Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One

#172 A recent cultural projection suggests that by 2030, nearly half of women, ages 25-44, in the U.S. could be single and without children. For women who hope to marry someday, that's discouraging news. But cultural projections don't determine your future--God does. In this final episode of Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One , Kim and her husband Sean discuss four practical step...

#171 In this powerful and honest conversation, Kim’s dear friend Niki shares the story behind those words. Raised in a culture that promised women they could “have it all,” Niki pursued success, independence, and a career-first life—believing everything else would fall into place later. But life didn’t unfold the way she expected. With vulnerability and wisdom, Niki reflects on what she wishes she...

#170 Singleness can feel steady one day… and completely unsteady the next. One minute you’re confident in God’s timing. The next, you’re wondering why your plans aren’t unfolding the way you hoped. You can do “everything right” and still find yourself waiting, grieving, questioning, or feeling behind. So what actually keeps you steady? As we begin wrapping up the Loving Your Husband Before You Eve...

#169 What do you do when God gives you a piece of your story that doesn’t make sense? Maybe it’s prolonged singleness. Maybe it’s a closed door, a disappointment, or a season you never would have chosen. In this meaningful sunset-season conversation, Kim sits down with co-hosts Jena and Char to talk about what Jena calls the “red puzzle pieces” of life—the unexpected, confusing, and often painful...

#168 It's easy to think your single years are just something to get through--but what if they're actually shaping your future marriage right now? In this episode, Kim is joined by Kinsey and Fisher for a candid conversation about the habits, boundaries, and spiritual decisions they made before marriage--and how those choices are paying off today. Together, they talk about discipleship, dat...

#167 This episode marks the beginning of our sunset season—and what better way to begin than with the voices who helped start it all. In this conversation, Kim is joined by the original co-hosts, Adrienne and Leah, and we reflect on what God has done through Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One over the past five years. Together, we look back with gratitude and talk honestly about what the...

#166 With Valentine's Day around the corner, this felt like the perfect time to bring back one of the most foundational episodes from the early days of the podcast. In this conversation, Kim and OG co-host Adrienne talk about the difference between love-if, love-because, and love-regardless--and why understanding true love can protect your heart from relationships built on feelings alone. This...

#165 As 2025 comes to a close, we thought we'd revisit our favorite episode from the year. You guys loved it when Danny was a guest this summer! In Episode #153, he sat down with us to talk about patience. What does it look like to wait well--not just in dating, but in every area of life? How do we trust God when His timing feels frustrating or unclear? You'll hear real-life encouragement,...

#164 What does reading the Bible have to do with singleness, relationships, and a future marriage? More than you might think. In this episode, Kim is joined by co-hosts Jena and Charlotte to talk about one of the most formative rhythms of the Christian life: reading God’s Word . Together, they share their personal experiences with reading through the Bible—what they loved, what felt hard, what kep...

#163 Are you tired of the Christian “try harder” cycle—be consistent, fall off, feel guilty, reset, repeat? You’re not alone. And Jesus never meant for your relationship with Him to feel like that. In this episode, Charlotte and Kim talk with Baylor StuMo staffer Kenzie, who shares why so many young women misunderstand the Christian life… and how Jesus offers something far better than spiritual pe...

#162 One of the most powerful choices you can make while you’re single is to invest in who you’re becoming. There are some things you can't change about yourself—but with God’s help, you can grow your character. And here’s the truth: you can fake character on a date, but you can’t fake it in marriage. With Thanksgiving just around the corner, we’re bringing back a favorite episode all about cu...

#161 Haley joins Kim and Jena for a powerful conversation about what it means to feel secure — not in your job, your health, your accomplishments, or your relationship status — but in Christ alone. With honesty and humor, Haley shares how God met her in the middle of achievement, illness, and change, proving that His presence is more satisfying than anything the world promises. Resources mentioned...

#160 Being single can come with real challenges — from loneliness to questions of self-worth to the tension of waiting on God’s timing. In this week’s episode, Kim and Charlotte sit down with Shivani , one of their seasoned single co-workers, to talk honestly about what makes singleness hard and how she’s learned to navigate through those things. Shiv opens up about: • Loneliness — and what it loo...

