Messages From the Middle | Mental Health, Anxiety, Depression, Late Diagnosed ADHD, Undiagnosed Trauma, Neurodivergence, PTSD, Complicated Grief,

Welcome to "Depression on the Brain"! In this episode, I'll be your guide through the fascinating intersection of neuroscience and mental health. We're on a mission to unravel the mysteries of depression, starting with a closer look at the inner workings of the brain. Depression isn't just a matter of "chemical imbalances" as it's often simplified. It's a complex interplay of nerve cell connection...

This week on Messages From the Middle we explore the notion of self-reliance in finding happiness. We will go on journey of self-discovery, highlighting the importance of having our own backs, even amidst the desire for connection and support from others. Drawing parallels between our internal "manuals" for happiness and the unrealistic expectations we often place on others, I invite you to take o...

In this insightful podcast episode, I explores thequestion: How well do you truly know yourself? While it may seem like a straightforward inquiry, I highlights the complexities that arise from societal pressures and self-imposed masks. I will shares personal anecdotes, including moments of financial constraint that led me to suppress my desires and disconnect from her authentic self. I emphasizes...

In this weeks episode I reflect on her childhood experiences with undiagnosed ADHD, recounting memories that shaped her sense of self. From struggling with feeling simultaneously smart and inadequate and navigating the complexities of school life while grappling with societal expectations and internalized criticism. As I delves into the impact of ADHD on my mental health, I will sheds light on the...

This week, I delve into the profound concept of recognizing your intrinsic worth as a person. Throughout my journey, I've observed countless individuals diminish themselves, settling for mere scraps when they're deserving of a lavish feast. I'll touch on the importance of valuing your physical self, understanding your worth in relationships, and embracing your spiritual worth, all of which converg...

Welcome to this week's episode. This week we delve into the essence of identity. Too often, we tether our sense of self to external factors, vulnerable to the whims of circumstance. But here's the thing: when we anchor our identity to transient elements, we risk losing our foundation, inviting in shame and suffering. In this episode, we explore not only what you are not but also what truly defines...

One the podcast this week I tried something different. I read/listen to a lot of books! I love to read ♥️. This week I highlighted three books I read recently that taught me something new, gave me a new perspective and had an impact on my mental health knowledge and understanding.  The three books I discuss are: The Women by Kristen Hannah. What My Bones Know by Stephanie Foo and Unbroken: The Tra...

Welcome to "Messages from the Middle," where we explore the intricate journey of healing and growth. I delve into the profound realization that while we are the architects of our own healing, we don't need to walk the path solo. This week I share a few ideas of the various companions that can accompany us on our own road to healing – from compassionate coaches and empathetic therapists to steadfas...

Today on the podcast where we explore the intricate dance between physical and mental health, illuminating the profound connection that shapes our well-being. Join me, as we delve into the ways our bodies and minds intertwine to create a life of vitality Get ready to embark on a journey towards holistic well-being with me! On this podcast, I'll be dishing out practical tips and strategies you can...

In this episode of Messages from the Middle, delve into the multifaceted realm of love as we explore its various forms, as classified by ancient Greek philosophy. Beyond mere affection, understanding the nuanced distinctions between these types of love can profoundly impact the dynamics of our relationships and enhance our overall well-being. By recognizing and embracing the diversity of love, we...

BONUS: It was exactly one year ago today that my husband and I summited Mt. Kilimanjaro. To mark the occasion I am reposting one of my most popular episodes.  In this episode I share my experience on summit night hiking Mt. Kilimanjaro and the insights I gained about the parallels of a serious journey and mental health. I share the things that helped me get to the summit and how I have used simila...

Uncover the hidden saboteurs of your progress and let your true potential shine! Join me on 'Sneaky Ugly Thoughts,' where we explore those deceiving thoughts that hold us back from creating lasting change. Get ready to hear the thoughts that you think are helping you but they are actually keeping you stuck. stick with me for practical tips, a to break free from these sneaky culprits. Let's unleash...

