Messy on Purpose

Living in Vegas doesn’t mean we’re always on the Strip—but when we are, it’s a whole vibe. 😎🌆 In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Heather dive into their recent night out at Ole Red , the country bar right in the heart of the Las Vegas Strip. We’re sharing: 🍻 The unexpected (and hilarious) moments of being a local in a tourist hotspot 🤠 Why Ole Red might just be our new go-to spo...

We’re back with Part 2 of our real, raw, and totally unfiltered convo with Lauren from Lala Photography 📸—and this time, we’re going even deeper . From navigating the messy middle of entrepreneurship to the moments that will nearly make you quit (spoiler: she didn’t 👏), this episode is packed with: 💥 Behind-the-scenes biz talk 📸 Big wins and bigger learning curves 😆 Side tangents, laughs, and...

Ever wonder what it really looks like to build a successful business from the ground up— with no filter ? In this episode of Messy on Purpose , we sit down with Lauren , founder of Lala Photography , to talk about the messy behind-the-scenes of entrepreneurship. We dive into: 📸 How Lala Photography was born 💥 The struggles that no one talks about 💡 Some surprisingly good (and real) business adv...

Some stories need to be told—and Vegas Traffic is one of them. 🎥🚦 In this episode of Messy on Purpose, we sit down with Trenton and John, the filmmakers behind Vegas Traffic, a powerful film that sheds light on a reality most people ignore. We dive into:
 🔦 The real-life inspiration behind the film
 🎬 The creative process & behind-the-scenes moments
 🚨 Why awareness is the first step towa...

Some advice on social media is just straight-up wild —and Heather needed to talk about this one. In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha gets hit with a surprise topic as we dive into the crazy world of viral “sugar daddy” advice being pushed on women. From TikTok videos encouraging transactional relationships to the way dating has completely shifted from love to luxury , we’re breaking down...

How do you know when it’s time to let go of trying to help someone who won’t help themselves? This week on Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Heather dive into the emotional struggle of caring too much —when your love and support turn into nagging, and you realize you might be more invested in their change than they are. Fylisha opens up about her personal experience with her dad, and we get real abou...

Not every relationship is meant to last forever—and that’s okay! In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Heather dive deep into the relationships that serve us, the ones that don’t, and the ones that are only meant for a season. 💫 From friendships to romantic partners, we talk about why it’s okay to let go of relationships that no longer align with the person you are or the one you’re b...

Social media can be a wild ride, especially when the trolls come out to play. In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather get real about dealing with the darker side of online life—negative comments, unsolicited opinions, and the emotional toll they can take. They share personal stories, practical tips for keeping your sanity in the digital world, and a few laughs about the most ridic...

Valentine’s Day—love it or leave it? 💌 In this special episode of Messy on Purpose, we dive deep into the highs and lows of Valentine’s Day with two amazing guests! From overhyped traditions to why love should be celebrated all year long , we’re getting real about what truly matters in relationships—whether it’s with your partner, friends, family, or even yourself. We’re talking love languages, m...

This week on Messy on Purpose, we’re joined by the extraordinary Tania, lead singer of Tania y Su Grupo Elevado. With her beautiful voice, captivating presence, and sweet personality, Tania shares her inspiring story. Tania’s story is filled with passion, perseverance, and positivity. Whether you’re a fan of her music or simply love hearing about the magic behind the microphone, this episode is a...

Get ready for a behind-the-scenes look at modern love! 🎬 In this special episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather are joined by the talented director Lee Cummings to explore the wild world of dating apps, the realities of relationships, and the self-discovery journey that comes with love, divorce, and everything in between. Lee shares unique insights from the director’s chair, and the tri...

Sometimes, “good vibes only” isn’t enough. In this eye-opening episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather dive deep into the concept of toxic positivity—the pressure to stay positive even when life feels anything but. They discuss why it’s okay to feel your feelings, share personal stories about navigating tough times, and offer tips on how to support others without dismissing their struggle...

Life doesn’t always go as planned, but Ashlee Gambino’s story proves that you can rise above anything. In this inspiring episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather sit down with Ashlee, a strong woman, mother, wife, and fighter, who shares her journey from a tough fighter to an even stronger warrior after facing unexpected health challenges. Ashlee opens up about what it means to fight throu...

Life’s challenges aren’t easy, but they shape who we are. In this empowering episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather get candid about navigating hard times, dealing with difficult situations, and why it’s okay to distance yourself from people and things that no longer fit your life. They share personal stories of making tough decisions, finding the strength to do what’s best for yourself,...

What happens when your adorable (and very chunky) cat goes viral? 🐾 In this special episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather sit down with the fabulous Angel. Cakes702 (aka Kaylee) to chat about her famous feline and the whirlwind of social media attention that followed. Kaylee opens up about the heartwarming story of why she adopted her cat, her journey to help him live a healthier life,...

Self-care isn’t just bubble baths and spa days—sometimes, it’s the hard stuff too. In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather explore what self-care really means on an individual level. They dive into the things that feel great in the moment, like rest and indulgence, but also the tougher, less glamorous side of taking care of yourself, like setting boundaries, managing finances, and...

It’s a New Year, besties! 🎉 In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather dive into all things New Year’s—reflecting on the highs and lows of 2024, setting goals for 2025, and kicking off our own New Year’s fitness challenge (spoiler alert: it’s already messy). Join us for laughs, real talk, and a dose of inspiration to start your year off right. Whether you’re crushing resolutions or...

It’s Christmas time, and we’re feeling the holiday vibes! 🎄✨ In this festive first episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather share what they love most about Christmas—from cozy traditions and favorite activities to hilarious takes on gift-giving and decorating mishaps. Join us as we dive into the joy, chaos, and magic of the season, all while spreading some holiday cheer. Whether you’re d...