MANA Bombs Podcast

I asked Google: Why is dating important?  She says… Dating is an essential step toward finding your forever person .  Then I asked Google, whatʻs the main purpose of dating?  I was sent to wikipedia where it states: One of the main purposes of dating is for two or more people to evaluate one another's suitability as a long term companion or spouse .  Listen in to what else we d...

MANA BOMB: The problem with being chill is they donʻt hear you till you snap! FOCUS: the fine line between patience and boundaries ENGAGEMENT: what are some strategies to get through what could be “dangerous”? So many times we forget to breathe in order to allow ourselves to focus.  This single inhale, gives us just enough time to choose a little wiser than deciding to make a choice made with...

MANA BOMB: Don't take for granted those who bring the best out of you FOCUS: Appreciation vs expectations ENGAGEMENT: How often do we feel overlooked? How often do we overlook others? Any losses, gains, lessons, or regrets? - - People get used and walked on daily and in many cases don't share an equal value in currency (money, time, energy). It's tough. But we encourage you to continue be the good...

Dating with Mana Season 4 Episode 2:  What men NEED: Top 10 traits men want in a wife Focusing this season on learning about men in general and their outlooks on relationships.  Stay tuned in and learn alongside us!!!  This episode started with a google search on what men need.  The top result led me to a Forbes article for answers.  Check out the list and let us know if y...

MANA BOMB: Loyalty has an expiration date. FOCUS: Your loyalty shouldn’t outlast disrespect. Act Accordingly. ENGAGEMENT: Who’s at fault when you do a thing? The first, the second or do you call it even? Don't let anyone take your mana or guide your point of view when it comes to your thoughts and beliefs.  YOU deserve to grow, to be heard, adored and listened to.  Loyalty provides a spa...

MANA BOMB: How do you break a pattern? Respond Differently FOCUS: Letting Go ENGAGEMENT: What are some tips to letting go? - - Taking a pause can make all the difference and did you know we are accustomed and used to the hurt of patterns that letting go means detaching from the only thing we know? Taking that pause and trying something different will help you learn a little about yourself and thos...

Welcome to Season 4 of Dating with mana.  The laies are back and better than ever!  This season weʻll be looking in to learning about men.  Have a question? A query? DM us and weʻll see about discussing it in one of our podcast episodes!  Come and learn with us! Dating with Mana is a fresh look into dating scene successes and challenges, slightly personalized, through the exper...

MANA BOMB: Abundance is a child of greatness. Attachment is a child of poverty. FOCUS: Desperation, low standards, and puka filling. ENGAGEMENT: Why do we sometimes feel we are not hitting the mark, not good enough, and find ourselves drained? Are we living in abundance or attachment?  What does that mean? To be blessed abundantly is something that resonates world wide.  Listen in as we...

MANA BOMB: Hu$tle like you got no friends & Kick a$$ like nobody got your back! FOCUS: In it to win it! ENGAGEMENT: The haters will come by and block you from elevating or the universe likes to test your endurance. How do you get around it all? - - Having confidence and understanding entitlement by way of earning not by way of "being borned" into this world, makes a difference.  - - Don't forget t...

The firsts we should never forget...Milestones. Milestones are a part of each relationship we are fortunate enough to be a part of.  Letʻs think about milestones weʻve had up to this point of our lives.  Iʻm sure there are many fun and memorable experiences youʻve had as firsts on dates and in your relationships.  We know that dating is the beginning of a possible relationship…so le...

MANA BOMB: Darling, communication is key.  It may not provide the solution but will create clarity. FOCUS: Clearly the clarity is clearly enough ENGAGEMENT: What does clarity provide? How do we ask the right questions? Clear or effective?  Communication is key to any relatable experience.  If we aren't being effective how can we ensure a great experience?  Take time to be clear...

MANA BOMB: Nobody is worth losing yourself for FOCUS: When did it happen? ENGAGEMENT: When is enough, enough? What do you do about it when it’s “complicated”. (this is for the married, the sharing of children, the years of “investment”) - - Accept, grieve, and it's time to focus on your wellbeing. Accepting can be extremely complicated even if it doesn't make sense - - Don't forget to visit their...

Life changing questions to ask yourself today: Be honest with yourself about the directions you're taking in this world. How will your life be different in a year? ...it takes 28 days for a change to stick What are you grateful for? … acknowledging these things can help find other ways to be grateful too. What nice thing can you do for someone else today? ...aloha with aloha. How much do you worry...

