Not For Everyone

It’s Hater Hour up in here! But not just one hater; Caroline’s fiancé Justin is also joining the chat, and boy if he isn’t a sassy baby. The two start out by discussing some of Justin’s personal hates: the phrase “you’re allowed to feel that way” and people’s obsession with outer space. Then, a third hater joins: their cat, Whitley! They chat all about why they got the cat and what Whitley has mea...

Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://zocdoc.com/notforeveryone ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. __ Hello to our haters and lovers! Though today, the haters are really shining. Jess and Caroline read through a few listener submissions for their series Am I The Hater? Topics include taking a roommate’s absence personally, pointing out a friend’s boyfriend’s babyface, and canceling on attendi...

Get 10% off your first month at https://BetterHelp.com/NOTFOREVERYONE Check out the lace Fits Everybody Collection at ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://skims.com/notforeveryone #skimspartner __ If you find yourself looking back at high school and wondering…what was that? You’re not alone. Jess and Caroline start out the episode ruminating on the universal feeling of trying to fit in while feeling very alone at pivotal...

This episode is sponsored by Hello Fresh. Get up to 10 FREE meals at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://hellofresh.com/NOTFOREVERYONE10FM __ What’s up, kooks? Ever had a parasocial relationship? Us, too. Jess and Caroline discuss the creators they relate to, why those relationships are special, and why they’re kind of weird, too. Up next: a complaint! J has a weird retail experience, which leads the two to discuss the...

Hi there, kooks! This week, Caroline and Jess have a surprise party to debrief on. C was shocked to discover friends and family—including J—at her parent’s house, and is honestly still recovering. J tells her side of events and then the two discuss feeling loved and the best ways to pull off that sort of surprise. Then J reveals that she and her partner traded their traditional social roles at a p...

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.betterhelp.com/ NOTFOREVERYONE ⁠⁠⁠⁠ and get on your way to being your best self. Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://zocdoc.com/notforeveryone ⁠⁠⁠⁠ to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. __ House party! Jess is in town and she and Caroline record IN PERSON from Caroline’s living room. J finally gets the down low on C...

Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.skims.com/notforeveryone⁠⁠⁠⁠ #skimspartner __ Welcome to the N4E megachurch, kooks! Today, Jess and Caroline navigate the multiverse, exploring how reading and horror movies make them think of different versions of themselves on some parallel timeline, and how gamifying everything leads to some odd religious connections.  It truly is a mul...

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at ⁠⁠⁠https://www.betterhelp.com/ NOTFOREVERYONE ⁠⁠⁠ and get on your way to being your best self. This episode is sponsored by Hello Fresh. Get up to 10 FREE meals at ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://hellofresh.com/NOTFOREVERYONE10FM __ Feeling spicy? Perfect, because Jess and Caroline are ready to serve up a few hot takes. They discuss baristas compli...

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at ⁠⁠https://www.betterhelp.com/ NOTFOREVERYONE ⁠⁠ and get on your way to being your best self. __ Y’all! It’s time for the dumb phone update everyone’s been waiting for. Caroline and Jess talk through C’s transformative experience of being somewhat off the grid. They discuss all things phones and social media, from graphic design...

Welcome to the last Hot Not Bothered episode! Jess and Caroline tackle some difficult WHATADOs, answering questions about how to date after trauma, how to approach being the only one in your friend group who’s dating, and how to accept being “too much” in the dating world.  Plus, they talk about being wingmen, how to know if a relationship is good, themed get togethers, and the secret to letting l...

Go to ⁠⁠⁠https://zocdoc.com/notforeveryone ⁠⁠⁠ to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. __ Babies and gentlemen, boy have Jess and Caroline got a hack for feeling better! They talk about achieving small tasks, writing down your moods, and how both can help with ongoing crises.  Then, they dive into a listener submission asking about how to deal with all the emotions and panic of dating...

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at ⁠https://www.betterhelp.com/ NOTFOREVERYONE ⁠ and get on your way to being your best self. This episode is sponsored by Hello Fresh. Get up to 10 FREE meals at ⁠⁠⁠https://hellofresh.com/NOTFOREVERYONE10FM Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at ⁠⁠⁠https://www.skims.com/notforeveryone⁠⁠⁠ #skimspartner ___ Who’s ready to compla...

