Note to Self

#69. Think: slow, intentional living. We're in our European-girl era now. Payton discusses what she has learned from traveling abroad and how she is incorporating aspects of European life into her day-to-day.   SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE MEMBERS COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self   FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    https://www.tiktok.com/@payt...

#68. Through the ups-and-downs and confusion of our 20s, sometimes we’re able to do a few things RIGHT, even if by accident. Today, Payton shares the 10 best things she’s done for herself in her 20s so far, whether on purpose or not. We’re getting specific.   SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE MEMBERS COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self   FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram....

#67. Payton sits down with ex-roomie, Taylor King (AKA TK), to catch up, discuss the trials & tribulations of your mid-20s, & talk about future plans.   FOLLOW TK:  https://www.instagram.com/tksjuicypolls/   https://www.tiktok.com/@tksjuicypolls   https://www.youtube.com/c/TaylorKing     FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain   https://y...

#66. In this installment of Ask P, Payton is answering questions like "is an ex an ex for a reason?" and "how do you deal with feeling overwhelmed and lost in your 20s?" We'll talk about f*ck boys, a cheater & approach a question about mental health.   FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain   https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh   SUBMIT TO...

#65. Everyone’s favorite espresso martini entrepreneurs join Payton to talk building a business with your bestie, crafting the perfect canned espresso ‘tini, the 5 AM club & more.   FOLLOW PAYTON:   https://instagram.com/paytonsartain   https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain    https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh   SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:   → Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYy...

#64. We’re reading listeners’ creepy, spooky stories in this special, Halloween-themed episode. Payton brings on her bestie, Emon Abdullah, to talk paranormal activity, alien-encounters, & home-invaders (and a haunted prank or two).    FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain   https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh   SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF: →...

#63. Payton has her boyfriend, Joe Ross, on the podcast to help read listener’s simple pleasures. The two discuss their recent, chaotic move and life in Los Angeles, as well as share little, easy ways to make your life feel luxurious today.    FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh   FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagra...

#62 Ragan Lake, Body Contouring Specialist at Skin DC, is on NTS to answer listener questions about popular body contouring treatments. Payton shared her experience with the treatments & the two discuss the ins and outs of the procedure.   FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh   FOLLOW PAYTON:   https://instag...

#61. In this episode, Payton is talking about how to be okay with quitting things that don't excite or serve you anymore.   FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh   FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain  SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF: → Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8  → Simple Pleas...

#60. Payton answers listener questions in another installment of ASK P. In this episode, we talk about how to keep it cool in the early stages of dating, address the feeling of loneliness many of us fear, meet a groom-zilla, and more.   FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps & https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod   FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain   YouTube video: ht...

#59. You submitted your juiciest confessions, and Payton brings her friend Kimberly Landa on the pod to read them. The two also confess some of their most shameful moments & decisions. Get ready for some major tea.   FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps & https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod   FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    YouTube video: https://youtu.be/...

#58. Have your anti-depressants thrown your libido out of whack? Payton is sharing her experience with maintaining sex & intimacy in her relationship while taking medication for anxiety & depression. We’re discussing foreplay, patience, communication, & indulgence in this episode.    Article Mentioned: https://bit.ly/3AMYSag   FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps & ht...

#57. How does one move forward with confidence when the future is so unclear? We’re talking tangible tips to slow down, reconnect with self, and trust the universe (or whatever God you believe in). Also, Payton is sharing where she’s moving next month.    Pinterest Board: https://pin.it/3rEDrKi   FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps & https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod   FOLLOW PA...

#56. Joe (Boyfriend-of-the-Pod) joins Payton to answer listener questions about relationships (& situationships).   FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps & https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain  YouTube video: https://youtu.be/FPVs10QWwVw   SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF: → Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8  → Simp...

#55. We’re talking boundary-setting, self-confidence, and your step-by-step guide for entering your villain era.    Villain Era Resources:   Playlist - https://spoti.fi/3drxIOf   Pinterest Board - https://pin.it/7v0Rebl   Style Board Example - https://pin.it/tOoAFQb   Beauty Board Example - https://pin.it/5P7jl1m   Amazon List - https://amzn.to/3C9YSUh   REVOLVE List - https://bit.ly/3AozTu3     F...

Payton sits down with Lindsey Carter, founder & CEO of SET Active and host of the Ready, Set, Spill! podcast, to discuss finding your path, building a community-driven brand & setting boundaries on social media.   FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps & https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod   FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain      YouTube video: https://youtu....

#53. In this episode, long-time influencer and "What We Said" podcast host, Jaci Marie Smith, is talking about the *secret* to success on TikTok and her content-creation process. Payton & Jaci, your favorite Capricorns alive, discuss setting boundaries IRL & online, and their significant others' opinions of their online personas.     FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps &...

#52.  Payton sits down with friend Kimberly Landa to teach you how to have your best breakup ever. We’re talking breakup phases, sharing tangible tips, and going through a hefty list of dos & don’ts for heartbreak.     FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps & https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod   FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain      YouTube video: https://youtu...

#51. In this episode, with guest & TikTok girlie, Mary Skinner, we’re talking about the insidious side of going viral on social media. Mary opens up about how to grow on Tiktok, taking care of your mental health on social media and her badass security clearance??? We cover lots of ground in this episode.   FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps & https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfp...

#50. Payton is back on antidepressants and living her best life. In this episode, we’re talking about mental health, judging ourselves and reframing the narrative around taking medication for depression & anxiety.   FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps & https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod   FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    YouTube video: https://youtu.be/F...

#49. How do I sustain a long distance relationship over the course of 3 years? How do I get myself excited for a move to a big city? He’s a really nice guy, but I’m not attracted to him… is that superficial? Payton answers these questions in today’s episode of ASK P, a monthly advice column series.    FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps & https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod FOLLOW...

#48. We’re talking about the overturn of Roe v Wade and what that means for women in the United States.    ORGANIZATIONS & RESOURCES https://www.ineedana.com https://abortionfunds.org   https://www.plancpills.org   https://www.plannedparenthood.org   https://prochoice.org   https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRdeNCWq/?k=1     MADE ME THINK https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRdJgj1v/?k=1 https://www.tiktok.com/...

#47. In today’s episode, Payton is joined by her boyfriend, Joe Ross. The two are reading through your most embarrassing stories and sharing a few of their own along the way.    FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps & https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod   FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:   → Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4i...

#46. In this *extremely honest* solo episode, Payton speaks on the topic of hyper-independence in dating & relationships. Being independent is great, but is being TOO independent slightly toxic? Let’s chat about it.   FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps & https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod   FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:   → Ask...

#45. In this episode, Payton sits down with her Father, former fighter pilot and Air Force veteran Christiaan Sartain, to discuss finding your fuel and the importance of good ol’ fashion work. The two talk family life, fighter jets, and answer listener questions about the military experience.   FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps & https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod   FOLLOW PAYT...