Men's Psychology Podcast

Welcome to a series of videos that will introduce you to a simple model of men’s psychology that draws on some of the growing body of research on men. There’s more than meets the eye with men, just as there is with women. Men are driven at the core by instincts the same as women— masculine instincts. However, just like women, they have emotions of very similar types and style. The expression is di...

Welcome to a series of videos that will introduce you to a simple model of men’s psychology that draws on some of the growing body of research on men. There’s more than meets the eye with men, just as there is with women. Men are driven at the core by instincts the same as women— masculine instincts. However, just like women, they have emotions of very similar types and style. The expression is di...

To get all our programs, become an Upgraded Member: Welcome to a series of audios that will introduce you to a simple model of men’s psychology that draws on some of the growing body of research on men. There’s more than meets the eye with men, just as there is with women. Men are driven at the core by instincts the same as women— masculine instincts. However, just like women, they have emotions o...

To get all our programs, become an Upgraded Member: Welcome to a series of audios that will introduce you to a simple model of men’s psychology that draws on some of the growing body of research on men. There’s more than meets the eye with men, just as there is with women. Men are driven at the core by instincts the same as women— masculine instincts. However, just like women, they have emotions o...

Sign up here for upgraded membership: In this series, Dr. Paul will be addressing some of the challenges and downright traumas many men are facing, the impact on their minds and lives, and providing insights and potential solutions derived from his own proprietary approach developed over 30 years as a psychiatrist. Dr Paul is an author with PenguinRandomHouse and Psychology Today and has been feat...

SHOW NOTES: SUMMARY: In this conversation, Dr. Paul and therapist Jeremy Fox explore the complexities of modern dating, the evolution of dating psychology, and the impact of technology on relationships. They discuss the limitations of evolutionary psychology in understanding attraction and the effectiveness of the Gottman method in marriage counseling. The conversation also delves into communicati...

Summary SHOW NOTES In this conversation, Dr. Paul and Jeremy Fox delve into the complexities of narcissism, its manifestations in relationships, and the psychological implications of narcissistic abuse. They explore the characteristics of narcissistic individuals, the impact of impulsivity in modern society, and the importance of character development in overcoming these challenges. The discussion...

Sign up here for upgraded membership: In this series, Dr. Paul will be addressing some of the challenges and downright traumas many men are facing, the impact on their minds and lives, and providing insights and potential solutions derived from his own proprietary approach developed over 30 years as a psychiatrist. Dr Paul is an author with PenguinRandomHouse and Psychology Today and has been feat...

PTSD and EMDR expert Jeremy Fox joins me for a detailed discussion of the “Triune Brain Model” and the various forms of psychotherapy that treat the right functions with the right techniques. We recommend that you sign up for Romantipedia.substack.com to learn more about this overall system for studying human courtship. I have always considered the “Triune Brain Model” to be what I back up to for...

Show Notes: Summary In this conversation, Dr. Paul and Jeremy Fox discuss the narcissistic abuse cycle. They explore the three stages of the cycle: love bombing, devaluation, and discard. They emphasize the importance of recognizing manipulative behavior in relationships and understanding the difference between healthy courtship and narcissistic manipulation. They also discuss the concept of empat...

SHOW NOTES: The conversation explores the impact of social media and dating apps on the younger generation, focusing on the book 'The Anxious Generation' by Jonathan Haidt and the article 'All the Single Ladies' by Rob Henderson. It discusses how social media affects attention span, sleep, and self-esteem, and how dating apps use algorithms to keep users engaged. The conversation also delves into...

SHOW NOTES Summary In this conversation, Dr. Paul and Jeremy Fox discuss narcissism and the narcissistic abuse cycle. They explore the academic principles and theories related to narcissism, such as self-psychology theory and psychoanalysis. They emphasize the importance of understanding narcissism before entering a relationship and highlight the different games narcissists play. They also discuss...

Samuel Contreras, a teacher and practitioner of Romantic Dynamics, shares his journey and expertise in helping others with their romantic lives. He discusses the importance of personal experience and self-education in understanding relationships. Both formal education and personal experience contribute to a deep understanding of love and relationships. Trauma and childhood experiences play a signi...

Summary In this conversation, Dr. Paul and Jeremy Fox discuss the narcissistic abuse cycle and its impact on individuals. They explore the concept of narcissism as a lack of character maturity and emotional intelligence. They highlight the importance of trauma work in understanding and addressing narcissistic abuse. The conversation covers various aspects of the abuse cycle, including love bombing...

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SUMMARY In this conversation, Dr. Paul and Jeremy Fox discuss the concept of the hero's journey and its relevance to men's psychology. They explore the importance of goal-directed behavior and the need for a narrative structure in men's lives. They also discuss the connection between the hero's journey and the concept of initiation, highlighting the need for a hierarchical benchmark for change in...

There will be some helpful videos below as well from David Buss and Andrew Huberman as well as the Macken Murphy interview by Rowe that both explain human mating strategy when it comes to the Zeus Instinct. For those who want the full course experience with testing and community joint studying, meetups with staff, then become an Upgraded Member: There is even a new Apple App and Google Play App on...

SHOW NOTES: Summary This conversation explores the underpinnings of masculine instinct therapy, starting with evolutionary psychology and Jungian psychology. The discussion emphasizes the importance of character development and high virtues as a foundation for positive masculinity. The concept of masculine instincts is introduced, with three specific instincts identified: the Zeus instinct (to pro...

For more from Men’s Psychology, and full access to this entire course, upgrade here: SHOW NOTES: Here we address the importance of self-worth, self-respect, and self-validation in various aspects of life. It questions whether the listener gives themselves enough credit, likes themselves enough, and values themselves in different domains such as career, relationships, and health. It suggests that t...

For more from Men’s Psychology, and full access to this entire course, upgrade here: SHOW NOTES: We describe a person who is living a passive and unhappy life. He follows instructions at work, allows his girlfriend and friend to cheat on him, and tolerates abuse from his girlfriend. The author suggests that this passivity is like being trapped in a prison, preventing the person from taking action...

For those interested in the 100+ hr video course with detailed instruction about the new field of Men’s Psychology, become an Upgraded Member: SHOW NOTES: In this conversation, Dr. Paul and Jeremy Fox discuss positive masculinity as a new emerging field of psychology. They explore the concept of positive psychology and its connection to ancient philosophical wisdom. They debunk the notion of toxic...

For more from Men’s Psychology, and full access to this entire course, upgrade here: SHOW NOTES: The passage discusses the concept of countertransference in the context of therapy. It explains that when therapists experience different feelings upon interacting with a patient, it is considered reading their own countertransference. This means that the therapist's own feelings, thoughts, and associa...

Summary In this conversation, Dr. Paul and Jeremy Fox discuss the concept of positive psychology and its relevance to both men and women. They explore the idea of unifying various fields of psychology into one model and the importance of character strengths and virtues. They also touch on the role of trauma in both males and females and how trauma work can lead to positive self-assessments and hea...

Our ongoing programs on the various forms of therapy and how they affect men continue with notes and slides… SUMMARY: Summary In this conversation, Dr. Paul and Jeremy Fox discuss mentalization therapy, which is a crucial aspect of every legitimate model of therapy. Mentalization is the capacity to understand one's and others' internal mental processes, including thoughts, feelings, needs, desires...