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In this episode, Aleeza and Rabbi discuss the pros and cons of long distance relationships. They talk about the challenges of being in a relationship with someone who is far away, as well as the benefits of being able to focus on your career or education without having to worry about a relationship. They also offer advice on how to make a long distance relationship work. Key Points:Long-distance r...

In this episode, the hosts Aleeza and Rabbi, discuss the topic of knowing when it's time to end a relationship. They introduce the concept of "soulmate clarity" and explain a system for evaluating relationships based on values, fears, and irritants. By ranking these factors against personal values and assessing how much the other person triggers and irritates, one can determine the...

Join Rabbi and Aleeza as they address a listener's question regarding a partner's annoying habits and catchphrases. The hosts stress the significance of open communication, expressing preferences, and seeking professional guidance when necessary. They shed light on the role of matchmakers in relationships, suggesting the involvement of a "fixer" matchmaker to provide support. O...

Welcome to another exciting episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker, where your hosts Aleeza and Rabbi, the ultimate dating experts, tackle this week's question - 'Is it fair that Men are allowed to be pickier than women'?You'll get to hear about a real-life story of a woman who was unapologetically specific about her dating preferences and how that worked out for her. Plus, you'...

In this episode, Aleeza and Rabbi talk about the three core reasons or behaviors for a relationship to be happy for a lifetime. They discuss the importance of kindness, humor, and honesty, but Aleeza wants to replace kindness with something better. Rabbi believes that trust is the most important thing in a relationship, but Aleeza argues that it's not identifiable enough. They then discuss gi...

Aleeza and Rabbi are back with your weekly dating queries. In this podcast, they explore the challenges of online dating, particularly for those who have been single for a while. They delve into the issues of ghosting, mixed signals, and the importance of finding a mentor to help guide you through these issues. Key points:The experience of being single for an extended period of time and using onli...

In this episode, Rabbi and Aleeza offer guidance to a listener who shares her painful experience of being blindsided by a breakup after a seemingly promising start to a relationship. Your dating experts then reflect on the importance of taking things slow and not being too emotionally vulnerable or physically intimate too soon in a relationship, especially in the early stages. They highlight the n...

In this Matchmaker Matchmaker podcast episode, Rabbi and Aleeza tackle a tough dating question: How should someone handle dating when suffering from financial issues due to job loss or other unforeseeable events? Is it a good time to date, since it could be a litmus test to see if your soulmate will stick around? Is it important to be happy, healthy, and confident before dating, regardless of fina...

In this episode, Rabbi and Aleeza discuss the topic of conflict avoidance in the context of dating and matchmaking. They explore how conflict avoidance is a personality trait and can affect relationships, and suggest ways to navigate this issue in dating. The hosts discuss the Big Five personality traits and how conflict avoidance is a part of one's personality type. They also emphasize that...

This week's episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker covers the scenario of a partner losing interest whenever starting a relationship. Your dating experts, Rabbi and Aleeza suggest that the person might not be choosing quality humans and is just being receptive to whoever chases her. They advise the person to be more discerning about who she likes and not just be responsive to anyone who shows inter...

Your hosts, Aleeza and Rabbi disagree with the phrasing of the question, as they believe that once someone gets married, their partner becomes their soulmate. However, they acknowledge that some people may struggle with letting go of certain non-negotiables when searching for a partner. They suggest that at least 70% of the things a person wants in a partner should align with their values and fear...

Rabbi and Aleeza share their valuable insights on today's dating life. The world is big and now with so many opportunities to date, it can be overwhelming. They'll also discuss how to be approachable if you are in a happy relationship as well as how to seek for help if you are needing it. -How to be approachable-How to share your message-Not to give up-If you're having trouble with...

This episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker is all about the importance of vulnerability in relationships. Aleeza and Rabbi discuss how being vulnerable can help you move on from negative experiences and be open to new experiences. They also offer advice on how to be vulnerable. This is a must-listen for anyone who wants to improve their relationship experiences! The importance of vulnerability in relat...

