NOT FOR MY VILLAGE PEOPLE- Esther A

In this episode, I talked about Fixing what's broken in any areas of life. Steps to take and how to go about it using some examples from my personal life as usual. Fixing what is broken is of paramount importance in various aspects of life, whether it's related to objects, systems, relationships, or personal development. Kindly share, rate and drop your comments. I'd love to here your thoughts on...

In this episode I talked about my wake up call to lack of refuelling that affected me a great deal. Here is your reminder to feed your mind and soul as much as you feed your body. Happiness depends on your mindset and your attitude. Positive synergy gives you a more hopeful outlookDon't forget to share, follow, like and leave your comments.

In this episode I talked about some of the challenges of working with GenZ , like a lot of leaders are currently going through. NOTE: I understand not all GenZ are like this. But as you all know, I like to share and keep it real on my thoughts and after all it's my experience and some other people's experiences that I have been privileged to knowing. Leadership or Leading can sound exciting but so...

You can't do it but not everything a ones. Here is an episode on the impact of change from a new mum's perspective. The impact of change from a working new mum's perspective can be significant and multifaceted. Becoming a new mother brings about various changes in a woman's life, both personally and professionally. It involves a mix of emotional, physical, professional, and personal challenges. Su...

Potentially my 1st rant episode....If you're aware that you're failing at something, that's already a step in the right direction. Recognizing your shortcomings and seeking advice shows a willingness to grow and improve. As usual this is a gentle reminder that everyone fails at some point, but it's how you respond to failure that truly matters. Stay positive, be proactive, and continue striving fo...

Here is another episode on the Who did you date series from a divorcee's perspective. My guest on this episode talked about what's she's been through as a divorcee trying to believe in Love again and putting herself out there. "it's ok to be afraid. But don't get stuck there. Have the courage to start over again"

Here is another episode on NFMVP on the who did you date series. With some stories from some of my listeners and a guest who joined to give some additional Tea on her personal dating experience. Don't forget to like share and follow this podcast. Thank you for your love

Who did you date? On this episode I had a guest who asked to remain anonymous who shared her dating experience and lessons she's learnt on her journey to wholesomeness She said "I felt like I was the price for him" Hopefully this episode will teach you the importance of leaving a relationship that you know isn't serving you. Don't forget to like share and follow this podcast. Thank you for your lo...

Emotional baggage can influence our decision-making process in various ways. Baggage can create fears and limiting beliefs that hold us back from pursuing our goals or taking risks. It can can lead to patterns of self-sabotage, where we unconsciously undermine our own success or well-being. Unresolved emotions from the past can be triggered in present situations, leading to heightened emotional re...

Throughout eternity, I have been acquainted with numerous tales from both women and men regarding their encounters in the world of dating. It occurred to me that discussing these experiences on NFMVP might be quite intriguing. If you have any interest in being featured in this series, please feel free to reach out by sending an email to notformyvillagepeople@gmail.com. Rest assured, if you prefer...

Remember that carrying yourself well does not mean conforming to a particular mold or pretending to be someone you're not. It's about being true to yourself, displaying confidence, respect, and professionalism, and treating others with kindness and empathy. This episode touches up on the importance as well as why it is important to carry yourself well in preparation for the future you are working...

After recording Episode 10 and reflecting on my progress, I decided to connect with a few individuals to hear about their personal journeys up to the present. This is meant to inspire those listening, reminding them that tomorrow holds the potential for change and that the path traveled is necessary to reach their desired goals. And amidst it all, let's not overlook how far you've come. "you are s...

After recording Episode 10 and reflecting on the progress made, I decided to connect with a few individuals to hear about their personal journeys up to the present. This is meant to inspire those listening, reminding them that tomorrow holds the potential for change and that the path traveled is necessary to reach their desired goals. And amidst it all, let's not overlook how far you've come since...

A chat with Jide Onikoyi. The 1st guest on this podcast. We discussed What it means to be a man and societal expectations affecting men......... I think being a man or becoming a man and or what it is to be a man has changed since the time of my father( I am in my 30s). But while the world is evolving and change is one of the most constant thing in life; it seems the meaning of manhood isn’t chang...

To bring a light atmosphere back to the podcast after Eps12 & 13 here is my travel experience to Turkey(Dalaman) that felt like a trip to a different Era.

Dealing with MiscarriageThe trouble with miscarriage is that most people don't understand what it is you've actually lost. I've lost my babies. I've lost the ability to be excited about pregnancy. I've lost trust in my body, in hospitals and in statistics. Most of all I've lost faith, in myself and in the future.#NotForMyVillagePeople

Dealing with miscarriageBefore I carried the pain, I carried you, and in my heart I carry you still. coping with miscarriage can be a challenging and emotionally distressing experience. It's important to know that it is possible to have a healthy pregnancy after a miscarriage, and many women go on to have successful pregnancies in the future.#NotForMyVillagePeople

Can broken people heal? Are you in therapy? When is your book coming out? Those are some of the question I get asked from time to time. Broken people can certainly help others heal, but it is important for them to prioritize their own healing and well-being first and approach the situation with empathy, understanding, and appropriate boundaries.#NotForYourVillagePeople

Do you want to be seen? If you want to be seen for who you are, here re a few things I have always done and I am starting to see the results of consistency: Be authentic Communicate openly Build meaningful relationships with people who accept and appreciate you for who you are. Take time to reflect on your thoughts, feelings, and actions. Be patient: Rome was not built in a day. #NotForYourVillage...

Friendship - Appreciate Your FriendsFriendship is an important part of life, and appreciating your friends can strengthen your relationships and make them more meaningful. Here are some ways to appreciate your friends: Let your friends know how much you appreciate them. Spending time with your friends. Be a good listener Celebrate milestones Offer your support when needed

Bitter Truth & RealityThe bitter truth an reality are often closely related concepts. Reality refers to the state of things as they actually exist, without any subjective interpretation or bias. The bitter truth can be seen as a harsh or unpleasant aspect of reality that may be difficult to accept or deal with. Accepting reality and the bitter truths provide clarity and help us move forward wi...

You've come a long way. You are stronger than you think, you've come a long way. You should be proud of what you have accomplished and achieved so far.#NotForMyVillagePeople

In every generation there is a chosen one. ''Legacy is not what I did for myself. It's what I am doing for the next generation.'' You can Inherit more than those beautiful jaw line, nose, blue eyes, red succulent lips but what are you doing to change the narratives for the next generation? The choices you make today will affect generations to come.#NotForMyVillaPeople

In this episode I am talking about life season. Different seasons and the need to learn from the period when we are going through hell. Seasons are necessary for a reason. But I don't regret it - they are my invisible scars - if i don't tell you, you will never know. The truth is I have learnt a lot and I am still learning. Season have taught me the meaning of friendship and the types I want in my...

Welcome to episode 3 where love is in the air with a valentine's day special message of thanks for all the love. The plan is to touch up on all the areas of my life and other fascinating and thought provoking issues. Even though I might cringe at times at the things I say and my *H-factor might(will) rear its ugly head once in a while, I'm ready to take on this challenge and I hope my listeners ar...