Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher

Maurice Harker dispels the myth that men must have sex. He also offers when they are not having sex what they need to be focusing on. To learn more about this topic and others please click on the links below: http://www.lazaruslectures.com/ (For both) https://www.lifechangingservices.org/wmrw/ (for wives) https://www.lifechangingservices.org/mmrw/ (for husbands)

Maurice Harker discusses the process of establishing emotional intimacy in communication. He provides advice, insights and what to watch out for when trying to develop a deeper connection in marriage repair. To learn more about this topic and others please click on the links below: http://www.lazaruslectures.com/ (For both) https://www.lifechangingservices.org/wmrw/ (for wives) https://www.lifecha...

Maurice Harker shares a personal story about communication with his son.  He explains how practicing communication is just like any other skill if you really want to get good at it and improve your relationship. To learn more about this topic and others please click on the links below:  http://www.lazaruslectures.com/ (For both) https://www.lifechangingservices.org/wmrw/ (for wives) http...

Maurice Harker explains the importance of understanding each others perspective. Failure to understand perspective can indicate not being ready to progress the relationship.  To learn more about this topic and others please click on the links below: http://www.lazaruslectures.com/ (For both) https://www.lifechangingservices.org/wmrw/ (for wives) https://www.lifechangingservices.org/mmrw/ (for...

Maurice Harker explains how a talk with his son led to the idea of Red Sea parting ideas for conversation. Thinking outside the box (much like parting the Red Sea) can lead to growth and better communication in marriage repair.   To learn more about this topic and others please click on the link below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Maurice Harker explains the value of allowing each spouse to formulate their responses in conversations in order to allow the Spirit to be present. By allowing each spouse to get it wrong and then get it right communication can be edifying and uplifting. For more information on this topic please click on the links below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Maurice Harker explains how practicing conversational skills can lead to better and more effective communication while developing more verbal intimacy. He explains the process as part of The What About Game.  To learn more about this topic and others please click on the links below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

You may be surprised to learn that the clutch and the brake can be valuable tools in developing intimacy with your spouse! Maurice Harker explains how these elements can be used to improving your communication and help marriage repair.  To learn more about this topic and others please click on the links below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Maurice Harker explains the What About game and how it  can help to strengthen emotional intimacy in your relationship. To learn more about this topic and others please click on the links below: http://www.lazaruslectures.com/ (For both) https://www.lifechangingservices.org/wmrw/ (for wives) https://www.lifechangingservices.org/mmrw/ (for husbands)

Maurice Harker explains one of the most difficult steps in developing emotional intimacy.  Knowing when to take yourself out of the conversation can go a long way toward establishing and developing a deeper connection between spouses.  To learn more about this topic and others please click on the link below: http://www.lazaruslectures.com/ (For both) https://www.lifechangingservices.org/...

A recent clip from our Women Marriage Repair has Maurice Harker explaining why it is so important to check where both spouses are along the path to true intimacy.  Knowing where and your spouse are in the development of your relationship can provide a clearer path to relationship repair.  To learn more about this topic and others please click on the links below: http://www.lazaruslecture...

Maurice Harker explains a helpful tool to keep the spirit involved in your conversations. When used correctly this tool can help with effective and more satisfactory communication. To learn more about this topic or others please click on the links below: http://www.lazaruslectures.com/ (For both) https://www.lifechangingservices.org/wmrw/ (for wives) https://www.lifechangingservices.org/mmrw/ (for...

Maurice Harker explains how to establish clear goals if you are unsure as to the goal of any conversation. Learning the difference between true verbal intimacy versus unilateral talking is crucial to being effective in any communication.  To learn more about this topic and others please click on the links below: 4 http://www.lazaruslectures.com/ (For both) https://www.lifechangingservices.org...

Maurice Harker discusses the need to avoid absolutes as it relates to physical intimacy.  He advises being aware of how you feel now may not be how you feel later.  To learn more about this subject and others please click on the links below: 4 http://www.lazaruslectures.com/ (For both) https://www.lifechangingservices.org/wmrw/ (for wives) https://www.lifechangingservices.org/mmrw/ (for...

Maurice Harker answers the question of what is Spiritual Manipulation? He also advises how to recognize and deal with it should it become an issue in your marriage. To learn more about this topic and others please click on the links below:  4 http://www.lazaruslectures.com/ (For both) https://www.lifechangingservices.org/wmrw/ (for wives) https://www.lifechangingservices.org/mmrw/ (for husban...

Maurice Harker explains that healthy conversations between spouses involve more listening then talking. He also gives advice on how to react if your spouse really isn't listening. For more information on this topic and others please click on the links below: http://www.lazaruslectures.com/ (For both) https://www.lifechangingservices.org/wmrw/ (for wives) https://www.lifechangingservices.org/mmrw/...

Maurice Harker explains the importance of having a graceful retreat and regroup. He also explains how to use the time to self ponder and allow yourself to improve the quality of your communication despite the presence of a 3rd person in the room.  To learn more about this topic and others please click on the links below: http://www.lazaruslectures.com/ (For both) https://www.lifechangingservi...

Maurice Harker explains that what not to say can be even more important then what to say when there is a third person in the room.  He provides guidance on how to diffuse the situation and return it to productive and effective communication. To learn more about this topic and others please click on the links below:  http://www.lazaruslectures.com/ (For both) https://www.lifechangingservi...

Please enjoy a clip from a recent Women's Marriage Repair Workshop. Maurice Harker explains that during the emotional intimacy development Satan will be working harder then ever to stop effect communication. For further information on this topic and others please click on the links below: http://www.lazaruslectures.com/ (For both) https://www.lifechangingservices.org/wmrw/ (for wives) https://www....

Maurice Harker explains that just like an athlete or musician you need to practice effective communication.  By practicing what you want to say you can dissuade the evil influence that is trying to take away your opportunity to improve communication with your spouse. To learn more about this topic and others please click on the link below: http://www.lazaruslectures.com/ (For both) https://www.lif...

Maurice Harker explains the importance of understanding if Satan is messing with your husband.  He also gives advice on what not to do if you feel this is what's happening. If you would like more information about this topic and others please click on the links below: http://www.lazaruslectures.com/ (For both) https://www.lifechangingservices.org/wmrw/ (for wives) https://www.lifechangingserv...

Maurice Harker explains how to tell if you are being influenced by the dark side. By knowing this you can understand the how and why of what you are feeling.  For more information on this topic and others please click on the links below: http://www.lazaruslectures.com/ (For both) https://www.lifechangingservices.org/wmrw/ (for wives) https://www.lifechangingservices.org/mmrw/ (for husbands)

Maurice Harker discusses the importance of remembering that all good comes from God. It can be crucial to realizing the presence of the 3rd person in the room (Satan)  when couples are trying to repair their relationship.  To learn more about this topic and others please click on the links below: http://www.lazaruslectures.com/ (For both) https://www.lifechangingservices.org/wmrw/ (for w...

Maurice Harker explains what is needed to build toward a healthy marriage. This clip provides encourage and tips on how to get started. If you would like to learn more about this topic and others please click on the links below: http://www.lazaruslectures.com/ (For both) https://www.lifechangingservices.org/wmrw/ (for wives) https://www.lifechangingservices.org/mmrw/ (for husbands)

Maurice Harker explains how developing the intimacies in your marriage is a building process. He offers help and strategies on how to get started. If you would like to learn more about this topic and others please click on the links below: http://www.lazaruslectures.com/ (For both) https://www.lifechangingservices.org/wmrw/ (for wives) https://www.lifechangingservices.org/mmrw/ (for husbands)