Not For Everyone

Not For Everyone

Health EN ↓ 170 episodes

Not for Everyone is a podcast hosted by a hater (Caroline Winkler) and a lover (Jess DeBakey). We're just two sweet kooks getting carried away being ourselves, waxing poetic on every topic we care too much about. Come for the humor, stay for the honesty. We know we’re not for everyone, but we bet we are for you.__Subscribe on Youtube and follow on Instagram: @not4everyonepod

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Latest episode

Apr 23, 2026

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Episodes

120. Your Biggest Icks, Our Hottest Takes: Irrational Reasons to Dump Every Last One of ‘Em 01.05.2025

This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit ⁠⁠ betterhelp.com/notforeveryone ⁠⁠ today to get 10% off your first month. __ Icks. We all have one, we all are one. Jess and Caroline read listener submissions that, quite frankly, are indefensible—but that’s the point. You can’t explain an ick. They talk about anything from men’s gross feet to people drinking full glasses of milk to someone bragging ab...

119. Not for Revenge + Why Does No One Prepare Us for Adult Siblings? 24.04.2025

Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code NOTFOREVERYONE at  Lumedeodorant.com ! #lumepod __ Babies, let’s talk about relationships! But not just romantic relationships—Jess and Caroline are going deep on how families deal with conflict, hanging out with friends without your partner, and how siblings affect us. You heard it here first: sibling relationships, an...

118. Not for Blushing Brides + Spooky Stories About Hypnosis & Trauma 17.04.2025

Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at ⁠https://www.skims.com/notforeveryone⁠ #skimspartner Stop putting off those doctors appointments and go to ⁠https://www.zocdoc.com/notforeveryone⁠ to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. __ It's a kooky day in the neighborhood as Jess and Caroline bounce through topics from maintaining bangs to hating at a bridal fitting to blush trends a...

117. Am I The Hater: Annoying Children, Demanding In-Laws, and Quiet Resentment 10.04.2025

This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit ⁠betterhelp.com/notforeveryone⁠ today to get 10% off your first month. Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code NOTFOREVERYONE at  Lumedeodorant.com ! #lumepod __ Ever wondered if you’re in the wrong? Jess and Caroline are talking through listener submissions for a new ~segment~ called “Am I the Hater?” to get to the...

116. Not for Rage Bait + The Real Reason Your Friends Never Take Your Advice 03.04.2025

Get up to 10 FREE meals at https://hellofresh.com/NOTFOREVERYONE10FM __ Hello babies! Have you ever flirted to get something you want? Jess starts the episode off talking about her trip to NYC and a flirting method she used to get her boyfriend on the flight back. This leads to a deeper conversation about seeing your partner flirt with someone else, how the cliches of “finding love” might be true,...

115. Not for Bodily Horrors + How to Get More From Your Relationships 27.03.2025

This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit betterhelp.com/notforeveryone today to get 10% off your first month. __ Well, there’s no easy way to say this: the episode just does start out with a lot of bathroom horror stories. But it’s human, babies!! You get it. Jess and Caroline talk about doctor’s office shenanigans, public bathroom woes, ancient Roman ways of using the bathroom, and a few of th...

114. Not for Therapy Speak + Behind the Scenes of a Hater Engagement (!!!) 20.03.2025

This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit https://www.betterhelp.com/notforeveryone today to get 10% off your first month. Stop putting off those doctors appointments and go to https://www.zocdoc.com/notforeveryone to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. __ Your hater and lover are back together again! After debriefing on the past two week’s episodes featuring friends, Caroline and...

113. Love Letter: How to Forgive and Forget in Friendship + Keeping Dating FUN in Your 30s | ft. My BFF Ekaette Obot 13.03.2025

Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/notforeveryone #skimspartner Start with 50% off your first box with code notforeveryone50 at https://get.everyplate.com/podcast . EveryPlate offer valid with auto-renewing subscription. __ Jess has told us the greatest stories about her best friend Kae, and now finally, Kae joins for a Love Letter episode! The two discuss maintaining...

