Messy on Purpose

What happens when you stop ignoring your true calling and finally step into it? In this week’s episode of Messy on Purpose , I sit down with Lara Bokovay—Coach, Intuitive Reader, and living proof that your purpose always finds a way to shine through. Lara’s story is one-of-a-kind: she was the only kid in her neighborhood with a psychic at her birthday party, but it took years (and a lot of life ex...

What happens when life strips away everything you thought defined you? In this episode of Messy on Purpose , I sit down with Michael Bugary—former professional baseball player, motivational speaker, and author of the upcoming book The Disease of Me: How Losing My Professional Baseball Career, Drug Addiction, and Brain Cancer Saved My Life. Michael’s story is raw, painful, and incredibly powerful....

What happens when the “perfect” life script leaves you crying in the dark over a grocery list? In this week’s episode of Messy on Purpose, I sit down with Leslie Lane Peabody—known as the Ninja in High Heels— a Cinematic Success Coach who knows firsthand that life isn’t always vision boards and green juice. Leslie went from managing billion-dollar budgets by day to bingeing Netflix by night, wonde...

What happens when life strips everything away—marriages, stability, even your sense of self—and you’re left with nothing but the choice to start over? In this raw and empowering episode of Messy on Purpose , I sit down with Johanna Burkhardt —author, coach, and host of Cosmic Blonde —to hear her incredible story of turning pain into purpose. Johanna opens up about a life marked by abandonment, abu...

This week on Messy on Purpose , I sit down with my friend Sol—a woman who redefines strength, balance, and determination. As a single mom raising triplets , Sol is proof that you can handle more than you ever thought possible. She’s not only navigating motherhood times three, but also building a thriving career as a hairstylist, running successful businesses in both California and Las Vegas. We di...

This week on Messy on Purpose, I sit down with Steve Feldman — a man whose story is nothing short of transformative. After 35 years in the grip of addiction, Steve lost businesses, friendships, relationships, and nearly everything else that mattered. But through faith, perseverance, and a calling from the Holy Spirit, he turned his life around in a way that’s inspiring and game-changing. Now, Stev...

In this powerful episode of Messy on Purpose , I sit down with Steven Nisbet, President and co-founder of Shields & Stripes , an incredible nonprofit dedicated to restoring the lives of our military members and first responders. Steven shares his own military journey and pulls back the curtain on a hard truth: the real lack of assistance and resources available to the men and women who’ve serv...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , I sit down with my new friend Liz for a raw and eye-opening conversation about the way we think —and how that shapes the way we connect. We explore the difference between logical and emotional thinkers, and why it’s often more common for women to feel deeply but struggle to form deep connections with each other—especially when they don’t think the same way. As...

In this real and vulnerable episode of Messy on Purpose , Jason Smith (@FitInMidlife) shares how hitting rock bottom physically, mentally, and emotionally became the wake-up call he needed. In the mess of letting himself go, Jason didn’t just rebuild—he transformed . He found strength, purpose, and a new mission: helping other people in midlife reclaim their health, confidence, and life through fi...

This week on Messy on Purpose, we're joined by the incredible Kathi Sohn —a mother, author, healer, and woman who’s walked through some seriously messy chapters to discover her truest purpose. From finding out she was adopted in her 30s, to serving in the U.S. Department of Defense, to navigating the heartbreaking loss of her husband… Kathi has lived a story shaped by truth, resilience, and re...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , we sit down with credit expert and real estate investor Brock Marcus , who shares how he turned his financial upbringing—full of confusion about credit—into a thriving business that helps others do it better. Now in his early 20s, Brock is teaching entrepreneurs how to fix, build, and leverage their credit to unlock serious opportunities. We talk about the mes...

In this powerful and vulnerable episode of Messy on Purpose, we sit down with tennis coach and entrepreneur Peter Ho. From the sunny courts of Hawaii to the harsh realities of California streets, Peter opens up about the twists and turns that shaped his journey—abusive relationships, homelessness, and the emotional toll that led to physical weight gain. We explore how Peter is rebuilding his life—...

