Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One

#149 You’re single, you don’t have kids yet… so why should you care about parenting? In this episode, Kim and Leah sit down with Rose—a mom of four—to talk about what single women can do now to prepare for motherhood in the future. From learning the character of God to spending time with families you admire, this conversation is full of practical wisdom and real-life insights. Plus, Leah (who is a...

#148 What if you could love your future husband before you even meet him? In this special episode, Kim and OG co-host Adrienne sit down with Kim’s soon-to-be daughter-in-law, Kinsey, to talk about how she lived out the principles of Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One —long before she knew she’d one day marry Kim’s son! Kinsey shares her journey from chasing identity in sports to finding...

#147 Emotions—do you ignore them or let them run the show? In this episode, we dive into why learning to process emotions with God is one of the most important areas to grow in as a single woman. Whether you tend to bottle up your feelings or let them dictate your decisions, understanding how to handle them biblically can transform not only your relationship with God but also your future marriage....

#146 What does it mean to have faith in Christ? How does it relate to relationships and marriage? What will help your faith thrive in the seasons ahead of you? Listen in as co-hosts Charlotte and Jena sit down with Kim as she reflects on her 40-year spiritual journey and shares candid insights on maintaining a strong faith in all of life's challenges. Whether you're navigating the complexi...

#145 A lasting, enjoyable marriage doesn't just happen--it starts with how you date. If you follow the same dating patterns as the culture, you'll likely end up in the same place: frustration, heartbreak, and disappointment. But what if there's a better way? In this episode, Kim and Jena sit down with Colin and Karisa to uncover three common dating pitfalls that can derail your path to...

#144: For years, Anna convinced herself that love wasn't something she needed--playing it cool, staying unattached, and pretending she didn't care. But deep down, she longed for a real, God-honoring relationship. As friends around her found love, got engaged, and started families, she found herself battling jealousy instead of joy...until one day she made a decision to love love even when...

In this bonus episode, Kim sits down with her friend Tracy Baack, who has gone from reader to romance writer! They discuss how Tracy found her way into writing, the role of her faith in her storytelling, and why she chooses to write closed-door romances. Tracy shares what makes this genre unique, the misconceptions people might have, and why it resonates with so many readers. We also talk about fa...

#143: In this conversation, Kim, Jena, and Charlotte discuss music. Jena shares some compelling insights about how influential music can be. Because of music's powerful influence, she passes along some helpful truths and principles to guide us to detox our playlist.  "If music is influential, then when I’m listening to music, it is influencing and affecting my life- for better or for wors...

#142: Our guests today are Cat and Jeremy Leach. If you've listened to the podcast for a while, you'll probably remember them. Cat has been on numerous times. The episode they did while engaged, "Why Waiting Was Worth It," is in the TOP TEN of ALL of our episodes. Cat and Jeremy boast a hefty single girl and single guy resume,' so they understand singleness well. Now that they are married and have...

Repost #111: Have you made some goals for 2025? Is one of them to get married? If so, you need to listen to this episode! Kim has a goal-setting gene in her DNA, but Adrienne and Leah don’t. Join in on their discussion, where Kim shares her best insights about successful goal-setting to help you move toward becoming who you want to be in 2025.  Why you shouldn’t have a goal to get married this yea...

Repost #40: The Christmas countdown is on, and our guest this week LOVES Christmas! She knows how to make it special whether she has a man or not. Cat joins us on this episode to share her insights and best tips for making this your best Christmas yet! Resources mentioned: Cat's Instagram: @catleach13 She Reads Truth advent study BethlehemStar.com The Nativity Story movie Adrienne's Instagram Kim/...

Repost #74: The holidays can be a complicated season to navigate, especially as a single woman.  Whether it’s a conversation topic we want to bring up ... or a conversation we’d rather avoid at all costs ... we all need help getting prepped to go home for the holidays! Today our guest is Ryan O’Sullivan, and she’s going to be giving us 3 seasoned tips on how to prepare to spend time at home this h...

