Love, Life, Legacy: A Show About Sex

Accountability. Big word. It's that word that makes you want to run away once you hear it. It's daunting to realize you're accountable for something. It's uncomfortable. But why does accountability have such a bad reputation when it should be attractive, sexy even, especially when it's defined around the area of relationships and sexual integrity? Accountability doesn't just mean taking responsibi...

How do we feel more fulfilled in life? Most people struggle with unwanted behavior, which often takes us away from being happy. People escape from life problems through the actions that they think can help them be free from those problems. They do not notice it, but it actually causes us more struggles in life. Fears that surround people who are stuck with unwanted behavior prevent them from accep...

In this age of technology, where social media has become the open gate for people sharing or exchanging opinions on matters that may revolve around personal, social, or political ideas, one must practice how honesty is used in these situations. Whenever an issue pops up, people start to react, and that is the first thing most people share in their comments. Either positively or negatively, we reac...

It takes a huge step for all of us to be 100% honest with ourselves and with other people. The courage to believe in who we are bets on what the world considers acceptable and unacceptable. We tend to cover ourselves with blankets in order to avoid the judgments that other people might give us. But in reality, we are risking our relationships with other people. It is not just with our partners, bu...

There is a deep sense of longing for most people, and it sometimes leads some to devour negative things or actions. The North Star Goal emphasizes its aim to help people build and understand their sense of identity. In these modern times, people struggle to understand that deep sense of meaning that defines who we are. Most of us wanted to instantly have the answers to our problems; some even soug...

There is a saying that the only constant in this world is change. But some people think that change is a big risk to take. There are five stages of change that can help people become more fulfilled in life. The first stage is being trapped and unaware that people need change. Some people are predisposed to recognize the need for change in their lives. Their mindset is based on the idea that they d...

There are so many hifalutin words we can use describe life , but if we do away with being metaphorical, we'd all agree with this direct description: life is stressful. Anywhere you go, no matter what you do, whether you're rich or poor, no matter who you are, there is no getting away with stress. You're bound to feel stressed in one way or another. In fact, it is a major contributor to many of the...

We have to admit it—the world we live in is fully subscribed to the idea of worldliness. We are now in a time where earthly desires are welcomed, masked and embraced with the idea of normalcy. And so oftentimes, we find ourselves rationalizing and saying: It's normal. It's what everybody does. It's all around us. But normalcy isn't synonymous with righteousness. No. The earthly things that we reso...

No matter how old we are, we still learn something new. That's the beauty of life.  Jim Stinard joins us on this episode to talk about his journey with the Spartan program , a six-week program for sexual integrity. Jim has struggled with porn addiction all his life, and after fifty years he boldly faced his issues and opened himself up to learning new things, taking on new experiences, and making...

If you've been listening to this show for quite some time now, then you know how we often talk about our North star goals and why this is important. Each one of us has dreams and goals in life. And they may start out to be pure, innocent, bold, and audacious. But as we grow older, we tend to be disconnected from our goals because of the changes we encounter throughout the different phases of our l...

Too much of something is never a good thing. Whether it's simple things like eating sweets or something more serious like being on social media excessively, there's a huge chance that it will become an addictive habit or mindset. But why do we get addicted in the first place? Addiction to something is usually a result of the dependency on that rush or high that we get from doing that act or habit...

Gretchen Rubin's #1 New York Times Bestselling book, The Happiness Project , started with a question that she asked herself:  "What do I want from life, anyway? I want to be happy." We may have asked ourselves the same question at least a dozen times in our lives, often with different answers. But one factor that we can attribute to the absence of happiness is when our standards are disconnected o...

Suffering makes us human. We grow and learn through the pain and suffering life gives us. We cannot progress if we choose to stay in our comfort zone. Short-term suffering leads to great victories. When we allow short-term suffering into our lives, we are creating the space to flourish our minds and spirits and become the better version of ourselves. The more we try to avoid suffering in the short...

Curiosity is a strong desire to learn more about something. It is usually seen as a virtue as it helps us learn new things and grow as people. It's important for us to stay curious and learn how to be curious because if we never cease having the enthusiasm to truly know about something or someone, we'll continue to learn and connect with the world in a healthy way. In this episode, Andrew and Benj...

The expression of sexuality is a part of the perfect plan that God has for the world. When we look at sexuality in the realm of our hearts and mind, we will be able to become people who are genuinely sexual wherein our sexuality ultimately becomes an integral part of our mental processes, our emotional states, our life experiences, and most importantly, our spiritual beliefs. In this episode, we a...

Each of us is on a unique path toward becoming the kind of happy and fulfilled person we see for ourselves in the future. But, the question is whether or not our habits align with the person we desire to become. Many people develop a habit that they have been led to believe is appropriate and acceptable. However, the reality is that their unhealthy habits, such as masturbation and watching porn, a...

Pornhub is destroying humanity, the largest porn website in the world accountable for enabling and profiting off of the mass sex trafficking, rape, and exploitation of women and minors is destructive to humanity. Many groups are working together to shut down the website and hold it accountable for damaging the lives of countless individuals, particularly women and minors. We could ponder how a sin...

Whatever we expose ourselves to has the potential to either be beneficial or destructive for us. The beast inside of us can be cultivated by our habits and the information we feed it. The beast that, if handled improperly and not effectively fought, will tear us apart and eat us alive.  Relapse is the most difficult stage of the healing process, and although our own paths to recovery may differ, w...

Urges, whether they are healthy or unhealthy, are essentially a gift from God as they are the gateway back to realizing some areas of brokenness that exist inside us. It is not a bad thing to experience negative emotions such as stress, anger, or anxiety. In fact, having these emotions can be helpful in fully understanding what it is about ourselves that needs to be healed or fixed. If we take a m...

Each of us possesses the neurological pathways that link our mind to the outside world. It is meant to connect with and serve others. Some people take advantage of it for their own gain, where they isolate themselves, which leads to porn addiction and masturbation, causing them to become disconnected from the world. It is necessary to develop principles that will guide our actions and beliefs towa...

Being a parent is the most difficult job in the world as our children are completely dependent on us, and the way we bring them up has a significant impact on how they develop. It is a lifetime commitment that requires us to provide them with support, direction, and most importantly, love; yet, we cannot provide any of those things to them if we are self-centered, and we cannot even provide that t...

High Noon got its beginnings when there were just a select few people working for the organization who all had the same great desire to further its mission.  The world is in need of restoration and healing, which is why High Noon is working toward the goal of reaching every area of the world. They do this in the hope that they will be able to help more people in the process of healing, guide them...

We often spend our lives avoiding things that make us feel uncomfortable, but we should feel and experience those things instead because they will give us the opportunity to fully appreciate what life has to offer. Even if we long to experience sensuality in our lives, some of us don't seem to be able to because they only stay for the good things in life and leave the bad ones behind.  We should a...

A lot of people are going through a phase in which they believe that their unhealthy habits are valuable and that they benefit from them when, in reality, it is only causing destruction in their lives and preventing them from becoming the person they want to be. When we are aware that porn can have a bad impact on our lives and on our path to sexual integrity, we will not turn to it whenever we ar...

Many people are going through personal struggles and are ashamed to open up because their struggles make them feel like they don't belong. High Noon has been helping a lot of people in restoring their relationships with themselves, their partners or marriages, and their families in order to build a fulfilled life with God as the center of it and with sexual integrity by providing programs that aim...