Motherhood Ain’t $h!t

*Vulgar Language Warning* Dive deep with me as I hash it out on breaking my own bounds and navigating detrimental relationships. Learning to let go and allowing the universe to send its messages in a way that doesn’t get misconstrued and believing people for who they are when they show you. Sometimes it’s okay to grow away from others. Come sit with me and move through the motions

*Vulgar Language Warning* Dive deep with me as my bed is dominated by the bodies of small children. How important I feel knowing I’m their safe space and create an environment for others. Also, it’s black breastfeeding week, pull a titty out ! NORMALIZE THAT!

*Vulgar Language Warning* Dive deep as I journey into the boundaries that are set or lack thereof and what it means/feels to be present for my boys. Either move intentionally with purpose or the exit will be presented to you. Sit and listen.

*Vulgar Language Warning* Dive deep as I vent my way through crossed boundaries, unrealistic expectations, and the reality that sometimes people are going to do what the FUCK they want. You can’t control anyone. Only yourself and how you handle the situation.

*Vulgar Language Warning * Dive a lil’ bit as I voice my opinions and experiences with potty training while having multiple children. Yes, again. I’m sick of the shit; literally and enjoy more ramblings of motherhood.

*Vulgar Language Warning* Dive deep as I discuss boundaries crossed throughout time and how it pays to speak up for not only yourself but your children as well. Also, how time brings change but why does it move so fast in the blink of an eye? Years gone by. A funny play on words.

*Vulgar Language Warning* Dive deep as I spiral down the rabbit hole into spontaneous mom-dates, mom guilt to follow, and I get really “real” for a second with those intrusive thoughts. Come sit with ‘em.

*Vulgar Language Warning* Dive deep as I converse on staying strong when mean words seem to break ya bones. Those words come from my children, of course. Then enjoy the subtle change in dynamics as I learn the importance of how much love a sibling can have for you and how much more can be given back.

*Some Vulgar Language* Dive deep as I share in the struggle of different dietary needs in a 3kid household and how sometimes a win is a win and a snack is dinner on its own. Come sit and listen to me talk.

*Vulgar Language Warning* Dive deep with me as I discuss the family dynamic that pushed me back to the streets. How time and time again I watched as what I thought my family would be disintegrate before my eyes. The streets say, “HEYYYYYYY TREEEEEEEEE’!”

*Vulgar Language & LGBTQ topics* Dive deep with me as I invite the GAYYYYY to stay. Come with me as I navigate trickier topics and how I intend to raise my children to be young, proud, free, open-minded & loving humans.

*Vulgar language warning* Dive deep into the necessary importance for a safe space to allow our beautiful black men and young black boys to thrive and share their emotional experiences. One young male at a time could make a difference.

*Vulgar Language Warning* Dive deep as we navigate murky waters of parenting blitz and blunders. Also, enjoy live interactions of me with my kids while out in the sticks. Random, I know, but it was one helluva camping trip.

*Vulgar Language Warning* Dive deep with me as I share my examples of how parenting can sometimes be a bit much in particular circumstances. We are all trying to find a way. Let’s keep our cool.

*Vulgar Language Warning* Dive in with me as I share my postpartum pick-me-ups, the importance of self, and unwanted manifestation. Enjoy ! From your fave big body Benz

*Vulgar Language* Dive deep as I scrounge the corners of my mind to make sense of the mess. From negative self-talk towards your self-reflection. Determining who you are meant to be or at least trying. *Bonus content.* Since I thought an episode was lost. It was not. Enjoy !

*Vulgar Language Warning* Dive into this episode as I celebrate all moms and share my experiences and thoughts towards Mother’s Day. Everyone’s day can be wildly different but remember to take extra care and love of yourself on that day.

Dive deep into the uncanny reality of not actually keeping your house clean while raising toddlers. Listen to the exhausted rant of one mum who has spent all day cleaning only to have it destroyed in a matter of seconds. It’s story time ! Happy Mother’s Day

*Adult language & Content Warning* Dive deeper into the becoming of my third butterball and all things he is. My last and final encore. Come with me and listen as the curtain closes yet the play of life continues.

*Adult Language Warning* Dive into the toxic love cycle of my second creation. This is how his story began, started, and the rest is a work in progress. Your 2nd child is always a doozy and this one knocked me back a few years.

*Vulgar Language & Content* Dive in with me as I share with you the arrival of my first born through an exhaustingly exhilarating 36 hours of labor. Listen as I speak on who he is now and the way he helps me see the light. My habibi, I love you always.

Dive into this episode as I laugh my way through the pain and discuss what it feels like to be judged by individuals who haven’t walked a day in your shoes. Be wary. Be open. I’m laughing at my pain and you can too. Only if you’re laughing with me.

Dive into the importance of friendships, detrimental changes, and what it looks like taking time for yourself. Sometimes that can be a struggle when you are navigating motherhood and co-parenting alike. Everything isn’t easy. Just taking it one day at a time.

*Trigger Warning* Suicide is mentioned in this episode. If you have any feelings or thoughts of self harm please reach out to the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline at 988. Dive into this episode with me as we discuss finding your worth, showing yourself love and essentially putting your mask on FIRST! Everyone else makes it all about you, so why can’t you do the same for yourself.

*Trigger Warning* Dive deep into the mind of mom as I discuss different perspectives, burdens, and overstimulated nonsense. I also make a few trigger trigger jokey jokes. Please bear with me and enjoy