N.A.R.C. Troopers: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Collaborators

Solipsism and narcissism have quite a bit in common. Let's take a look at what that means with a brief philosophical examination.

Interview with Kshama on co-parenting with a narcissist. Kshama is an Empowerment Coach. She coaches professional women to transform their lives by shifting from feeling rejected and fearful to empowered and happy. Her mission is to empower women to deepen their self-awareness, find their purpose and direction, and move from inaction to powerful action.  Being married to a narcissist and coming ou...

The narcissist may be gone, but they live on inside of you. Because of the enmeshment, brainwashing, entrainment, intermittent reinforcement, parentification, and more manipulative and predatory techniques, you are poisoned. You are filled with introjects (the narcissist's voice), ruminations, peptide addiction dopamine cravings, trauma bonding and the list goes on! This explains in part why r...

Welcome to Season 9! Each season has about 20 episodes and we are now approaching 250 podcast episodes. "Holy trauma, Bayman!" Today, we take an expanded 45-minute deep dive into the failing systems and warnings that should compel us to do better. The time is ripe for narcissists to rise to power and we are rapidly producing a new crop of them continually with our misplaced priorities an...

A reflection on the valuable lessons I learned in the months and years following the discard.

"You're in the jungle, baby. I'm gonna watch you bleed." It's hard to believe that your dream come true could shapeshift in the most heartless cold-blooded predator you could ever imagine. It's nothing personal. It's just what they are.

The person with NPD with a splash of psychopathy may have no fear, but they sure know how to loathe you. It's a wild trip to Fantasy Island, then a mysterious death.

Sadism and Narcissism are "close cousins" in every sense and often overlap in pathological ways. Let's explore the sadistic narcissist.

The shy vulnerable covert narcissist is often adorable, polite, charismatic, and helpful. Beware, they even convince themselves they are the good guy, but make no mistake. They are missing key components of humanity and are actually empty hollow actors only playing a part in a play.

How does the world perceive someone who stays with a mentally ill predatory beast and chooses them over their friends and family? You know the answer. It is not kind. But they will never really understand, so who can blame them? What you can focus on instead. . .

After the narcissist, it is not uncommon to experience a period of self-trashing, and this self-trashing often involves unsavory sexual liaisons. Forgive yourself, find your boundaries, and create a safe space to recover fully before rushing out into the world. It is dangerous out there.

How do you summon the will to live after a brutal discard? Many of us find it hard enough to get through the daily anxieties and injustices of every day life. When the narcissist abandons you, there is usually a scorched earth policy where they burn your whole life to the ground with you in it, then erase you like it never happened. How do you rise from the smouldering ashes to start again?

When you are in the shared fantasy with the narcissist, time keeps moving on without you. It is as if you were in a coma and when you awaken, everything is different and the people who were most important to you have gone on with their lives without you. It is a confusing and heartbreaking loss. The sooner we get back to reality, the better!

8/episode 11 looks at what happens after narcissistic abuse. You lose everything and have a really hard time getting up and getting on. What can we do about it?

What does it mean to be alive? The person with NPD is not truly alive by most definitions. Let's take a look at what it means to be alive and what separates the narcissist from a neurotypical healthy human.

After a relationship with a disordered narcissist, it is common to have anxiety and even panic. We discuss 5 maladaptive bad ways to respond to anxiety that can lead to the bad place. Then we discuss better alternatives to get a positive outcome.

A relationship with a narcissist is all about death. Their death (they killed themselves a long time ago), your death (the narcissist must "kill you" to separate and individuate), the "dead mother (that caused all this in the first place), the death of your identity and agency, and the death of everything around them. So when they are gone, why is there still a problem? And what can...

There are soooo many effects that a covert malignant narcissist has aon their significant other. And the worst part is that all of this abuse can cause an addiction to them which in turn causes emotional, psychological, physiological, neuro-chemical, energetic, and just about every other type of disruption, sickness, and injury in the victim.

The silent treatment is one of the narcissist's favorite weapons to use against you at different stages in the relationship. At some point, we need to accept what they are and let them go- knowing they are very sick people. In the meantime, getting to know our own silence spaces can bring us peace.

Teahna Nicole Edralin is our guest today. A powerful healer and personal friend, I am pleased to discuss the concept of disempowerment with her and how we can claim our power following relationships with narcissists. Message from Teahna: Take a stand for your recovery.  I want and would be honored to help you.  For Complimentary Discovery Calls with FREE energy work Complimentary Consultation (tea...

THE TYPE OF ATTACHMENT STYLE we have influences how we RECOVER from relationships with MALIGNANT NARCISSISTS. Neurotypical people can modify or change their attachment styles, but the narcissist has flat attachment and can never change.

What is at the heart of narcissistic personality disorder? Understanding Object inconstancy, discontinuous memory, and object relations will make everything come into focus.

Well meaning people may do more harm then good when they try to support the narcissistic abuse victim. It's important to understand the unique journey to recovery.

After the narcissist, we are different. How does their brain work, and how does it change us? For more with guest, Phoenix Gould, visit these links. Free Radical Self-Love Meditation Facebook Group For Women Facebook Group for Men E-mail Phoenix Book Free 20min Coffee chat with Phoenix

There are casualties in a relationship with a person with NPD. Everyone goes down, and the narcissist rides into the sunset to live hollowly ever after.