NOIRPOISED Podcast

100 episodes later, we’re revisiting some of our most popular conversations—from vulnerability and mental health to marriage, success, relationships, and personal growth. You'll hear where our views have stayed the same, where they've changed, and the life experiences that shaped us along the way. Have your definitions of success, love, or happiness changed over the years? Are you still...

Millennial dads are changing the game — and it’s beautiful to watch. Fatherhood today looks nothing like the generation before us. From changing diapers and cooking dinner to being emotionally present, today’s dads are showing up in ways many of us never got to experience growing up. But is this shift making families stronger… or putting more pressure on men than ever? Are dads finally healing gen...

A lot of us grew up hearing “just find a good person” and everything else would fall into place. But if that’s true… Why are so many relationships struggling once real life hits? In this one we’re chatting about marriage, commitment, and the things our generation was never taught. We’re unpacking what it takes to make relationships really work - compatibility, accountability, ego, choosing the rig...

Nobody talks enough about what happens after the baby comes home. The sleepless nights, the pressure, the disconnect, the silent resentment, and the feeling of becoming roommates instead of partners. In this episode, we unpack the real chaos of postpartum life, why so many couples struggle after having kids, and how love can survive one of the hardest seasons of adulthood. Are your relationship pr...

Motherhood isn’t just diapers, school runs, and cute moments—it’s the mental load no one talks about. In this episode, we break down what it really means to be a mom today: the pressure to do it all, the invisible stress, and why so many women feel overwhelmed even when they “have help.” We’re getting honest about the highs, the lows, and the truth most moms don’t say out loud. Are moms really doi...

Is your skincare routine helping you… or secretly hurting you? In this episode, we sit down with Janelle, founder of Natural Hydration Skincare, who turned her son’s struggle with eczema into a powerful, natural solution that’s now helping families rethink what they put on their skin. We break down the truth about “simple” routines, hidden chemicals, and why more products don’t always mean better...

Are “bad men” and “bad women” really the problem… or is it something deeper? Let’s get real about how childhood—especially the presence or absence of fathers—shapes confidence, relationships, and the choices we make as adults. From “daddy issues” to emotional security, we discuss what’s really going on beneath the surface—and how it shows up in dating, self-worth, and even parenting today. If you’...

Are kids today being exposed to things too early… or are we just finally noticing what’s always been there? We know many parents are thinking it—but not saying it out loud. From cartoons to classrooms, we explore what’s really being shown to young children, how subtle messages shape their minds, and why “I’ll just talk to my kid about it” might not be enough anymore. Are you aware of what’s influe...

Have you actually looked up at the sky lately? Not just glanced—but really watched it? Those lines… the ones that turn into clouds, grids, or thick layers that block the sun—what are they? What’s really going on above us? We’re talking geoengineering and weather manipulation to how it could be affecting your health, your environment, and even the way you think. No fluff—just real questions, real o...

What if the reason your prayers feel unanswered… isn’t God—but you? In this episode, we unpack a powerful shift: prayer isn’t begging, it’s alignment. It’s not about asking for things—it’s about becoming the person who can receive them. We dive into why so many of us feel stuck despite years of faith, how prayer can quietly turn into passivity, and what changes when you stop asking “why isn’t this...

Your back hurts, your knees crack, and somehow… your favorite sneakers are now “dad shoes.” 😅 Yeah—it’s happening. We’re talking aging, shifting priorities, and that moment you realize life didn’t quite turn out how you planned… yet. From body changes and tech struggles, to the pressure of “Am I where I thought I’d be by now?” But also—how to flip that mindset and still go after the life you want...

Why does it feel like the same version of Black culture keeps getting pushed… over and over again? We get real about how Black people are portrayed in the media—and how those images shape how others see us… and even how we see ourselves. From stereotypes and labels to “acting a certain way” just to fit in, we unpack the pressure, the frustration, and the truth behind it all. Send us your questions...