112. Hater Hour: Overcoming Imposter Syndrome, Leaving Mormonism, and Making Adult Friendships | ft. Prince Abi Our Editor! 06.03.2025

It’s about time we had another Hater Hour…and in this episode, Caroline is joined by Not For Everyone Editor Prince Abi! They’ve got lots to say about listener submissions, including discussions about freelancing, working together while maintaining their friendship, building a life post-religion, making meaningful adult friend groups, and navigating romantic partnership dynamics. Plus, they read t...

111. Not For Yapping + Navigating Core Differences with Your Partner 27.02.2025

This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit https://www.betterhelp.com/notforeveryone today to get 10% off your first month. __ It’s time for a new segment! Introducing Am I The Hater, a take on Reddit’s famous Am I The Asshole threads, where listeners write in about moments where they can’t tell if they’re in the wrong. Jess and Caroline talk through a submitter’s conundrum of talking too much wh...

110. Ask A Therapist: Attachment Styles, Manifestation, and Friend Drama | ft. Carter Umhau, LMHC 20.02.2025

Go to ⁠⁠Zocdoc.com/NOTFOREVERYONE⁠⁠ to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. __ Carter's Events, Workshops, and 1-on-1s: - ARTIST'S WAY CREATIVITY COURSE: https://www.carterumhau.com/artists-way-course-page/ - 1-on-1 APPOINTMENTS: https://www.carterumhau.com/appointments-2- EVENTS: https://www.carterumhau.com/events- CONTACT: https://www.carterumhau.com/ - IG: @carterfleet. *** Boy, do...

109. Not for Thanking Beyoncé + The Misogynistic Trap of Relatability 13.02.2025

Get up to 10 FREE meals and a free high protein item for life at ⁠⁠https://hellofresh.com/notforeveryone10fm⁠⁠ . This show is sponsored by Skims. Check them out at https://www.skims.com/notforeveryone #skimspartner __ Look, the Grammys came and went, but don’t think for one minute Jess and Caroline are going to pass up a chance to talk about Beyoncé. C brings up a Beyoncé conspiracy theory, J brin...

108. Not for Wicked + Why Rage Quitting Isn’t the Answer 06.02.2025

This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit https://www.betterhelp.com/notforeveryone today to get 10% off your first month. __ Ever fantasized about rage quitting? You’re not alone. Jess and Caroline are discussing all things work this week, from the benefits of corporate jobs to balancing work with other projects to the spectrum of people’s working styles. Are you more of a “I take naps througho...

107. Not For Sharing a Bed + Let's Figure Out WHY You Feel Depleted 30.01.2025

Go to ⁠Zocdoc.com/NOTFOREVERYONE⁠ to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. Get up to 10 FREE meals and a free high protein item for life at ⁠https://hellofresh.com/notforeveryone10fm⁠ . __ Shall we start things off with a complaint? The answer is always yes. Jess and Caroline are really annoyed by the lack of good lamps in the world, which leads them to discuss finding their personal i...

106. Hot Takes Only: TikTok, Corporate Greed, and an Underrated Dating Red Flag 23.01.2025

Go to Zocdoc.com/NOTFOREVERYONE to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. __ This frigid winter really needs to go…so Jess and Caroline are bringing the heat. They collected a few listener hot takes to discuss on this week’s episode, including naps, TikTok, straight men who only have female friends, licking envelopes, passive aggressiveness, work colleagues, and airplane trash.  Unsurpr...

105. Not for Wife Guys + Blake Lively and the One Thing No One is Talking About 16.01.2025

This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit https://www.betterhelp.com/notforeveryone today to get 10% off your first month. This show is sponsored by Skims. Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/notforeveryone #skimspartner __ Coming off the holidays, Jess and Caroline talk tears, sibling rivalries, and myths about sensitivity. Amidst all the family stress, though, ther...

104. Not For TikTok Dances + Forgetting Your Pain is a Big Mistake 09.01.2025

You wanted sleepover vibes? You got it. This week, Caroline and Jess discuss how giving credence to your feelings actually helps you move through the hard stuff easier, while reminding you that the made-up meaning in conflict is the scary part. They talk about the point of college being exploration, and Jess ruminates on some a cappella experiences.  But first, ever heard of the technology adoptio...

