Nelle’s World💜

When you are in a toxic relationship, it’s like a drug. You go through withdrawals and start feening for his attention. But remember why you left in the first place. You need to learn how to let go and move on because most likely he is with someone or sleeping with someone anyway. And if not, him not being the one for you should be enough to let it go. It’s a process but you’ll be glad you left so...

Are you doing things to get a man’s attention or are you really doing it for you? It’s normal to care what people think but that shouldn’t dictate what you do. Presentation does matter when it leads to a perception of you. That’s all I’m saying.

This episode talks about some experiences I had with a few of my patients and how representation matters in the medical field. Nobody understands us like we do and we need that support. If you want to create a business to help our community you should. Sorry it cut out around 10mins 🥲

This episode talks about being alone versus being lonely. Often times people are not alone enough and that’s the problem. People don’t know who they are and are always distracted by external things. It’s important to figure out what you need in relationships and friendships and to do that you need some time alone to actually think about it. I hope you don’t feel lonely but I also hope that you gro...

This episode talks about a video I saw that spoke on the numbers between black men and women marriages. How many of us still hope and desire we get everything we want with a black man only to see the reality that we are not their “preference”. Although that word is used wrong in most instances you get what I mean right? According to statistics most black men don’t marry anybody let alone black wom...

This episode talks about romanticizing and fantasizing about what could be. When you are dating, a lot of women go off potential which essentially is your imagination. I hope that you become more present when you date and look at things for what they are, not what they could be. 💎

This episode just challenges the beliefs about Christians and why some people have very negative stereotypes of those who practice it. You can believe whatever you want but the truth is only one truth there are not multiple truths at the end of the day. There are however multiple ideas/theories that people have developed and resonated with. I just want to challenge why you think how you do and jus...

This episode is about not changing who you are to fit in. As a woman with amazing qualities it’s discouraging when you don’t have the things you see other women have. The women that are more out there seem to reap all the benefits. But at what cost?? It’s not risk losing who you are to fit in or get a man. The right man will give you the desires of your heart but also don’t wait up for that. Be ha...

Just giving some tips on how to get through feeling down or depressed. Be encouraged that it won’t last forever. 💕

Today’s episode is about what men know and what women don’t when it comes to commitment. Men usually know fairly quickly if you are their wife or something else. They judge you based on things they want in a woman and go from there. Either they will string you along or date you with intent (courting). This is important because men will drag you through the mud knowing they don’t want you because y...

Today I’m just talking about things I don’t agree with or subscribe to. Things that a lot of people disagree with or the mass media has shown to be important. I think that everyone should have their own thoughts and beliefs and stand in it all the way. A lot of my thoughts are things I’ve seen through social media, TV, music videos, family members, boyfriends, and friendships. If you want to know...

Today’s episode defines narcissism and also the traits that they have. I also mention 7 types of narcissism that was identified in an article by an actual therapist. The reason why I made this episode was to inform you of men like this and also so you won’t keep labeling every single man a narcissist. He may have the traits but he may not have the actual disorder/illness. Although that can be deba...

What do you define as a friendship? I think we have different definitions but it should be mutual across the board. I think a lot of us use the word friend very loosely. I speak on these ideas and also how a lot of women praise the fact that they have a best friend to women who want to become their friend. So you think there’s only one best friend? If so, then why have other friends? I find it har...

Today we talk about some examples of trauma bonding and premature attachment. It is important to recognize these things so that you can develop a healthy loving relationship. I also speak on settling and how men will show you what’s important to them by what they do. These are my opinions however, I hope they can help you if you have been putting your needs aside for someone who isn’t doing the sa...

This episode is about the phrase “protect black women” that has trended on social media shedding light on how black women are NOT protected in our community by our men. I speak on a YouTube video that showed a black man asking if black women felt protected and the responses that followed. As black women we need to learn that when someone shows us they don’t care for us we need to move on and know...

In this episode we discuss body image and how certain beliefs in the community about body image can be damaging, we also discuss how black women are over sexualized and how all of these things reflect low self-esteem and the seeking of external validation. This one is long but discusses some important themes. Tune in and let’s be better for the next generation 💖💖

On this episode we talk about the mindset of men who identify as “red pill” meaning exchange sex for sex and don’t do anything for a woman outside of that. MGTOW= men go their own way, which means don’t pursue a woman basically. What do ya’ll think about this new age mindset? Stay tuned to hear my thoughts 🤓

This episode is about going half. What do you think about going Dutch on a date? Do you feel a man should pay? Tune in to hear my take on it and an article I found about going half on dates.💜🌍

This episode talks mostly about verbal abuse and how it shows up in our relationships. I don’t want to trigger anyone but I do want us to acknowledge that we may hurt people when we don’t mean to. It’s all love here and all about growth. Enjoy and thanks for listening.💕

This episode is an intro to my podcast. This is a safe space for mental health discussions and things we experience as people, as a black woman I will also speak on my community and things we experience especially when it comes to relationships. Please remember to respect other humans on your day to day so this world can be a better place. 😊💕