Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher

Maurice Harker explains the importance of bringing notes to verbal intimacy. He encourages spouses to use notes in order to keep the conversation on track and allow each person to clearly express what it most important. To learn more about this topic and others please click on the link below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Maurice Harker explains the steps that need to be taken when a couple in marriage repair finds themselves back at the starting point. Knowing what to do when this happens can help both spouses start verbal intimacy growth in a more productive way. To learn more about this topic and others please click on the link below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Maurice Harker explains how it is often necessary to go back to the starting point of verbal intimacy after being re-traumatized. While this can be difficult to accept he outlines how the process can be done with patience and understanding. To learn more about this topic and others please click on the link below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Maurice Harker answers the question, "Can I cause a re-trigger of my husband's addiction if we become physically intimate"? He offers wives advice on how to gain the necessary information to help them feel comfortable in moving forward in the marriage repair process. To learn more about this topic and others please click on the link below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Maurice Harker explains in the Men's Marriage Repair Workshop how to secure your connection to God during the recovery process. He also gives an overview of Discover, Plan, Act, Reflect and how it can help in improving marriage recovery. To learn more about this topic and others please click on the link below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

In a recent Women's Marriage Repair Workshop Maurice Harker encourages wives to put their physical needs and wants in a clear format. Understanding where you want to go and how to get there helps insure a higher rate of success in marriage repair. To learn more about this topic and others please click on the link below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Maurice Harker explains how correctly going through the intimacies can set the stage for better physical intimacy. This critical information can be crucial during the marriage repair process. To learn more about this topic and others please click on the link below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Maurice Harker gives an overview of the care system of MANPoWeR. He explains each letter and what it stands for. To learn more about this topic and others please click on the link below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Maurice Harker explains what gift sex really is. He also give an explanation of how to use your calendar to promote sexual intimacy in the marriage repair process. To learn more about this topic and others please click on the link below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Maurice Harker explains how the Calendar Exercise can help women realize what amount of healthy sex is needed to nurture their marriage. He gives guidance and counsel on how to approach this using the stewardship role of a nurturer. To learn more about this topic and others please click on the link below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Maurice Harker discusses in a recent Men's Marriage Repair Workshop how to extend your Season 2. Additionally he discusses the importance of protecting and honoring the self care rituals of both spouses. To learn more about this topic and others please click on the link below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Maurice Harker discusses the 3 types of healthy sex. He explains how to connect with them by using The Calendar Exercise. To learn more about this topic and others please click on the link below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Please enjoy this clip from a recent Women's Marriage Repair Session. Maurice Harker explains the principle of Preside, Provide and Protect and how it relates to physical intimacy in marriage. To learn more about this topic and others please click on the link below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Maurice Harker explains in a recent Men's Marriage Repair Workshop the need to plan a graceful and dignified exit. Knowing how and when to make the move to Season 4 is crucial in marriage repair. To learn more about this topic and others please click on the link below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Please enjoy this clip from a recent Men's Marriage Repair Workshop. Maurice Harker explains the importance of anchoring to God despite whatever else may be going around you.  To learn more about this topic and others please click on the link below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Maurice Harker describes the tool of retreat, regroup, re-plan and execute in marriage repair. Having a plan and being able to execute it can lead to a far more successful outcome. If you would like to learn more about this topic and others please click on the link below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Maurice Harker explains the true goal of self-care.  In evaluating your self care you can realize where your efforts at self-care can realize the biggest rewards. To learn more about this topic please click on the link below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Please enjoy this clip from a recent Men's Marriage Repair class. Maurice Harker explains the emotional management of Notice It-Name It- Flip It -Find It. To learn more about this topic and others please click on the link below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Maurice Harker discusses when its time to let go.  He explains how the grief cycle affects this decision and how to keep your celestial orientation. To learn more about this topic and other please click on the links below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Maurice Harker explains the true meaning of spiritual intimacy. He also cautions against falling for the "Bulldozer Approach".  To learn more about this topic and others please click on the link below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Maurice Harker discusses the building blocks of verbal, cognitive and emotional intimacy. Once these intimacies have some success then the couple can move toward spiritual intimacy. To learn more about this topic and others please click on the links below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Maurice Harker discusses emotional intimacy and the steps to take when healing. Knowing what to do and not to do when developing emotional intimacy in marriage repair can be critical to know. To learn more about this topic and others please click on the link below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Maurice Harker describes the beginning intimacies in Season 1. If you and your spouse are ready to start building in marriage repair Verbal and Cognitive intimacy are the next steps.  To learn more about this topic and others please click on the link below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Maurice Harker describes the first steps in the marriage repair process.  From  D-Day to moving into Season 4 he describes the journey and what can result from it. To learn more about this topic and others please click on the links below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Please enjoy a clip from a recent Women's Marriage Repair Workshop. Maurice Harker explains the difficulty a man has developing psychological intimacy while fighting an addiction.  To learn more about this topic and others please click on the links below: https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/