In this episode of Messages From the Middle, I share the breakthrough moment I had when I declared, "I don't need a medication change, I need a life change!" IN that moment I knew that I needed to take steps to change and love the life I am in right now.  In this episode I delve into the transformative power of decluttering for enhanced mental health. Discover the profound impact of expressing gra...

In this episode of Messages From the Middle I embark on an exploration of the human nervous system. I will share the  delicate dance between the sympathetic and parasympathetic branches. This week I will get a little science as I journey, talk about intricacies of fight-or-flight and rest-and-digest responses. I'll delve into the differences between hyper and hypo nervous systems, and navigate jus...

In this episode of "Messages from the Middle," I shine the spotlight on the profound impact of storytelling on mental health. In the middle of life's challenges, our narratives become powerful tool of resilience and connection. This episode explores the art of sharing personal stories as a beacon of hope and strength for both the storyteller and those navigating similar paths. 🌟 Discover the cath...

This week on Messages from the Middle, I share feelings about going into a new year, using grit and grace on those New Years resolutions or any transformative journey. I believe that with a combination of unwavering determination and a touch of self-compassion, you can conquer your goals and defy expectations while nurturing self-love and personal growth.  In this episode I also provide the framew...

Expressing gratitude can boost your mental health by releasing oxytocin, the love hormone. If there were a pill that did that, with no side effects, you know you would be taking it! The good news is you can create the same effect by expressing gratitude. In this episode I share ways you can show gratitude. I also share the things I am most grateful for in 2023.    email: Wendy@messgesfromthemiddle...

Your beliefs are fundamental to who you are. If you want to know your beliefs look at your life. Your life is the road map to your beliefs. If you want to make changes to your life you need to find your core beliefs and make changes at the belief level. In this episode talk more your core beliefs, where they come from and how the effect your behaviors.   email: wendy@messaagesfromthemiddle.com ins...

Continuing with my December mini dives into small things that make a big difference for your mental health: This week I am talking about how important service is to improving your mental health. Take a listen, then go out and share your light with someone! contact me: email: wendy@messagesfromthemiddle.com instagram: @childsongbird

This weeks episode is all about Grace. More specifically grace for yourself, self-love and self-compassion. A personal depvlopment journey is great, but as we work towards self improvement, it is also common to use these tools as ammunition for self-judgement. We also need too give ourselves grace and compassion as we work on creating the best version of ourselves.  email: wendy@messagesfromthemid...

For the month of December I will be doing a deep dive into different tools we can all use to enrich our mental health. This week I was nudged to talk about Faith. As my mental health has been in a backslide lately, I have recognized that I need to go all in on faith. Faith is essential to moving towards understanding our purpose in life and why it is so important to work towards healing. Faith is...

It seems counter intuitive, but being afraid of healing is very common. We are comfortable in our pain, but there is so much more available to us if we are willing to move through the pain and discomfort and find the person we are capable of being on the other side of the healing journey. In this episode I share the reasons why you might be afraid of healing, and offer three ways to work through t...

In this episode I take you through an excercies I use to create a timeline of all the good, happy and uplifting times in your life. This exercise is so powerful to see that life really is 50/50 there is light and good in our lives. We just have to look for it!   email: wendy@messagesfromthemiddle.com instagram: @childsongbird  

There are so many discoveries I have made since my ADHD diagnosis. This week I do a deep dive into what I learned about people with ADHD and their tendency to over-talk and over-share. This has been a big one my whole life. Learning that it is a result of issues with executive function AND that there are things we can all do to help us be better with our communication.  Instagram @childsongbird em...

I really struggle with winter. A few years ago, as a way of learning to do more than just get through winter I learned about Hygge. In this episode I share a few fundamental of this Danish art of cozy, comfort and well being along with the five goals I have set for having a better winter season this year.  my list ofHygge essentials of Amazon:https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/2B3T1B45QFV0P?ref...