Men and Sex: Unlocking Power, Pleasure, and Purpose. ⚔️

What does it really mean to be dominant—in life, in energy, and in presence? In this episode of Men and Sex , I sit down with Justin Gottlieb —also known as @tantralovecoach —a sexual freedom coach and facilitator of tantra massage and retreats. Together, we explore how to Dom your life —to lead yourself and others with grounded strength, clarity, and integrity. We dive into: 🗣️ Our word as bond —...

How can men approach women in a way that feels grounded, confident, and respectful? And what does it take to truly master our sexual energy—not just for sex, but for life itself? In this episode of Men and Sex , I sit down with Jayde Alexandra , a feminine embodiment mentor and coach, for a powerful conversation about desire, attraction, and evolution through relationship. We dive into: 🔥 How to...

What’s it like to grow up as a man in Canada, navigating sex, shame, rebellion, and relationships? In this episode of Men and Sex , I sit down with Raven , a Canadian man sharing his raw experiences and reflections. Together, we explore the universal challenges—and uniquely Canadian perspectives—on sexuality and manhood. We dive into: ⚡ The awkwardness and confusion of spontaneous erections as te...

We’ve made nudity so complicated. Sexualized. Shamed. Hidden away. But in nature? Everything is nude. No hiding. No judgment. No shame. In this episode of Men and Sex , I sit down with Kerry Kott , known as Nature Is Always Nude on Instagram, to explore the human-made complexities of nudity—and the deep medicine of returning to it. We dive into: 🌱 Why being nude is the most natural expression of...

What happens when you dedicate seven years of your life to uncovering the truth about sex? In this episode of Men and Sex , I sit down with Alex Liu , the filmmaker behind the groundbreaking documentary A Sexplanation . His mission: to confront shame, take responsibility for a lack of sexual education, and bring honesty back into how we talk about sex. We dive into: 🙏 The impact of religion on se...

In this episode of Men and Sex , I’m joined by Lona —a sexual bliss coach and neo-tantra teacher—for a deep conversation about roles, polarity, and stepping into more assertive, embodied energy as men. We dive into: 🎭 The power of playing with roles in the bedroom—specifically D-D-L-G (Daddy Dom / Little Girl) dynamics 📚 Why No More Mr. Nice Guy struck such a chord with men, and how we’re now li...

What happens when you grow up in a culture that almost never talks about sex? In this episode of Men and Sex , I sit down with RD , a 21-year-old man from Ukraine, to hear his raw and unfiltered story. This is part of my series interviewing men across the world to uncover the common threads in how we were shaped around sexuality. We talk about: 🇺🇦 Growing up in a post-Soviet culture where “no one...

Most men have never been taught how to truly touch themselves—let alone how to touch a partner. And it shows. In this episode of Men and Sex , I sit down again with Victoria Angel Heart to explore: 💔 The difference between genuine giving and manipulation disguised as generosity ⚡ How rushing to the finish or “taking” without awareness erodes connection 🛏️ Why your self-pleasure practice is the t...

Desire is more than just wanting something—it’s a mirror for how we live, love, and create. In this episode of Men and Sex , I sit down with Melody Lubin —a mentor of feminine arts and embodiment—for a deep dive into desire, capacity, and sexuality. We explore: 🌹 The subtle layers of wanting—and why most men miss them 💡 How fear of not getting what we want keeps us playing small 🛠️ The responsib...

For centuries, sex was seen as sacred. Not sinful. Not shameful. Not shallow. But somewhere along the way—we lost that connection. In Episode 50 of Men and Sex , I sit down with Hannah Haazal —a sacred sexuality educator, ritual artist, intimacy coach, herbalist, and death doula—whose work is about restoring the holy power of erotic energy and helping men become deeply embodied, present lovers . W...

Sex isn’t just physical. It’s spiritual. Subtle. Mystical. In this episode of Men and Sex , I sit down with Jessica Bird —a powerful speaker, intuitive healer, and erotic channel—to explore the deeper truths of erotic energy and what it means to return to our erotic innocence . We dive into: 🌬️ The subtle, sacred nature of sex—and how to become attuned to its presence in all of life 💓 What it mea...

This episode is a doozy —and one of the most eye-opening conversations I’ve had on Men and Sex . I sat down with a deeply informed anonymous guest, a man who has dedicated himself to understanding the full impact of circumcision—physically, emotionally, sexually, and culturally. And he came ready to share what most people never hear. We dive into: 🔍 Why do we circumcise? Religious tradition, cult...