What happens when you blend raw life experience, real talk, and a drive to make change from the inside out? You get a conversation like this. In this powerful episode, I sit down with Danielle Ford —mom, entrepreneur, advocate, and member of the Nevada State Board of Education. We go deep into the unexpected moments that shaped her journey, what politics really looks like behind the curtain, and h...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , I sit down with Ronda Taylor — digital nomad, mentor, and founder of Midlife Rondavous. Ronda shares her powerful story of walking away from the ordinary to create a life of freedom, adventure, and purpose. From her bold decision to become a digital nomad to her passion for helping other midlife women do the same, Ronda opens up about the beauty — and the mess...

Just in time for Father's Day, this special Messy on Purpose episode will melt your heart. Johnny (from the Vegas Traffic episode) returns — but this time he’s brought along his incredible 9-year-old daughter, and trust me, she steals the show. Wise beyond her years, full of light, and an absolute inspiration, this little powerhouse talks about her Christian school life, martial arts training, her...

In this powerful episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha sits down with Trenton Brisco to talk about what it really means to show up for kids in need. We dive into: 👶 His emotional journey into foster parenting 🏡 The real qualifications needed to foster a child 🙌 Why you don’t have to foster to make a difference 🤝 How he's creating a network of support, connection, and purpose 🎉 Events and...

What do you get when you mix pageant prep, business strategy, motherhood, and relentless drive? Michaela Taylor. In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Michaela — aka Mrs. Aliante America 2025 — opens up about chasing the crown while running a digital marketing + coaching empire and being a powerhouse wife and mom 👑 Her bold entrance into the world of pageantry 📲 Building a business that’s as str...

From rentals to wholesaling to building out co-living spaces — Aaron Lambert has done it all. In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Aaron gets real about the messy middle of his real estate journey and the pivots, lessons, and wins that got him where he is today. 🏠 His first steps into real estate and how it evolved 💸 Learning the ropes of Airbnb and short-term rentals 🔁 The hustle of wholesalin...

In this powerful episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha sits down with director, mentor, and creative visionary Lee Cummings to explore the story behind the spotlight. From navigating personal hardships to seizing life-changing opportunities, Lee opens up about the pivotal moments that led him to where he is today — including the creation of his film school and mentorship program. We talk about: 🎬...

Welcome to a brand new chapter of Messy on Purpose. In this short solo episode, Fylisha shares an honest update about the podcast’s recent changes — why things look a little different, what’s shifting, and what you can expect going forward. No drama. No overexplaining. Just real talk, growth, and the decision to keep showing up… even if it looks a little messier now. If you've been rocking wit...

In this powerful episode of Messy on Purpose, Heather and Fylisha are joined by Heather’s brother, Jay, for a raw and deeply personal conversation about addiction, recovery, and purpose. Jay opens up about what addiction really looks like, how it impacts loved ones, and the unexpected path that led him to helping others — especially veterans who’ve served our country. 🇺🇸We talk about what addictio...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Heather dive deep into the everyday habits that quietly sabotage our peace, growth, and confidence. Inspired by real-life moments and conversations about self-sabotage, people-pleasing, burnout, and comparison traps, this candid chat will have you reflecting, laughing, and maybe even journaling. We’re not here to judge—just to bring awareness to the...

**Trigger Warning** This episode discusses childhood sexual abuse and trauma. Listener discretion is advised. In this powerful and emotional episode of Messy on Purpose , we open a raw conversation that needs to be louder: protecting our kids and supporting survivors. Heather shares her personal story of childhood trauma — a story she carried in silence for years — and why it's time we stop protec...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Heather are joined by Jamie and Reilly for a real, honest convo about health goals, habits, and the messy truth behind personal growth. We get into it all: 💪 Where we’re at in our own health journeys 🥗 Diet, fitness, mindset, and how we each approach wellness 🍷 Our relationship with alcohol and finding balance ❤️‍🔥 And why one person’s version...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Heather dive into a passionate (and fiery 🔥) convo about embracing the chaos of life and seeing the beauty in the mess. We’re talking: 🌪️ The power of choice in messy moments💭 Learning from hard experiences💫 How two besties see life’s chaos from two very real, very different angles It’s raw. It’s emotional. It’s real AF. Because life isn’t about...