MANA BOMB: Yo! Life is great when you stay away from negative, jealous, unhappy, low vibing people. FOCUS: Protect your mana ENGAGEMENT: Too many people feel powerful when they can deceive others or even know social knowledge. With that comes a lot of deficiencies. How can we protect our energy, integrity, and aloha? Reminding us to always think before we choose and protect self currency so that y...

MANA BOMB: You learn a lot about people when they donʻt get what they want from you.  Pay Attention.  Accept.  Move Accordingly. FOCUS: True Colors ENGAGEMENT: Control, hurt, and worth can be catalysts. Can we share any instances that we have been this person or have encountered this person? - - Moving out of your way takes a lot of strength. Don't block it, be it. True colors. Just...

Dating with Mana S3: 11: For a Season or a Lifetime? Relationship breakdown warning signs Some relationships are for a lifetime and some are just for a season. If you’re feeling unsure about the future of your romantic relationship and considering whether it’s time to move on here are some things you might want to think about 👆 Dating sometimes begins as one is exiting a relationship.  How c...

MANA BOMB: Fight bad moods like your life depends upon it.  It messes up your vibe to elevate.  Thatʻs how they get you! FOCUS: ENERGY ENGAGEMENT: How do you fight bad moods and what’s the effects of mana sharing? So many times we wonder how the mood can shift so quickly.  Let us not forget those who are aware of the intentional actions happening around them and trying to maintain t...

MANA BOMB: NEVER TOLERATE DISRESPECT.  Small sh*t leads to bigger sh*t.  Remember, tolerance is just showing people how to treat you. FOCUS: Boundaries ENGAGEMENT: What are weak boundaries and how can they keep us from not elevating? - - Ask yourself, are you disciplined with your boundaries, do you clearly know and honor them? When creating a boundary ask yourself if you're keeping your...

Many of us are still calming our nerves and waiting to be legit 100% ready to date but we have no ideas on where to begin!  Well, I jumped on the world wide web and searched for 2022ʻs dating online apps. On @businessinsider.com they list 7 best dating sites and apps you can use for free: 1. Facebook Dating.  2. Tinder.  3. OKCupid.  4. Bumble.  5. Hinge.  6. Plenty o...

MANA BOMB: Let your soul be a partner in your creation. Embrace your intuition against all odds. FOCUS: Surrender. ENGAGEMENT: What does embracing your intuition against all odds mean? How many times have you felt the need to stay put when faced with a choice and ended up saving your life because something tragic happened in the space you were headed to?  How did that make you feel that you e...

MANA BOMB: Lifeʻs too short to be faking a vibe with anybody, relationships, friends or family FOCUS: Being your most authentic self. ENGAGEMENT: What’s the cost for your freedom, your happiness and your joy? - - Rewording consequences and success to responsibility and accountability. There doesn't have to be negatives. How does fear play a huge role in not allowing us to be the person are meant t...

S3.9: 11 Good signs in early relationships: mahalo @centereselftherapy on IG The possibility of being ready to date and form new relationships is upon us.  Hereʻs a checklist for both yourself and the “other” you are learning about.  How can this list help us all?  Letʻs go through and ponder on a few… You each own your emotions You hold space for each other to share feelings You bo...

MANA BOMB: Darling, you never look good trying to make someone else look bad. FOCUS: Venting vs Vengeance ENGAGEMENT: How do we process in safe spaces, self or otherwise. How do we “hold space” for others while they are sharing? Let’s talk about the importance of being our true and authentic selves without compromising our aloha. Let's take you into a space where what you do and say really matters...

MANA BOMB:  The energy & vibe around you, that mana, affects your health too. FOCUS: My Environment - mentally, physically, and spiritually. ENGAGEMENT: How does it affect you and your health? Why is it important to understand? - - That mental environment is a hard one. We stick ourselves in it because it seems we are locked to it. It's time to shift that mentality. We spoke about the gob...

8 Things that are helpful to consider when dating that are often missed: Their relationship with money and how they manage it. their money management is going to affect you if you’re in a long term relationship. Relationship with their parents and siblings. Lifestyle preferences and habits, sleeping and activity level. Whether they apologize and are okay with being wrong. Whether they have ideas a...