Now That You Ask

Finding and sharing our unique gifts freely, for the pure joy it, is one of the best things in life. In this episode, I reflect the importance of what we scatter in life. From cooking for friends to surprising a stranger with an unexpected gift, these acts have brought immense joy to both others and myself. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and fro...

I like to explore various interpretations of light, from the physical illumination of morning and evening to the metaphorical guidance it provides in my life. And if you're open to it, I highly encourage you also embrace the universe's light in all its forms as a source of fun, fulfillment, and personal growth. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and...

I have a deep connection with a specific oak tree near my home. Despite its inaccessibility across a creek, I regularly visit this stately tree, which offers me comfort and solace. This tree, standing tall through the years, has become a touchstone of peace and strength in my life, offering a unique and intimate form of reassurance. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range fro...

I love a good quote. Quotes provide me with wisdom and humor for navigating life. In this episode, I share a few of my favorite quotes and reflections on the importance of manners, uniqueness, and the balance between desire and practicality. What is your favorite quote? Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downright whacky. Join h...

Food is one way I stay anchored to my sense of home, despite living in California. A recent visit to a barbecue restaurant rekindled memories of authentic Southern fish and hush puppies, and invoked nostalgia for the tastes of my childhood. From the unique flavor of fried catfish to the treasured tradition of homemade dishes during winter holidays, the rich and comforting food heritage of the Sout...

I am struggling with getting older. Perhaps you can relate? These days physical limitations along with an erosion of patience have really impacted my daily life and my ability to enjoy activities. Travel has become a challenge, and finding comfort has shifted from exploring new places to staying home. Lately, I find comfort in the stability and peace of home. I think maybe it’s what I sought all a...

Maintaining a sense of humor and a positive outlook can help alleviate anxiety over everyday forgetfulness and mishaps, especially as we age. From misplacing objects to embracing overcooked food, I share how finding the silver lining in life's little challenges keeps my spirits up and contributes to a more fulfilling life. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to...

I recently visited Homeboy Industries, the world's largest gang rehabilitation and reentry program. It was a deeply impactful experience journeying through their facilities in downtown Los Angeles and seeing firsthand the remarkable transformations and supportive atmosphere cultivated by Father Gregory Boyle. From the exceptional service at Homegirl Cafe to the heartwarming stories of resilience a...

Keeping up with technology is a challenge, isn't it? Just when I think I am understanding the world of tech (and my iPhone), I'm blindsided by something new like artificial intelligence. I will get to the bottom of A.I. eventually but for now it has me stumped. Listen in as I reflect on the rapid pace of technological change and the importance of staying connected in the modern world. Now That You...

Highfalutin words have the uncanny ability to draw us in. They can serve both to educate and occasionally to obfuscate. My love for reading and sophisticated phrasing takes me through historical romances and even into the realms of vampire fiction when history becomes too bleak. Listen in as I muse on my fascination with words and the impact vocabulary has on personal enrichment. Now That You Ask...

Life has recently showered me with unexpected beauty and grace, with experiences that felt like pure gifts from the universe. From meaningful conversations with loved ones to spontaneous moments of connection and memory, each event has deepened my gratitude and love for the world around me. These beautiful occurrences have reminded me to savor each moment and to hold onto the wonder and kindness t...

Horse people are a community unto their own. My dear friend Nancy, a passionate horsewoman, is the one introduced me to the world of horses and riding about 20 years ago. It's quite remarkable how much there is to learn and master when it comes to riding and Nancy loved every aspect of it. Despite my initial apprehension towards horses due to a childhood incident, I have found joy in witnessing Na...

Memorials are a beautiful way to honor and remember loved ones. They come in various forms like statues, gardens, or services, each holding a special place in our hearts. Attending a recent memorial service for a dear friend brought unexpected comfort and uplifted my spirits. Witnessing the love and memories shared by family members and friends painted a vivid picture of a life well-lived. Despite...

I find myself torn between conflicting aspects of my personality. Despite enjoying action-packed movies and occasionally feeling frustrated with others, I strive to be kind-hearted and helpful. I acknowledge the importance of self-preservation but also the joy of being of service to others when opportunities arise. At the end of the day, life's unpredictability offers me hope that I can continue t...

As I navigate through the everyday nuisances that life presents, I find myself entangled in a web of frustrations that range from unexpected moisture on my body parts to the challenges of organization and memory. Join me on a reflective journey as I unravel the comedy of errors that make up my daily life. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from...

You've probably heard the expression, "They're doing doing the best they can with what they've got." In this episode, I find myself reflecting on the concept of doing my best and exploring the depths my values and traits. Through this exploration, I uncover aspects of myself that I often overlook. Acknowledging my strengths, I strive to be true to who I am and embrace the qualities that shape my i...

I'm on a quest for stability in life. I'm starting by focusing on strengthening neglected muscles at the gym. From my ankles to my core, each part of my body presents its own unique challenges and victories. As I push myself to improve and grow stronger, I am also finding a deep sense of fulfillment and pride. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and...

I am a quitter. I never thought I would write those words but I find myself "quitting" things like being a strict follower of commitments and instead allowing myself the freedom to turn away from things that don't resonate with me. In this episode, I share experiences from my past, and my thoughts on the importance of honoring my inner voice and prioritizing personal well-being. Now That You Ask i...

I have a long-standing tradition of visiting the farmer's market, where I support hardworking farmers and enjoy the quality of their just-picked fruits and vegetables. There's Eddie and his exceptional fruit selection and then there's the market's corn booth, where the sweet corn reminds me of Alabama's produce. But I especially love "bossy produce" that captivates me with its flavors and insisten...

The names I give myself have evolved over time, from self-criticism to self-empowerment. Embracing solitude and self-care has been essential in helping me navigate through the self-doubt and writing has become a therapeutic outlet, allowing me to reflect on life experiences and cherish the journey towards self acceptance. At this stage of my life, I aim to document my unique adventures and thought...

Laughter has had a profound impact in my life. It is a transformative force that uplifts spirits, strengthens friendships, and brings a sense of gratitude and lightness. I believe genuine laughter is vital in creating intimate connections and finding joy in life's unpredictable moments. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downrig...

I find it amazing how quickly my mood can shift. From moments of anger and sadness to finding myself amidst a full-blown storm of emotions, I realize that change is inevitable and that I have the resilience to navigate through life's unexpected turns. By acknowledging my ability to adapt and grow, I learn to appreciate the journey of self-discovery and embrace the shifts that shape my existence. N...

What do you do when you're feeling overwhelmed and disconnected? Seeking support, I recently opened up to a friend about my deepest fears and anxieties and I found solace in their listening without judgment. Embracing vulnerability, I discovered the power of self-acceptance and reaching out for help. This experience helped me navigate towards self-discovery and gratitude and I found a sense of dir...

What daily conveniences are you most grateful for? I can think of plenty. From hot water and coffee to light and air-conditioning, each convenience enhances my daily experiences and adds to my gratitude. There was a time when maybe I couldn't say as much and that only makes me more grateful - for both my past experiences and how they've led me to where I am today. Now That You Ask is a podcast tha...

My understanding of what it means to truly find where I belong is always evolving. In my relationships, career choices, and self-acceptance, the quest to find my place has been an enlightening journey and has lead me to fully embrace my unique quirks and qualities. These days, I celebrate the sense of contentment and fulfillment that comes with accepting myself and finding peace in where I am in t...