If you're looking for advice on how to find a healthy relationship and get married, this is the podcast for you. In this episode, your favorite relationship coaches Rabbi and Aleza offer their advice on how to find a happy and healthy relationship. -The importance of finding a happy and healthy couple to model your relationship after, especially if you come from a divorced home.-How we can le...

This episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker offers listeners an important perspective on the importance of being truthful about your age. Too often, people lie about their age in an attempt to find someone who is a better match, but does this work in the long run? Aleeza and Rabbi Yisroel both have conflicting opinions on this topic.1. The importance of being truthful about your age when looking for a s...

Looking for love but feeling self-conscious? It's time for an intervention! On this latest episode of Matchmaker, Matchmaker, host Aleeza and Rabbi Yisroel offer advice on how to present yourself to other singles and matchmakers. She stresses the importance of being honest about who you are and what you're looking for, and offers tips on how to make the most of your dating profile. 1. Ho...

This episode of the Matchmaker, Matchmaker podcast provides excellent advice for those getting married for the second time. The podcast features experts who discuss the importance of choosing the right partner. Aleeza Ben Shalom explains that people often want one of two extremes: someone who is easy to get along with or someone who is exciting. However, neither of these options is ideal. Instead,...

Listen to this episode of Matchmaker, Matchmaker to learn what you can do to fix a relationship with a matchmaker. This episode will talk about your own emotions, working with a matchmaker, and finding the right matchmaker for you. What it means when a matchmaker says someone is difficult to work withWhy the matchmaker is the easiest person to blame for a failed relationshipHow to be ambitious and...

If you're struggling looking for love, you need to listen to the latest episode of Matchmaker, Matchmaker. In it, Rabbi Yisroel and Aleeza discuss the importance of taking a dating vacation. They explain how the modern 'swiping' dating system is not designed for long term relationships and that you need to pace yourself to avoid burnout.1) The importance of knowing yourself before y...

Looking to find love? In this episode, your dating experts talk about what a matchmaker really is and the importance of one! Did you know a matchmaker doesn't necessarily have to be a professional? You can even be your own matchmaker. Rabbi Yisroel also breaks down the three key components of a successful matchmaker: an introducer, a mentor, and a fixer.1) The definition of a matchmaker2) The...

On this episode of the Matchmaker Matchmaker podcast, your dating experts tackle the tough question of what to do when someone who loves you, doesn't want to be with you. While it is difficult, sometimes it is necessary to walk away from a potential relationship that is not healthy for either party. -The importance of being 100% sure that the person you are with is the right person for you-Ho...

If you're looking for advice on how to know if someone is good marriage material, this episode of Matchmaker, Matchmaker is a must-listen. In it, the experts discuss the importance of taking the time to get to know someone before thinking of commitment. They also advise that it is important to be aware of your own values and personality traits to ensure that you are compatible with your partn...

On this week's episode, your expert dating coaches, Aleeza and Rabbi Yisroel discuss if physical appearance should really be the determining factor in your dating life. Stop basing your expectations on movies and understand what real-life dating is all about. To submit your question for a future episode, go to www. MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast Support the show Contact Aleeza Ben Shalom ht...

Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath give some advice on dating someone who may be less or more religious than you. Giving real-life examples of when it has and hasn't worked, what you should be mindful of and some questions you should ask yourself before moving forward.  Support the show Contact Aleeza Ben Shalom https://marriagemindedmentor.com/ Contact Rabbi Yisroel Bernath https://...

On this first episode of the Matchmakers Matchmakers podcast, your hostsAleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath share their thoughts on love at first sight. Is it true love or is it just desire? Should you know 'they're the one' from the first date? Join us on this episode to find out why we all should dig a little deeper.  Support the show Contact Aleeza Ben Shalom https://marr...