Repost of Episode #117: We all love a good wedding story--but what happens after the honeymoon? In this honest and hope-filled episode, Logan and his wife, Lindsey, open up about the highs, lows, and unexpected lessons from their first year of marriage. If you're single and dreaming of marriage, this is your chance to peek behind the curtain. You'll hear what surprised them most, what help...

#159 Should you pray for your future husband? In this episode, Charlotte and Kim delve into one of the most frequently asked questions by single women. Together, they explore what the Bible says about prayer, look at examples of people who prayed for deeply personal desires, and unpack how these principles apply to praying for marriage. You’ll hear: • Whether Scripture encourages us to pray for a...

#158 Waiting can feel exhausting—whether it’s waiting for a husband, an answered prayer, or simply life to move forward. In this episode, Kim sits down with Jena and Charlotte to unpack Isaiah 40:31 and discover what it really means to “wait on the Lord.” Together, they explore how biblical waiting isn’t passive, but an active choice to entwine your heart with God’s purposes—trusting Him to renew...

Repost of Episode #84: Ever feel like life isn’t quite what you pictured? Maybe you’re walking through a transition, waiting for things to get easier, or simply wanting to grow in contentment where you are right now. You’re not alone—we get it! That’s why we invited Megan Coye to join us and share her top 3 practical tips for learning how to love where you’re at —no matter your season.

#156 In this final episode of our Good Guys of Summer series, we’re sitting down with Corey—a dad of four daughters—who’s giving us a rare look into the heart of a “girl dad.” From sweet one-on-one daddy-daughter dates to how he prays specifically for each of his girls, Corey shares the kind of wisdom, encouragement, and truth every young woman needs to hear. Whether you grew up with a loving dad,...

#156 What does Proverbs have to say about relationships—and how can this ancient wisdom help you avoid modern-day relational messes? In this episode of Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One , Kim and returning co-host Leah sit down with pastor, author, and clean-comedy fan Jamie Trussell for a practical and hilarious conversation. Jamie shares four timeless (and surprisingly convicting) Pro...

#155 We're in our series "The Good Guys of Summer," introducing you to men who are pursuing God and giving us an inside look at what really matters to them. Ever wonder what really stands out to a godly man when he thinks about who he might marry someday? In this honest and eye‑opening conversation, Dave—who mentors college guys in their faith—shares four qualities he tells them to l...

#154 What if the kind of guy you hope to marry someday is already out there… quietly stacking chairs after a church meeting, helping a friend move, or giving someone a ride home? In today’s episode, we’re talking with a single guy who’s learning to live a life of service—and why that matters more than you might think. Whether you’re hoping to spot character in someone else or grow it in yourself,...

#153 We're in our "Good Guys of Summer" series, and in this episode , we sit down with Danny to talk about something all of us wrestle with: patience. What does it look like to wait well—not just in dating, but in every area of life? How do we trust God when His timing feels frustrating or unclear? You’ll hear real-life encouragement, a few honest struggles, and some biblical wisdom that will help...

#152: In this episode of Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One, we’re sitting down with Matt, one of our “Good Guys of Summer,” to talk honestly about singleness—from a guy’s perspective. If you’re single, love Jesus, and hope to be married someday, this conversation will encourage you to see your single years not as a waiting room but as a time of purpose. Matt shares why singleness isn’t...

#151: Feel like the kitchen is intimidating? You're not alone--but it doesn't have to stay that way! In this episode, Hailey (star of "Cooking at Kaleo") joins us to share simple, motivating tips to help you grow more confident cooking at home. Whether you want to eat healthier, save money, or just feel more capable, this conversation will give you a great place to start. Resources mentioned in th...

#150 Graduating from college is exciting… and overwhelming. You’re stepping into a whole new world—maybe a new job, new city, or new stage of life. In this episode, Kim and Char welcome Madison to help you launch strong. From building spiritual habits in a busy schedule to finding real community (even if it means sitting by strangers at church), this conversation is packed with practical wisdom fo...