NOT FOR MY VILLAGE PEOPLE- Esther A

This episode is for anyone who knows they’re called to more… but keeps getting stuck in the cycle of starting and stopping. 💡 Spoiler: You don’t need perfect days — you need committed ones. Because your goals don’t respond to feelings, they respond to action. Quotable Moments from the Episode : “Your dream is only as strong as your daily discipline.” “You can’t want the throne and still move like...

Everyone wants the soft life, but are you ready for the hard work that comes with it? In this episode of Not For My Village People , we unpack the truth behind the glow-up How pressure shapes purpose, and why the soft life is often the reward for surviving the grind. If you’re feeling the heat, this one’s for you. Listen, reflect, and stay motivated. The glow hits different when you’ve seen the da...

Who’s your first call when life happens the good, the bad, or the in-between? In this episode, i dive into the complexities of loneliness, connection, and the masks we wear every day. Can we truly be ourselves around others, or are we hiding behind what society expects of us? We’ll talk about the power of meaningful relationships, the value of solitude, and why the appearance of extroversion doesn...

As we close out 2024, this episode is a heartfelt reflection on the year. its challenges, surprises, and hidden blessings. Sometimes, life feels overwhelming, like there’s no clear path forward. But if you look closer , you’ll see the miracles, answered prayers, and strength you’ve gained along the way. This isn’t just about surviving 2024, t’s about recognising how it’s prepared you to thrive in...

What does it mean to live boldly in a world that often tries to hold us back? In this episode, we dive into the power of audacity; the courage to take risks, explore new paths, and simply exist unapologetically. ✨ Highlights: Overcoming fear to try, even when the odds feel stacked against you. Taking risks that lead to transformation. Exploring uncharted territories within yourself and your life....

P - Passing O - Over O - Opportunties R - Repeatedly "if you do not aspire you will expire" "To the mum who is juggling 1,000 things and still feels like it’s not enough – I see you. You are more than enough. Your love, even in your moments of doubt, is shaping the most beautiful memories for your children. Let go of the guilt and know you’re doing an amazing job." I hope you enjoy this episode as...

Life's journey is like a RAG report—moments of Red when things feel tough, Amber when you're navigating transitions, and Green when you finally thrive. No matter where you are, keep moving forward; even in the Red, there's growth." Don’t forget : Drop a comment and tell me your life’s RAG moment! Check me out on Instagram @notformyvillagepeople_podcast Smash that reminder button so you’re always n...

This episode is a follow up from someone else's perspective on how they handle a past trauma and testimony from a traumatic event they went through. Esther Fashanu shared her fertility experience and how it's shamed her now, her relationship with her husband and her output on life generally. Remember Trauma pushes but where is yours pushing you to? Is it to Ruins, Repair or Restoration? Check out...

In this episode, I talked about Trauma and how it sometimes pushes us into or from something. What is your's pushing you to? What is your's pushing you from? Please check out @stylebydamilola @luxeimperial_studio on Instagram. Show them some love and check out the great work they are doing. Let's start by talking about how trauma can push us toward things. For some, trauma fuels ambition. Maybe yo...

Life Doesn’t Forgive" – a reminder that every choice we make has the potential to define our path. In this episode, we're talking about intentional decisions—decisions that consider the present, the possibilities of tomorrow, and the potential of our future. "Every decision can make us or break us, catapult us to new heights, or pull us down." Join me as we unpack the weight of our choices, aiming...

Grief is deeply personal, and each person's experience is unique. Even with the best intentions, it's easy to unintentionally say something that could hurt or minimize what someone is going through. In moments of grief, offering quiet support, listening without judgment, and being there without pushing for conversation or offering quick fixes is often the most valuable way to help. Compassionate p...

I miss you all...my imaginary friends. Just an episode to get back into the groove of recording again. you all know I love doing this, so if you still listen to the girl going through healing and sharing her lessons learnt at the same time, then thank you for listening. Show some love and send a message or like or share to help me know you are not imaginary and you are a real person. you can still...

This is the conclusion of the last episode where I invited my sisters and mum to join me in sharing our separation story and living through our parents journey of greener pastures. The consequences and our lessons learnt, hoping that it helps a family about to or currently going through this same experience. "Separating families inflicts wounds that time alone cannot heal. It leaves scars on heart...

In this episode I invited my sisters and mum to join me in sharing our separation story and living through our parents journey of greener pastures. The consequences and our lessons learnt, hoping that it helps a family about to or currently going through this same experience. "Separating families inflicts wounds that time alone cannot heal. It leaves scars on hearts and minds, forever altering the...

Remember setbacks don't define your abilities. Focus on small wins and gradually build your confidence step by step. In this episode I shared some personal stories and empathy to those going through it right now, I understand and you are not alone. You can't be 100% everyday. This will pass. Confidence is a journey not a destination. Emvbrace setbacks, celebrate small wins and cultivate a positive...

This episode covers a reflection of 2023 with some of my lessons learnt including books that did it for me in 2023 as well as quotes that I resonated with in 2023 "You can't change someone by loving them harder" Seasons come and go remember to behave and not misbehave in each season because when you misbehave you will reap it in the next season. It will determine how you move and succeed in the ne...

"Gratitude is the healthiest of all human emotions. The more you express gratitude for what you have, the more likely you will have even more to express gratitude for." - Zig Ziglar Thank you for tuning in. Remember, no matter the circumstances, there's always something to be grateful for. In this episode I shared my gratitude looking at how far and well God treated me in 2023 and a few of the gra...

"Who knows you" is more than familiarity; it's the fabric of your connections. The value lies not just in recognition but in understanding, support, and a network that can uplift and empower you in ways you might not even realise. It's about fostering genuine connections that resonate with your authentic self, creating a tapestry of relationships that can shape, guide, and enrich your journey thro...

In this Episode I covered the normalising asking for help. Asking for help allows you to tap into collective knowledge and resources, gaining different perspectives and insights. Asking for help can foster growth, learning, and better problem-solving.

After all is said and done and the goal you worked so hard for has been achieved, what do you do? You spend a year working on your goal and 24hrs after you've achieved your goal you have another intense goal on your list to start working on. In this episode i talked about feeling empty after reaching a goal and how to be more aware before you fall into the empty net of nothing after achieving your...

A very short episode to remind you all about it. Pray for your loved ones. When things go well for them you will be happy but when it isn't you will be affected too. Loving someone requires you to include them in your prayers too. Just a reminder Please don't forget to share, like and rate this podcast.

In this episode, i covered my experience with Exhaustion. The goal is never to go back here and to help someone understand exhaustion is a thing and it's not the same as being Tired. Get some rest SistersMisters Ever been EXHAUSTED? The truth is when you are exhausted you can’t do nothing. Whatever tired you out, you can’t attend to it when you are exhausted. REST is a love language too. Loving yo...

West African WeddingsGist about my recent experience renewing my 11years marriage vows and the African way culture shock. With some jokes and fun to go with it

It's Episode 30 People!!!!!!West African WeddingsGist about photographers, event planners and some of my lessons learnt. Myself and my husband decided to renew our vows in an African WeddingI style and there were a lot of lessons to be learnt. From planning, to expenses, to outfits to guests. So excited to share it with you all. Don't forget to share like and drop your comments.

Your true potential is supposed to be an activity that you can do amazingly with minimal effort. Unconscious Choices vs. Conscious Choices Growth often occurs outside your comfort zone. Challenge yourself to take calculated risks and explore new opportunities. Each decision you make contributes to the masterpiece that is your unique existence. So, choose wisely, embrace the power of conscious choi...