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Misadventures with the Narcissist

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If you have a narcissist in your life or have been the victim of narcissistic abuse, you will find my misadventures very relatable. In this podcast, I share my experiences with being in a relationship - dating, marrying, divorcing and co-parenting - with a narcissist. Some of these stories might be sad, some might be hopeful - but it is my goal to share this so other women (and men) who have been the victim of narcissistic abuse feel less alone and like there is someone out there who understands exactly what they are going through.

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68. MAJOR UPDATE and There's no "winning" against a Narcissist 20.02.2025 45:34

It's been MONTHS since I've done an update. Here's what's happened with the narcissist since the last episode.

67. Long overdue update: The narcissist and I are going to court. AGAIN! 25.07.2024 36:05

In this episode, I'm sharing some long overdue updates and tell you the story of why the narcissist and I are back in court. AGAIN! To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misadventures-narcissist/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misadventure...

66. My message to the narcissist's new "supply" (or How could she not see these 3 red flags?) 31.10.2023 44:42

In this episode, I share what I want to tell the narcissist's new supply and three major flags that she should look out for. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45

65. I had to file a "motion for contempt" because the narcissist did THIS! 16.10.2023 34:51

In this episode, I share why I had to file a motion for contempt in my divorce case with the narcissist. Make sure to stay ALL the way through the end because I ended the episode and then had some new info to add, so listen all the way through the end. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== Here's the article I wrote that started i...

64. "Mom, you're irrelevant..." 18.09.2023 29:59

In this episode, I share my reaction to being told that I'm "irrelevant"... To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45

63. Three things I realized - and what I need to change! 10.07.2023 29:53

In this episode I share three things I realized about my narcissistic abuse healing journey. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misa...

62. The biggest crossroads yet. Sigh... 05.07.2023 48:38

In this episode I share some recent developments and how I'm feeling about finding myself at a crossroads. The narcissistic abuse healing journey continues! To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-i...

61. Grief and "I never had that..." 18.06.2023 45:58

In this episode I share my recent experience with grief and the idea of "I never had that"... To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45 --- Send in a voice message: https://anc...

60. The day the narcissist died 25.05.2023 33:56

In this episode, I share a very bizarre, powerful and healing experience that I had during an "intuitive healing session" with a friend of mine. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-33...

59. I went to court against the narcissist without a lawyer! 04.04.2023 47:39

Here's what happened when I went to court against the narcissist without a lawyer! To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires"...

58. How do my kids feel about narcissistic abuse? 24.03.2023 1:00:17

In this episode, I share with you my thoughts on how my kids have been dealing with the concept of narcissistic abuse. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like &qu...

57. You won't believe what happened with the Court... and a quick update 30.01.2023 29:24

In this episode, you won't believe what happened with our court date and why it got postponed! And you'll get to hear a quick update on what's been going on. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can lis...

56. I was SO WRONG about the narcissist... 16.12.2022 22:26

In this episode, I want to share with you this one thing that I got wrong about the narcissist. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires"...

55. I told the narcissist the ONE THING you should never tell a narcissist... 07.10.2022 29:11

In this episode, I want to share the story of how I told the narcissist the ONE THING you're never supposed to tell a narcissist. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissis...

54. An open letter to my listeners 15.08.2022 16:03

In this episode, I want to thank all my listeners for being here and for allowing me to share my story and to be seen and validated. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcis...

53. Is this normal? (Part 2 - Wife edition) 10.08.2022 31:00

In this episode, I want to share some scenarios for me that were "normal" and part of my daily life with the narcissist. But are they really "normal" or was I not in touch with reality? To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to A...

52. Is this normal? (Part 1 - Kids edition) 01.08.2022 31:44

51. "He's just an asshole who doesn't deserve your attention" 24.07.2022 27:20

In this episode, I talk about feeling understood and seen by others on your healing journey from narcissistic abuse, as well as a book that I've been reading lately called Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How it Can Help You Find and Keep Love" which you can purchase here https://amzn.to/3PQznLb (Affiliate link) To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventu...

50. This is the HARDEST thing about divorce from a narcissist... 12.07.2022 29:52

In this episode, I talk about what has been, for me, the hardest thing about being married to - and getting divorced from - a narcissist. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/

49. Co-parenting with the narcissist - OH MY! 05.07.2022 40:02

In this episode, I share about my experience with co-parenting with the narcissist. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/

48. Ten "interesting" things I noticed about the narcissist 17.06.2022 1:06:21

In this episode, I share ten things/traits/characteristics that I noticed about the narcissist. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/

47. The narcissist and my career 11.06.2022 54:15

In this episode, I share my perspective of the narcissist's relationship with my work and career To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/

46. The narcissist and his career 17.05.2022 1:14:09

In this episode, I share my perspective of the narcissist's relationship with his work and career To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/

45. This is what happens with the narcissist when I try to stand up for myself... 25.04.2022 37:12

In this episode, I share what happens when I try to stand up for myself with a narcissist... To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by...

44. How I REALLY felt being married to a narcissist 19.04.2022 52:15

In this episode, I share how I really felt while being married to a narcissist. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== This episode is sponsored by Audible.com - Use this link https://amzn.to/3qQULDS to get a FREE 30-day trial to Audible.com where you can listen to books about narcissism, like "Dodging Energy Vampires" by Dr. Christian...