date — there's a lot to consider. Embrace your new journey with optimism and confide...

In this episode, we'll discuss that big, daunting, pack-up-your-life kind of move - out of state and into new territories for the love of your life. It's thrilling, nerve-wracking, and loaded with a mix of emotions. As with all great adventures, there are road bumps. How do you manage leaving behind friends and family? What about settling into a new job? Building a new circle of friends? A...

In this episode we'll dive into a subject that touches many people: the role of parental influence on our partner choices, especially during adulthood. While parents provide a unique perspective, everyone should find a balance between valuing that input and asserting their own feelings and opinions. Join us as we explore the delicate balance between honoring the invaluable insights of our pare...

Have you ever felt more... cuddly as the temperature drops? There might be a reason for that! Cuffing Season is that time of the year, typically during the colder months, when singles find themselves longing for a partner to cozy up with. It's that time of the year when many people have an urge to be ‘cuffed’ or tied down by a serious relationship. Think of it as nature’s way of saying, ‘It’s...

There are many different types of relationships, some are monogamous, and others are not. Ethical non-monogamy, or ENM, refers to a relationship where one or both partners are allowed to have multiple partners. Although we have never had a client looking for this type of relationship, we have had clients who have asked if they can see two women at the same time. It is important to communicate what...

The thrill of a stolen glance across the boardroom, or a spontaneous after-work drink - dating in the workplace is a lot more common than you think! According to Forbes, over 60% of people have had romance in the workplace. From the highs of romantic lunches to the lows of awkward elevator rides post-breakup, workplace romance sure is a rollercoaster. Love might be blind, but if you enter into wor...

Benching, ghosting, breadcrumbing – there's a whole dictionary of terms in today's dating world! In this episode, we’ll discuss benching, where someone keeps you in a state of uncertainty; close enough to stay connected but far enough to leave you wondering about their true intentions. What is benching exactly? Imagine being a player on a sports team, but you're never allowed off the b...

I’m sure you’ve heard the saying “actions speak louder than words,” and it’s true! It's not just about what someone says; it's about what they do that truly reveals their intentions and commitment.  In this episode, we’ll discuss actions to look out for that show  interest, build trust, and foster a deep connection. Whether you’re newly dating someone, or ready to get back out there, we’ve...

We meet so many women who miss out on the opportunity of a great man simply because he lacks a plan. But here's the question: If everything else about him is perfect, would you be willing to teach him?  In this episode we'll explore taking the lead, setting non-negotiables, and gracefully encouraging the man to step up without being aggressive. Whether you’ve met a great man who lacks a pl...

In this episode we will discuss one of the most significant milestones in any relationship: meeting the parents. This can be a nerve-wracking experience filled with anticipation and excitement. When is the right time? How can you make a positive impression? Whether you're in a new relationship or preparing to take that significant step, we’ve got you covered! Website: www.janisspindelmatchmake...

We often seek validation and fulfillment through relationships, hoping that someone else will complete us. The thing is, true happiness and fulfillment in relationships can only be achieved when you love yourself. Before you can fully give your heart to someone else, it's essential to love yourself unconditionally. It's not about being selfish or egotistical; it's about recognizing you...

In this episode, we'll discuss etiquette during the early stages of dating. From planning the date to handling the bill, we'll guide you through the initial dates with grace and poise. Whether you're confident in your manners or wondering how to improve your dating etiquette, we’ve got you covered. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspi...

Traveling alone is not just about exploring new places; it's an opportunity to get to know yourself and create memories that will shape your perception of the world. In this episode we will discuss the power of solo travel and its impact on personal growth, self-discovery, and romantice.  Who knows where love may bloom when you have the attitude that you can fall in love anywhere? Whether you&...

Ah, summer—the season of sun-kissed adventures and the promise of love is in the air. Summer is a time when sparks ignite and new connections sizzle under the golden sun. In this episode, we'll embrace the magic of summer love. We'll discuss summer flings and the potential for meaningful connections. Whether you're in a summer romance or yearning for that sweet summer connection, we’ve...

Have you ever had that feeling of nervousness at the idea of jumping into a serious relationship? Or, better yet, you're really hitting it off with someone, and just when you think things are going great, they pull back because the idea of commitment freaks them out. Well, guess what? You’re not alone! In this episode, we'll discuss the fear of commitment and tips and tricks to overcome it. Websit...

Dating isn't always rainbows, butterflies, and chemistry, sometimes, it's about recognizing when something isn't quite right and having the courage to address it. Breakups, especially in the early stages of dating, should respect the feelings of both parties and leave no room for misunderstandings. It's all about being honest, clear, and kind. So, whether you're currently facing this dilemma, or j...

Lingerie has often been associated with sensuality and romance, but whether or not to wear it is a personal decision that depends on your comfort level and desires. In this episode, we'll share tips to empower you to embrace your inner beauty, nurture your self-confidence, and enhance your intimate experiences. Whether you're a lingerie expert or someone who's just starting to explore, we’ve got y...

In this episode, we‘ll explore effective communication skills that are crucial for successful dating. We’ll provide you with tips and tricks for active listening, body language, showing genuine interest, and more!  So if you’re here to enhance your dating journey or build lasting connections, we’ve got you covered! Website: ⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠@janis...

In this episode, we'll discuss how to stand out from the crowd in the dating world. We’ll teach you the importance of confidence, authenticity, and embracing your uniqueness. We'll provide you with tips and tricks to make a lasting impression on your dates. So, if you’re new to dating, or been dating for awhile, we’ve got you covered!  Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Ins...

In this episode, we’ll discuss long distance relationships and how to make them thrive. In today's world, distance and separation have become all too common, and many couples find themselves in the challenging position of trying to maintain a meaningful relationship from afar. With the right strategies, it's possible to make long distance relationships work. So, whether you're in a lon...

In this episode, we’ll take you behind the scenes for an exclusive look into our world. With decades of experience helping people find love, we're excited to share with you the ins and outs of matchmaking. From how we find clients and matches, to the delicate situations we encounter, like delivering both good and bad news, we'll cover it all.  You’ll learn what it truly takes to be a succe...