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://www.betterhelp.com/ NOTFOREVERYONE and get on your way to being your best self. __ In this episode, Jess and Caroline unpack the “red flags” that might not be red flags at all — or at least, not dealbreakers. What if your date has never been in a serious relationship? What if they voted differently than you in 2016? What...

This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠betterhelp.com/notforeveryone⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ today to get 10% off your first month. __ In this post-birthday solo episode, Jess is a changed woman. She shares the hacks she used to get the most of her time off, and one in particular might rock everything you've ever known about her. Then she turns to listener-submitted complaints, covering everything fr...

Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at ⁠⁠⁠https://www.skims.com/notforeveryone⁠⁠⁠ #skimspartner Go to ⁠⁠https://zocdoc.com/notforeveryone ⁠⁠ to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. __ It's the Hater Hour. In this spicy solo episode, Caroline tackles two listener dilemmas that are so deeply unhinged in the best way: “Comparing Myself to His Ex” and “Ghosting My BFF.” Ever found...

Get up to 10 FREE meals at ⁠⁠https://hellofresh.com/NOTFOREVERYONE10FM __ Kooks, we’ve got a fun one for you. First, Jess and Caroline discuss the perfect response to getting ghosted, which leads them into a deeper conversation about dealing with haters on the internet, and how C handles rude comments on YouTube.  Then, Jess talks about doing things slower, which leads to an epiphany about self ac...

This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠betterhelp.com/notforeveryone⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ today to get 10% off your first month. __ Remember the game Rush Hour? Ever feel like that’s just your day-to-day life? This week Jess is picking up exactly what Caroline is putting down, and if you’re anything like the two of them (i.e. anxious, people pleasers, short), you probably will too. Commiserating ove...

This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠betterhelp.com/notforeveryone⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ today to get 10% off your first month. __ Do you feel that heat wave? We’re not bothered. It’s time for Jess and Caroline to enter the dating waters once more, to discuss listener’s burning questions about all things modern love. They start by talking through a love interest who doesn’t communicate well, weigh th...

Go to ⁠https://zocdoc.com/notforeveryone ⁠ to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. __ Kooks, do you ever find yourself overwhelmed by a missed call from a long-distance friend? Or inundated with requests for in-person hangs? Jess and Caroline talk through feeling crazy for complaining about friendship, even though the social overwhelm is STRONG right now. J offers some tips to a frien...

This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠betterhelp.com/notforeveryone⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ today to get 10% off your first month. Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at ⁠⁠https://www.skims.com/notforeveryone⁠⁠ #skimspartner __ Well babies, we’ve come full circle. Or, at least, Caroline and Jess have! In this episode, they discuss seeing an ex in a happy relationship, getting an apology from an ex yea...

Get up to 10 FREE meals at ⁠https://hellofresh.com/NOTFOREVERYONE10FM __ Has your friend said something weird to you, and you don’t know how to deal with it? Same with Jess. This week, Jess and Caroline dive deep into when to expend energy on a friendship, and when to rein it in. They ruminate on when it’s beneficial to communicate, when it’s better to rest, and when it’s best to pause to figure o...

It’s the first ever edition of Hot Not Bothered Summer! In this series, Jess and Caroline answer listener’s burning questions about all things dating, and they start out with a bang. They discuss giving men the benefit of the doubt when you’re jaded, how to use dating apps in an intentional way, the best things to ask on a first date, and how to handle a situationship. Plus, they dive a little dee...

This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit ⁠⁠ ⁠betterhelp.com/notforeveryone⁠ ⁠⁠ today to get 10% off your first month. __ Babies, it’s time to get in touch with your rage. This week, Jess and Caroline talk about feeling rage for yourself and on behalf of others, why we’re actually happier in our 30s, and the freedom you feel when you don’t worry what others think about you. Then a listener WHATA...

Go to https://zocdoc.com/notforeveryone to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. Check out SKIMS best intimates including the Fits Everybody Collection and more at https://www.skims.com/notforeveryone #skimspartner __ Turn out the lights and get comfy, because today is a total sleepover-vibe episode. Jess and Caroline discuss weird-shaped cookie cutters, baking reality tv, and the sati...

Get up to 10 FREE meals at https://hellofresh.com/NOTFOREVERYONE10FM __ Good morning, sunshines! This week, Jess and Caroline talk about a new friendship hack: the couple sleepover. They ruminate on casual, frequent hangouts, talk about spontaneous outings, and consider the sunken cost fallacy when it comes to an event not working out the way you envisioned. Plus, they chat about what they have tr...