If you are a heterosexual Male that wants deeper intimacy, better sex, and more embodied connection in your relationships—this episode is for you. I sat down with Ashley Jones , a gifted love, intimacy, and embodiment coach who works with women, couples, and men to rewire the way we relate—inside and outside the bedroom. Together, we explored: 💡 What’s actually required to create a deeply nourish...

In this potent episode I sit down with Tyson Adams —a leading expert in porn addiction and semen retention —to explore one of the most urgent issues men are facing today. We talk about: 📺 How porn has rewired our brains to crave novelty and disconnect from real intimacy. We've been trained to "bond" with screens 🤖 The rise of AI influencers and why more men are falling in love with...

Most men were never taught how to touch themselves with intention. They use masturbation to release pressure —not to build power. In this live training, Victoria Angel Heart and I guide you through a whole new approach to self-pleasure: one that expands your nervous system, sharpens your focus, and strengthens your capacity to hold more sensation, emotion, and energy. We cover: 🛑 Why most masturb...

Let’s be real: A lot of the talk around semen retention is rooted in shame-based marketing . Buy this course. Follow this guru. Stop ejaculating or you’re wasting your life force. Don't be a weak beta male. Sound familiar? In this episode of Men and Sex , I sit down with Cam Fraser —a certified sex coach, sexologist, and men's work facilitator who brings real depth, skill, and compassion t...

Tapping Into Trust: Healing Performance Anxiety with Victoria Angel Heart 🧠💥🫀 This episode is action-packed and full of tools every man needs. I’m joined by Victoria Angel Heart , an incredible guide in nervous system regulation, emotional healing, and embodiment. We dive deep into: 👐 EFT tapping as a practical tool for reducing performance anxiety and calming the body 💔 How many men have unk...

“I am the POWER.” These words have become a daily mantra for me since meeting Kevin Walton , aka Source Radiance . Kevin is one of the most energized, creative, and aligned men I’ve ever encountered—a true embodiment of activated masculine presence. In this episode, we dive deep into: 🧱 Facing guilt and shame as the gateway to reclaiming personal power 🔥 The razor-thin line between healthy desir...

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What do you do after sex? Do you rush to get dressed, check your phone, or dive back into your to-do list? In this episode, I unpack a powerful practice that most men overlook— the art of staying with the energy after a sexual experience. I share from my own story: 🌀 How I began to slow down and actually feel the vitality, pleasure, and turn-on pulsing in my body 💡 The realization that all of th...

In this solo recorded episode of Men and Sex , I take you deep into my personal journey—from being a “good boy” obsessed with pleasing others… to becoming a man women naturally want to submit to. I break down: 🔍 How early behaviors and belief systems shaped me into a performer and people-pleaser 🛑 Why being nice often leads to frustration, resentment, and lack of polarity 🗣️ The critical practic...

In this episode of Men and Sex , I sit down with the radiant Jessica Begin to explore one of the most underrated tools for liberation: your voice . Whether it’s moaning, toning, speaking your truth, or expressing your desires—your voice is a direct pathway to your power. We dive into: 🔓 How liberating your voice can unlock deeper freedom in and out of the bedroom 😶 The fear of rejection and sham...

In this episode of Men and Sex , I sit down with Vince Chafin —a devoted leader with Sacred Sons and the Mankind Project , and someone I’ve been honored to learn from over the past year. Vince brings fierce love and clear truth to men’s work, and this conversation cuts right to the bone. We dive deep into: 🌑 The sexual shadow —how porn, culture, and peer influence have shaped our sexuality in dis...

Episode #36 – The Art of Taking: Consent, Power & Liberation In this episode of Men and Sex , I’m joined by the incredible Phoenix Amara for a deep dive into the often-misunderstood topic of taking . 🌀 We explore the wisdom of the Wheel of Consent —a framework that reveals how healthy dynamics of giving and taking can lead to more freedom, clarity, and connection. We talk about: 🔹 What it re...

"The strongest individuals are those who can be dangerous but chose not to be." For too long heartless men have created a lot of this world. Powerful men that were very primal, but often thinking of themselves. Many people have experienced pain and suffering under this type of leadership and in the recent years many have spoken up against it. - An un intended impact? A lot of nice guys. A lot of m...