We grew up in church. So when we see viral clips of pastors asking for thousands of dollars or rejecting someone’s donation… it hits differently. So we’re talking honestly about faith, money, and the uncomfortable things happening in churches today. When does giving become manipulation? When does leadership cross the line? And how do you keep your faith when the people representing it make it look...

Is government help a safety net… or a lifestyle? We’re having the uncomfortable debate around EBT, welfare, and who really pays the price. No judging. Just real questions most people are thinking but don’t say out loud. Should assistance be temporary? Is it wrong to expect limits? And why does it feel like the middle class is stuck in the middle — working hard, paying taxes, and still barely getti...

Ever catch yourself blaming the system, your past, your job… or even race… for why you’re stuck? Yup, we’ve been there and sometimes, still there! So we’re having a real conversation about victim mentality — what it actually is, how it shows up in our generation, and why accountability feels so uncomfortable. Yes, racism exists. Yes, life isn’t fair. But at what point does explaining the problem t...

Let’s be honest — what did you actually learn in school that you use every day now? Besides basic math and spelling, what stuck? Not much, right? That leads us to our next questions: Is school about education… or conditioning? Are our kids learning how to think — or just how to follow instructions? We talk about public school vs. homeschooling, why the system hasn’t evolved, and what happens when...

One of the biggest parenting debates: Does an easier childhood create weaker adults—or smarter ones? What if giving your kids everything actually costs them something? Like the lack of resilience, drive, or discipline. But do kids really need to “go through it” to build character? Is adversity something you teach , or something life has to force on you? Are you preparing your kids for the world… o...

Why is moving out before marriage such a big deal for many? Is it about faith, tradition, survival… or control? Living at home as an adult gives off ‘I’m lucky to have supportive parents’ but can be a struggle mentally for many. We’re talking maturity vs. money, being “grown” but still treated like a kid, and why some parents see moving out as disrespect while others see it as independence. Is sta...

Think childbirth is something you just “show up” for as a dad? Think again. In this episode, we’re talking straight to fathers—first-timers and seasoned vets—about what really happens during childbirth and why your role matters more than you were ever told. From knowing when labor is actually happening, to advocating in the hospital, to understanding how your presence can literally change the expe...

We continue the conversation from last week with Certified Birth & Postpartum Doula, Chris Gonzalez Baez, with a focus on the traumas that are often left on women post birth when control of your own body is left out of the equation. Also, the significant role a Doula can play in the father’s childbirth experience. What would change if you felt heard, prepared, and in charge during childbirth?...

Why does giving birth feel scarier for Black and Brown families—and why are so many of us told the hospital is the only safe option? Are we choosing what’s best for us—or what we’ve been conditioned to fear less? With Certified Birth & Postpartum Doula, Chris Gonzalez Baez , we’re unpacking the truth about home birth, doulas, and what really happens inside hospital delivery rooms. From persona...

So many women walk into the hospital planning one kind of birth… and leave with a C-section they never expected. Why does that keep happening? In this episode, we kick off our childbirth series by talking honestly about C-sections—why they’re necessary in some cases, why they may be overused in others, and what most people aren’t told before decisions are made. This isn’t about judging choices. It...

New year, same pressure to “change everything.” But what if that’s the problem? In this episode, we talk about daily habits, procrastination, accountability, and the uncomfortable truth about goals we say we want… but don’t really want to work for. From fitness and productivity to mindset and self-talk, this is a real conversation about starting small, being honest with yourself, and building habi...

We’re talking about love languages beyond romance —with parents, siblings, friends, and the people who drive you a little crazy this season. Are you loving people the way you want to be loved—or the way they actually receive it? We break down why good intentions still miss the mark and how understanding love languages can reduce conflict, save time, and deepen connection. As you gather around the...

Perimenopause hits every woman—but most of us don’t even know it’s happening. In this episode, we sit down with a women’s health educator, Gail Janicola, who breaks down what perimenopause really is, why it starts earlier than you think, and the symptoms no one warns you about. We talk about why so many women feel like they’re “losing control” of their own bodies. If this is a normal part of being...