Today, Kim is in the studio to give you a quick update. We know consistency is key in podcasting, so she's sharing a few upcoming changes. Change #1: Due to an unexpected health issue Kim had this past week, we are starting our holiday break a little earlier than planned. Like we did during our summer break, we’ll repost some past episodes that we don’t want you to miss. Change #2: Kim is fine hea...

#141:  This week is Thanksgiving, so it’s the perfect backdrop to discuss becoming a more thankful person. We have the whole podcast crew on this episode, and we are sharing our best tips and truths for growing in thankfulness and gratitude . One of the choices you can make as a single woman to invest in yourself and a future marriage is to develop your character. There are many things you can’t c...

#140:  Kennon Vaughan joins us again on this episode, but this time, he brings his wife, Kathryn. Together, they help us wrestle with those situations when we don't understand what God is doing. If you wonder why God hasn't brought your husband yet, this episode is for you! Resources mentioned in this episode: #118: Discipleship and the Single Girl with Kennon Vaughan To learn more about Downline,...

#139: Group hangouts can play an important role in a single woman's social life. Sometimes, they can be life-giving, but sometimes, they can leave us feeling insecure and empty, especially when we're competing for a guy's attention. If this has ever been a struggle, this is your episode! Dianna works with college students at the University of Texas in Austin, and she is the perfect guest for this...

#138: Our friend Austin takes the hot seat in this episode and gives a Christian guy's take on the four most unattractive qualities in single women. Austin shares his perspective on how these qualities affect men's attraction and relationship dynamics. You'll be challenged and encouraged to pursue your relationship with God and personal growth. For more information about the podcast and the Loving...

#137:  In this episode, you'll have an opportunity to meet Greer. She wrestled with the Lord in college and decided to go her own way...until she got pregnant. We hope this episode provides encouragement, hope, resources, and practical help for those facing an unplanned pregnancy...and help and encouragement for the friends who are walking alongside them. To connect with Greer or Kim, please email...

#136: In this episode, Kim and Leah welcome Dr. Joy Skarka, author of Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy . They discuss the journey of freedom for those struggling with unwanted sexual behaviors. They explore Dr. Joy's personal freedom journey, her new book, and the growing issue of pornography among women. The conversation emphasizes the damaging effects of p...

#135: Drew and Heather enjoy a marriage characterized by communication, unity, and teamwork. Are those qualities you'd like to have in a marriage someday? If so, you'll want to hear how vision and calling have helped them. In this episode, Leah and Kim delve into their story. You'll hear insights on how calling and vision: formed during their single years guided them in dating gave them clarity wh...

#134: Finding your identity in Christ is one of the critical choices a young woman can make while she's single, and it will have a big impact now and in a future marriage. Michelle Fries joins Kim and Jena on this episode to discuss her journey in finding identity--her true self. Michelle is the author of You Are Not a Mistake: The Gift of Sacred Identity from the God Who Says You Belong .  Michel...

#133: Opportunities to attend conferences usually pop up this time of year. Are you thinking about going to one? If you are a single girl, we think you should go! In this episode, Kim, Jena, and Char discuss three main benefits single girls can experience at a conference. Resources mentioned in this episode: Episode #131: Navigating Loneliness For more info about attending or volunteering at SMC,...

#132: Among Gen Z'ers, 42% have been diagnosed with a mental health disorder, and the number one contributing factor to this mental health epidemic is the influence of digital technology and social media. In this episode, Leah, Char, and Kim get real about our relationship with our phones. Leah, who is pursuing a master's degree in clinical mental health, leads our discussion with some ala...

#131: Ever felt lonely? Yeah, we have too. In this episode, Kim, Leah, and Jena explore the topic of loneliness. We each share our personal experiences with loneliness, and Jena shares three essential insights about loneliness and some practical tips for navigating it well. We emphasize the importance of turning to God and building a solid relationship with Him to navigate loneliness. Our discussi...

#130: Being around good, godly men can change how you view guys and relationships. Knowing that good guys still exist can influence the type of guy you're interested in and help you WAIT for that type of guy! In this episode, you'll meet Simeon, Kim's middle son. He's a single guy working in Phoenix, and he's sharing his best insights on growing in generosity. It was a fun epis...