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Join us In this episode of Matchmaker Matchmerk where your hosts, Aleeza and Rabbi discuss the challenging task of rejecting someone kindly in dating situations. They explore the use of technology, particularly Chat GPT, as a means to craft considerate rejections while emphasizing the ethical and responsible use of such tools. Key Points: Challenges of Kind Rejection: Discussion on the difficultie...

Join us this week in the Matchmaker Matchmaker Podcast, where Rabbi and Aleeza discuss a listener's question that's all too familiar: Am I in the friend zone? They unpack what it means to be in the friend zone, the signs to look out for, and how to deal with the uncertainty of a relationship that might be stuck in friendship territory. Whether it's fear of ruining a good friendship...

Welcome to another episode of the Matchmaker Matchmaker podcast, where your hosts, Jewish matchmakers Aleeza and Rabbi, go into the intricacies of dating and relationships within the Jewish community. Today's question comes from a listener who is perplexed by her date's annoying habits, such as repetitive phrases, and his decision-making, like letting her walk home alone and splitting th...

Jump right into this episode where Rabbi and Aleeza get real about a question many of us have after a date: why don't they call back like they said they would? They break down the reasons behind the silence after a date and get into the nitty-gritty of dating do's and don'ts today. Episode Highlights:Spotting the Signs: Aleeza gives it to you straight on how to tell if someone'...

In this episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker, Rabbi and Aleeza discuss the impact of the October 7th massacre on the Jewish community's approach to dating. They go into the heightened urgency and motivation to find a life partner following the tragic event, comparing it to the sense of urgency felt during the COVID-19 pandemic. The hosts explore how this event has led to a shift towards a more fo...

In this episode, Rabbi and Aleeza discuss the importance of dressing for dates and share their perspectives on finding the right balance between personal style and making a positive impression. They share personal experiences and provide practical tips for choosing an outfit that reflects your true self and matches the dating environment. The key topics covered in this episode include:- The signif...

Aleeza and Rabbi are back for another episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker this week. They're tackling a listener's question: "What's the difference between a good guy and a kind guy?" They explain that a good guy is not only nice but also has a fun and engaging personality and is genuinely interested in getting to know people. On the other hand, a kind guy is someone who is s...

Have you ever wondered why divorce rates in the Orthodox Jewish community remain remarkably low? On this weeks episode of the Matchmaker Matchmaker podcast, Rabbi and Aleeza explore this intriguing question, shedding light on the factors that contribute to the resilience of marriages within this community. Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosT...

Join your dating experts on a brand new episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker. Aleeza and Rabbi discuss the question 'Why am I attracted to bad boys'. They explore the reasons why people are attracted to bad boys, even though they know they are not good for them. They also offer some advice on how to shift your desires to something that is actually good for you. Key Points:- People are attrac...

Join Rabbi and Aleeza on this week's episode of Matchmaker as they discuss the challenges and rewards of dating someone who has had a near-death experience. They explore how the experience can change a person's perspective on life and death, and how this can impact their relationships. Key Points:- People who have had near-death experiences often have a heightened sense of urgency and pu...

Join Aleeza and Rabbi as they talk about how to avoid ending up just as friends when you want something more in a relationship. They have different views on whether guys can put women in the friendzone, but they agree that being honest about your feelings is key. They suggest a few practical tips, like being upfront about your emotions, not being afraid to ask someone out, and not hanging around i...

Welcome back to another episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker! In today's show, Aleeza and Rabbi are here to chat with you about what might be holding you back in the dating scene. They'll talk about the importance of looking inward and asking for advice from others. Plus, they'll share some practical tips to help you get out of that dating rut, like finding a mentor or coach. Key Points...

Join us today in the Matchmaker Matchmaker podcast! Aleeza and Rabbi discuss what to do when you're attracted to someone who's not your type. They talk about the importance of being open-minded and giving someone a chance, even if they don't fit your preconceived notions of what you're looking for in a partner. They also share some tips for dating someone who's not your ty...

Welcome back to the Matchmaker Matchmaker podcast! In this episode, Aleeza and Rabbi are tackling a common concern: how to deal with those awkward moments of silence on a first date. They chat about getting comfortable with quiet moments and using them to really get to know your date better. First dates can be a bit awkward, and it's totally okay to have those silent pauses. Tune in to get so...

On this episode of the Matchmaker Matchmaker podcast, Aleeza and Rabbi explore the intricacies of asking someone out confidently and directly. They highlight the importance of establishing a personal connection and discuss tips for choosing enjoyable date activities, along with advice on post-date follow-ups. Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/vide...

Join Aleeza and Rabbi again on a follow-up conversation discussing the topic of pornography addiction and dating. They talk about the importance of being honest with potential partners about your addiction, and how to do so in a way that is respectful and compassionate. They also discuss the challenges of dating someone with a pornography addiction, and how to support your partner through their re...

In this episode of the Matchmaker Matchmaker podcast, Aleeza and Rabbi discuss the challenges of dating someone with an addiction. They talk about the importance of getting support for yourself, as well as the many resources available to help you understand addiction and how to support the addict in your life. Ultimately, whether or not to stay in a relationship with an addict is a personal decisi...

Join Aleeza and Rabbi in this insightful episode as they address a common question from listeners: "What should I do if my partner isn't listening to me?" As dating experts, they provide valuable tips on how to enhance communication in your relationship and effectively deal with this challenging situation. Discover practical advice to create a stronger connection and understanding b...

In this episode of the podcast, Aleeza and Rabbi discuss the important factors to consider when making a long-term commitment. They emphasize the importance of alignment in terms of values, lifestyle, and goals, as well as the need to be aware of any potential areas of conflict or disagreement. They also suggest that people who are considering making a long-term commitment create a list or spreads...

In this episode of the Matchmaker Matchmaker podcast, Rabbi and Aleeza discuss the difference between love and infatuation. They define love as an emotion based on giving, while infatuation is an emotion based on wanting. They also discuss how love takes time to develop, while infatuation can happen at first sight. Finally, they emphasize the importance of being able to tell the difference between...

Join Aleeza and Rabbi on a very special episode of the Matchmaker Podcast as they go into the significance of aligning goals and dreams in a relationship. Drawing from her personal experiences, Aleeza shares how she and her partner went through a working role reversal within their own dynamic. The duo offers some insights on effectively communicating goals and dreams with your partner, as well as...

Coming up in this week's episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker, Aleeza and Rabbi discuss how to tell if you're being used in a relationship. They believe that if you're asking the question, you already know the answer. They both go on to talk about the patterns that people who are being used often fall into, such as having a history of being in relationships with narcissists. They recomm...

Join Rabbi and Aleeza on this exciting podcast as they delve into the realm of relationship arguments and share valuable insights on how to handle them effectively. While disagreements are inevitable, the key lies in maintaining focus and addressing the core issue at hand. Discover why fighting on topic is crucial for healthy conflict resolution, how to avoid fighting dirty by staying on track, an...

In this podcast, Rabbi and Aleeza discuss the issue of people who are "married to people in their head" - people who are unable to move on from a past relationship, even though the relationship has ended. The Rabbi and Aleeza offer advice on how to let go of a past relationship and open yourself up to new possibilities. Key Points:- Acknowledge your feelings. It's normal to feel sad...

In this episode of the podcast, Rabbi and Aleeza discuss whether it is okay to size someone up at first sight. They argue that it is normal for people to make snap judgments about others, but that these judgments should not be taken too seriously. They also discuss the importance of giving people a chance to get to know you before making any final decisions about them. Key Points:It is normal to m...