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In this episode I catch up with Harmonie from Jewish Matchmaking for an exclusive post-show update! She shares surprising news about one of her matches—while opening up about her own dating journey, personal growth, and pursuit of motherhood. Also, guess who’s now a matchmaker! You won’t believe who she’s working for.✨ Support the show Contact Aleeza Ben Shalom https://marriagemindedmentor.com/ C...

In this episode, I sit down with Becky Tahel—award-winning content creator—to talk about love, identity, and the transition from ‘me’ to ‘we.’ We explore how her sister’s interfaith marriage sparked a deep personal transformation, shaping her views on relationships, marriage, and family. Want to build a strong, lasting relationship? We share tips on making intentional choices, creating meaningful...

In this episode, Aleeza Ben Shalom introduces Remy and Jonathan Stern, a couple married for four years with a truly unique love story. Remy is the host of the podcast You're Allowed to Hate Your Husband: A Modern Day Love Story. They discuss their unconventional beginnings, how Jonathan's admiration for Remy went beyond his "typical type," and the evolution of their relationshi...

In this episode, Aleeza Ben Shalom steps into the world of matchmaking with Kami Salman, a 28-year-old opera singer whose Israeli roots and love for tradition shape her journey to find lasting love. From New York’s vibrant energy to Philadelphia’s potential matches, Kami shares her experiences in dating, the significance of shared values, and how her priorities shifted after October 7th. Join Alee...

Looking to find love? In this episode, Aleeza Ben Shalom & Rabbi Yisroel Bernath talk about what a matchmaker really is and the importance of one! Did you know a matchmaker doesn't necessarily have to be a professional? You can even be your own matchmaker.  Rabbi Yisroel Bernath also breaks down the three key components of a successful matchmaker: an introducer, a mentor, and a fixer. 1)...

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On this week's episode, your expert dating coaches, Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath discuss if physical appearance should really be the determining factor in your dating life. Stop basing your expectations on movies and understand what real-life dating is all about. To submit your question for a future episode, go to www. MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast Support the show Contact A...

In this enlightening episode of the Matchmaker, Matchmaker Podcast , Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath dive deep into the core reasons and behaviors that make a relationship happy for a lifetime. Rabbi Bernath passionately argues that trust is the bedrock of any lasting relationship, though it’s not always identifiable at the start. Trust must be built over time through small, consistent...

Get ready for another exciting episode of "Matchmaker Matchmaker," featuring Netflix's own Aleeza Ben Shalom and the dynamic "Love Rabbi," Rabbi Yisroel Bernath! This week, they dive into the intriguing question: "What's the difference between a good guy and a kind guy?" Aleeza and Rabbi Bernath reveal that a good guy isn't just nice—he's also fun,...

In this episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker, Rabbi Yisroel Bernath and Aleeza Ben Shalom welcome back Janine to share another wild and unexpected tale from her dating adventures. This time, Janine recounts a bizarre experience with a man she met online who made an unbelievable claim about having a glass eye, only to later reveal it was a joke. The trio talks about the importance of honesty and humor...

In this week's episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker, Rabbi Yisroel Bernath and Aleeza Ben Shalom are joined by a regular listener Janine, who shares a humorous and perplexing dating experiences that highlight the complexities of modern relationships. The trio explores the boundaries of friendship between men and women, the importance of clear communication, and the persistence often found in roma...

In this episode, Rabbi Yisroel Bernath and Aleeza Ben Shalom discuss a listener's question about how to inspire couples to get engaged and married quicker, reflecting on personal experiences and cultural trends. The discussion the topic of marriage timelines and societal perceptions of marriage. They also talk about the challenges and benefits of marriage, emphasizing the importance of positi...

In this episode, Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath talk about a listener's question about the unique challenges of dating as a middle-aged Jew in the rural South. Rachel, a listener from Virginia, shares her experience of connecting with another Jewish divorcee from North Carolina and the complexities of their new relationship.  Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath discuss th...

In this episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker, Rabbi Yisroel Bernath and Aleeza Ben Shalom tackle a big question from a listener named Shoshana, who has been single for ten years and is struggling to understand why finding a life partner is so hard. The discussion looks at both the spiritual and practical sides of finding a match, exploring the balance between divine intervention and free will.  Rabbi...

In this episode, Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath answer a question from Judith, a widow in her 50s. Judith notices that many divorced men she meets blame their failed marriages on their ex-wives' emotional issues, which they say come from being raised by Holocaust survivors. The episode looks into whether this is a real pattern or just an excuse.  Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisro...

Join us for another episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker where your hosts, Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath dive into a heartfelt query from Yosef, who is facing the challenge of unrequited love with a friend. The episode explores the delicate balance of maintaining a friendship while dealing with romantic feelings that aren't reciprocated. Key Points: Respecting the Friend's Deci...

In this episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker, Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath respond to a listener who is struggling with self-criticism after a past relationship. They discuss the importance of forgiving oneself and using mistakes as learning opportunities for better future relationships. The conversation offers practical advice on personal growth and emotional recovery post-breakup. Key...

In this episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker, Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath discuss the challenges people face when dating after a divorce. They offer advice on dealing with public perception, the best time to share your divorce history, and learning from past relationships to improve future ones. This conversation provides practical tips for those looking to find love again. Key Points:...

This week, your hosts tackle the listener's question about the meaning and implications of requesting a "phone break" in a relationship. Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath discuss various scenarios and motives behind such a request, providing insights into communication dynamics in modern relationships.  In this episode, they cover: Understanding the Request: Exploring what...

Welcome to another episode of the Matchmaker Matchmaker podcast where your hosts, Jewish dating experts Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath, discuss this week's listeners' question: 'What do you do when a girl doesn't want you But you know, she loves you?'  They break down emotional dilemmas, historical perspectives on marriage, and the practical aspects needed bey...

Welcome back to another episode of the Matchmaker Matchmaker Podcast. On this week's episode, Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath discuss the complexities of physical attraction in dating and relationships. They go into the question of what to do when someone attempts to set you up with a person who is considered a great match, but you don't find them physically attractive.  Alee...

Join us this week on "Matchmaker Matchmaker" as Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath discuss trust in relationships. They explore the time it takes to establish trust, the link between commitment and the growth of trust, and the impact of personal insecurities and past traumas on trust-building. Throughout the episode, they share practical perspectives, stressing the importance of...

Welcome back to another episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker, where Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath discuss whether women fall in love faster than men. They challenge this common assumption, sharing personal stories and emphasizing the importance of clear communication in relationships. The hosts also touch on the role of matchmakers in guiding relationship milestones and share insights in...

Join us today on the Matchmaker Matchmaker podcast as Aleeza and Rabbi discuss the common doubts and challenges individuals face in finding the right partner. They explore the importance of asking the right questions and reframing the search for love. The conversation also goes into the significance of non-negotiables in relationships and the varied importance of specific traits in different indiv...

In this episode, Aleeza and Rabbi discuss the common scenario of being mistaken for being married and how to respond to such assumptions. They share playful and humorous ways to handle these situations, emphasizing the importance of using humor to break the ice and creating relational opportunities. relationship status. Key Points:Using Humor: Aleeza and Rabbi advocate for responding to assumption...