103. WHATADO: Embracing Where You Are While Pursuing More in 2025 02.01.2025

Get up to 10 FREE meals and a free high protein item for life at https://hellofresh.com/notforeveryone10fm . __ Happy New Year, kooks! This week, Jess and Caroline discuss a few listener WHATADOs that revolve around goals for 2025. Think finding the right motivation, working through emotional dysregulation, starting a side hustle, and making peace with being single.  But of course, they talk about...

102. Not for Resentment + How to Believe You Deserve Affection 19.12.2024

This episode is sponsored by Hello Fresh. Get 10 FREE meals at https://hellofresh.com/freenotforeveryone. Shop SKIMS Holiday Shop at https://skims.com/notforeveryone. After you place your order, select "podcast" in the survey and select our show in the dropdown menu that follows. __ It’s the last episode of the year, and Jess and Caroline are feeling kooky. After circling back on owls, they discus...

101. Interrogating Our Boyfriends | Part TWO 12.12.2024

This episode is sponsored by Hello Fresh. Get 10 FREE meals at ⁠https://hellofresh.com/freenotforeveryone⁠. This episode is sponsored by Zocdoc. Go to ⁠https://zocdoc.com/notforeveryone/ to try it today. And make sure to check out our SECOND ANNIVERSARY APPAREL LAUNCH at ⁠https://nfepodapparel.com. 10% off with code SCIENTIST through December 16, 2024. __ Who’s ready for part two of all things dat...

100. How We Actually Found Love on the Apps | ft. Our Boyfriends 05.12.2024

Get up to 40% off at cozyearth.com/NOTFOREVERYONE . Use code NOTFOREVERYONE. And make sure to check out our SECOND ANNIVERSARY APPAREL LAUNCH at nfepodapparel.com . 10% off with code SCIENTIST through December 16, 2024. __ The boys are back in town! The kings to our kings (just go with it), Justin and Ryan, join Caroline and Jess to talk all about dating apps. Who better to discuss the apps than f...

99. Not For Pity Invites + Mini Adventures as Self Care 21.11.2024

Get 10 FREE meals at ⁠https://hellofresh.com/freenotforeveryone⁠ . Visit ⁠⁠skims.com⁠⁠ and let them know we sent you! Select Not For Everyone after checkout. Get up to 40% off at ⁠cozyearth.com/NOTFOREVERYONE⁠ . Use code NOTFOREVERYONE. __ This podcast is like a box of chocolates…you never know what you’re gonna get. Caroline and Jess discuss how adventure can be simply leaving the house, some of...

98. For You: Saying No. 14.11.2024

Babies…why is it so hard to say no? Jess and Caroline are going to break it down. First up, saying no to an old friend who you don’t vibe with anymore. Second, how to say no to your mom when she’s pushing religion on you. Third, how to say no to…yourself. They talk dynamics, they talk showing up calmly, they talk boundaries. And they push back when necessary. Plus, are they really scientists? They...

97. Not for the Silent Treatment + The Ups and Downs of Being Podcast Partners 07.11.2024

Who’s ready to get meta?! Jess and Caroline reflect on their podcast partnership—on their growth, their dynamic, and their challenges. They answer one of their most-asked questions: what was the process of picking each other as podcast partners? And liken the experience to a marriage. They discuss how they work out dilemmas in their personal relationships, the contrast between problem solving and...

96. Not for Pumpkins + Letting People Who Hurt You Back Into Your Life 31.10.2024

Visit https://cozyearth.com/notforeveryone and use our exclusive 40% off code NOTFOREVERYONE. __ Happy Halloween! Let’s complain about it. Jess opens the episode with a specific fall issue that needs to be aired, Caroline talks the dynamics of crafting, and then the two commiserate over their clumsiness, which has resulted in the breaking of sentimental items. Plus, neighborly decorum, coffee shop...

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