Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher

In this episode of the Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher , Maurice Harker discusses the common pitfalls in marriage repair, where couples rely on quick fixes—like “duct taping” their problems—rather than rebuilding from the ground up. He introduces the concept of the Borningen Marriage, a transformative process designed to strengthen both individuals before working on the relationship itself. Maur...

In this episode of the Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher , Maurice Harker dives deep into the delicate balance of personal responsibility in relationships, especially when one partner takes on too much. Through a touching personal story about a young woman grappling with feelings of blame and inadequacy, Maurice illustrates the dangerous swing between being under-responsible and over-responsible....

In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher , Maurice Harker explores the slow, intentional process of creation and teaching. Drawing from personal experiences and principles in the temple ceremony, he emphasizes the importance of organizing ideas and embracing the messiness of life. Maurice reassures us that as we try to guide and teach others—whether through parenting or other forms of...

In this enlightening episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher , Maurice Harker discusses the power of temple covenants as anchor points in our lives, especially during times of satanic attacks. With personal experiences and insights drawn from the scriptures and modern-day teachings, Maurice unpacks the deeper meaning behind temple covenants, helping us recognize their protective and empowerin...

In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher , Maurice Harker explores the true role of a parent (or leader) through the lens of divine guidance and personal responsibility. He delves into the misconception that a parent’s primary job is to ensure obedience, highlighting that it is not mentioned in divine teachings. Maurice shares personal stories and insights from both military history an...

In this heartfelt episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher , Maurice Harker dives into the difficult balance between hope and reality in challenging marriages. Sharing personal stories of miracles in his own life, Maurice explains how to navigate the grief cycle while still holding on to hope for the seemingly impossible. He encourages listeners to keep moving through every stage of the proces...

In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher , Maurice Harker addresses one of the most challenging aspects of navigating troubled marriages—managing the tension between hope for change and the reality of the situation. Using an enhanced version of the grief cycle, Maurice explains how many women, especially those striving for a celestial marriage, often struggle with acceptance and resign...

In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher , Maurice Harker explores the powerful journey of learning to recognize and accept a healthy partner after experiencing betrayal or a failed relationship. Joined by a guest who shares her personal story of moving from a toxic marriage to a fulfilling partnership, Maurice emphasizes the principles of rebuilding trust, the importance of self-growt...

In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher , Maurice Harker tackles the difficult topic of rebuilding trust after repeated disappointments in a marriage. Through the powerful analogy of a collapsing bridge, Maurice explains how setting boundaries based on observable improvements helps avoid emotionally driven decisions. He also emphasizes the importance of individual growth during this p...

In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher , Maurice Harker addresses a crucial issue in marriage recovery: avoiding the unproductive "mother-son" dynamic that often arises when one partner becomes responsible for the other's accountability. By utilizing tools like the DPAR (Discover, Plan, Act, Reflect) model, Maurice explains how both partners can engage in meaningful ste...

In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher , Maurice Harker offers deep insights into one of the most challenging aspects of marriage repair: navigating boundaries after trust has been broken. Addressing concerns about recovery, accountability, and creating a healthy dynamic without falling into a "parent-child" relationship, Maurice provides practical advice and spiritual prin...

In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher , Maurice Harker shares profound insights into breaking the destructive cycle of hurt and retaliation, whether in relationships, families, or society. Using Christ as the ultimate example, Maurice discusses the power of acting with compassion and empathy in the face of pain, even when it feels counterintuitive. Drawing on personal experiences, s...

In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher , Maurice Harker focuses on the challenges of overcoming self-doubt and satanic attacks that hinder us from sharing our gifts with the world. Through personal experiences, practical advice, and insightful conversation, Maurice and his guests discuss how to break through negative patterns, simplify complex ideas, and use modern tools—like AI—to r...

In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher , Maurice Harker tackles the internal battles we all face when stepping out of our comfort zones to serve others. He dives deep into overcoming fear, pain, and self-doubt, illustrating how anchoring to the Lord can help you break negative patterns and empower you to share your unique gifts. Drawing on personal experiences, spiritual insights, an...

In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher , Maurice Harker dives into one of the most significant challenges faced by those striving to serve and uplift others—overcoming the fear of rejection. Drawing from personal experiences and spiritual insights, Maurice shares how we can flip the mental switch from self-preservation to selfless service, even in the face of fierce opposition. Throu...

In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher , Maurice Harker explores the role of artificial intelligence in spiritual learning and the importance of keeping Christ as the focal point. Despite the growing capabilities of AI tools, Maurice emphasizes how personal revelation and insight surpass any technological aid. He shares experiences from his family gathering, discussing themes of lega...

In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher , Maurice Harker discusses the challenges men face when their wives emotionally withdraw during marriage repair. He dives into the importance of reflecting on past behaviors and how they might impact your current relationship. Maurice provides practical advice on using situational empathy and the DPAR (Discover, Plan, Act, Reflect) method to bet...

In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher , Maurice Harker dives into the challenges of repairing a marriage, particularly when it comes to handling rejection and staying resilient. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the adversary’s relentless attacks on moral purity and the need to be vigilant in protecting your marriage. Maurice also explains the four seasons of a relations...

In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher , Maurice Harker guides men through the often overwhelming process of marriage repair. Focusing on the importance of consistent effort, Maurice discusses the value of developing a marital mission statement, creating an identity statement, and embracing situational empathy. Through practical examples and humor, this episode encourages men to stay...

In this episode of Spiritual Psychology Masterclass , Maurice Harker explores the challenge of navigating overwhelming opinions and advice, especially in a world filled with conflicting voices. Maurice emphasizes the importance of anchoring yourself in divine guidance and trusting spiritual direction over human opinions. Drawing from personal experiences and scriptural insights, he shares practica...

In this episode of Spiritual Psychology Masterclass , Maurice Harker shares his personal experience of confronting sudden fear and anxiety, offering practical strategies to regain peace and stability. Maurice walks listeners through the importance of having a pre-planned approach to handle emotional surges, emphasizing the power of spiritual anchors and actionable steps. Whether you're dealing...

In this episode of Spiritual Psychology Masterclass , Maurice Harker addresses the challenge many face when life feels chaotic and overwhelming. How do you find peace and stability when everything around you seems to be in turmoil? Maurice shares practical insights on how to find spiritual "anchors"—key principles and scriptures—that can provide clarity, comfort, and direction during dif...

In this episode of Spiritual Psychology Masterclass , Maurice Harker tackles the difficult questions surrounding faith, doubt, and the challenges of staying spiritually anchored when confronted with troubling information or life’s hardships. Drawing from personal experiences and scriptural insights, Maurice shares how to maintain a strong connection to spiritual truths even when faced with unsettl...

In this episode of Spiritual Psychology Masterclass , Maurice Harker confronts the frustration many face when conventional psychological approaches fail to resolve deep-seated marital issues. Drawing from the teachings of the prophets, Maurice explains how integrating spiritual insights with psychological principles can provide the missing ingredient for true healing and growth. Through relatable...

In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher , Maurice Harker addresses a common struggle in marriages: the fear of rejection when trying to communicate honestly and openly with your spouse. Maurice shares practical strategies for pushing through these fears, maintaining consistency in communication, and overcoming the mental battles that arise when your efforts seem unappreciated. Through...