Love & Lattes

Today’s conversation is a powerful one. We’re talking about the hidden patterns that shape our emotions, behaviors, and relationships. Victoria is joined by Karen Seltz , a transformational guide who helps people clear the deepest pain from their past quickly and gently by working with the subconscious mind. Karen shares her own journey of overcoming addiction, anxiety, depression, perfectionism,...

In this solo episode of Love & Lattes, Victoria shares the sensual connection between solo travel and self-discovery, plus the wisdom nature offers when we're willing to take a closer look.. Inspired by her experiences in Costa Rica, Victoria shares how navigating unfamiliar places mirrors the process of exploring ourselves.  From learning discernment to moving through scarcity mindsets a...

What happens when high-value women who have built beautiful, successful lives still feel stuck in love? In this episode, Victoria sits down with Janaya Ward (Love Alchemist and Transformation Coach) for a powerful conversation about the wounds that can repel the very love we desire.  Together, they explore the shift from wanting to be chosen to choosing yourself, how disconnection from personal po...

What does it really take to rebuild your life after narcissistic abuse? In this episode of Love & Lattes , Victoria sits down with Jordan Murphy, host of the 5-star podcast Her Voice Matters and founder of Her Voice Matters Academy , to explore the powerful journey of healing after toxic and manipulative relationships. Jordan shares insights on the subtle signs of narcissistic abuse many women...

In this episode of Love & Lattes, Victoria reflects on what getting lost in Costa Rica taught her about self-love, growth, trust, and becoming. She shares the truth behind pushing yourself (with love) in what we percieve as "different, scary" situations that are actually apart of your character development..  sometimes the detours we resist are the very things that redirect us toward...

In this episode, Victoria welcomes Gareth Pickering, a men’s relationship and sex coach, to explore how relationships and sexuality can become tools for personal growth and awakening.  They discuss practical strategies for men to embrace their desires, communicate openly, and become better lovers, while also exploring how partners can support them on this journey. Connect with Gareth: https://gare...

In this episode of Love & Lattes , Victoria chats with Lisa Beck —author, TEDx speaker, and founder of I AM Lisa Beck —for a deeply nourishing conversation about desire, and the power of self-mastery. Lisa shares the neuroscience, sexual energetics, and ancient wisdom to help men and women reconnect with their bodies, awaken desire, and live from a place of truth and devotion.  Together, they...

What happens when the fairytale ends—or never truly begins? Victoria sits down with life coach and hypnotherapist Mandy to unpack the myths women are sold about love, success, and happiness.  From untangling “shoulds” and societal expectations to designing a life that actually feels aligned at any age, this episode is a permission slip to stop chasing the fantasy and start choosing yourself.  Supp...

Money is one of the most common reasons couples fight—and one of the biggest reasons relationships break down. But is it really about the money… or what money represents? In this episode of Love & Lattes , Victoria sits down with financial coach, author, and founder of Hand In Hand Consulting, Foluke Olayele , for an honest conversation about the real reasons money creates so much tension in r...

Victoria chats with Yoni Queen Rosie Rees, founder of Yoni Pleasure Palace, as they dive into the transformative power of pleasure, intimacy, and self-awareness in relationships. Rosie shares insights on how cultivating self-pleasure and sexual confidence can deepen connections, enhance intimacy, and empower both individuals and couples. Discover practical tips for exploring desire without shame,...

In this soulful episode of Love & Lattes , Victoria sits down with Navi Bliss for a heart-opening conversation about self-love, presence, and coming home to yourself. Together, they explore what it truly means to live from alignment rather than expectation, how to soften the inner noise that keeps us disconnected, and why self-love isn’t something we earn—but something we remember.  This episo...

In this solo episode of Love & Lattes , Victoria shares what her time in the Caribbean revealed about self-love, femininity, softness, and slowing down . What looked like a beautiful beach trip on the outside became something much deeper. Victoria shares  how the Caribbean reflected back the woman she’s becoming — one who no longer rushes through beautiful moments, over-functions to feel worth...

Victoria is joined by Jacquie , a counselor with experience helping people heal from emotional trauma and abuse.  Jacquie shares her powerful journey from pain to peace and opens up about the inner shift from self-loathing to self-love.  Together, they explore how unresolved trauma shapes our relationships, self-worth, and inner dialogue. They discuss what it truly takes to reclaim your voice, rew...

Hormone health is often misunderstood — and for many women, that confusion can feel frustrating, isolating, or even disempowering. In this episode, we’re unpacking the truth about women’s hormones, PCOS, and why understanding your body is the foundation for living a more confident, energized, and limitless life. Victoria is joined by Dr. Ami, a board-certified pharmacotherapy specialist and holist...

We are taught how to perform but not how to feel safe, present, or connected in sex. In this solo episode of Love & Lattes , Victoria explores what most of us were never taught about sex and how these missing conversations impact intimacy, desire, and emotional connection in our relationships. If you’ve ever felt disconnected, self-conscious, or unsure why sex that “looks good” doesn’t always...

Healing isn’t always soft lighting and journal prompts. Sometimes it’s burnout, boundaries, rebuilding after heartbreak, and learning how to trust yourself again. In this raw and honest conversation, Victoria is joined by Laura Ferri — author, coach, and founder of My Inner Struggle — to talk about what healing really looks like when life cracks you open.  They dive into motherhood, dating after c...

In this empowering episode, Victoria is joined by speaker and podcast host Maggie Boillot about breaking free from toxic relationships and reclaiming your sense of self.  Together, they explore the power of self-compassion, awareness, and the courage it takes to admit, “I don’t like this anymore.”   Maggie shares why the hardest decisions are often the most life-changing—and how choosing yourself...

In this re-shared conversation, Victoria Icenhower sits down with dating expert James Preece to unpack what modern dating really requires—and why so many people feel disconnected despite having endless options. Together, they explore the importance of kindness, consistency, and intentional action in dating, while breaking down what women truly seek in healthy, fulfilling relationships.  James shar...

Why are women so obsessed with Heated Rivalry —and what does it reveal about desire, intimacy, and modern romance? In this solo episode of Love & Lattes , Victoria breaks down why Heated Rivalry has captured the attention of women everywhere—and why it goes far beyond hockey, rivals, or spice. This isn’t a book review. It’s a psychological and emotional deep dive into female desire ,  gaze , a...

What if PMS, mood swings, and hormonal imbalance weren’t something women just had to “live with”? In this episode of Love & Lattes , I’m joined by the founders of Two Moons —a doctor and a lawyer turned best friends—who are changing the conversation around women’s hormonal health through the power of seed cycling and cyclical living. We dive into why so many women are told their symptoms are “...

In this empowering episode, Victoria chats with Larisa Makuch , transformational coach, speaker, CEO of Abundance Academy , and author of Stop Procrastinating Your Life Away , to unpack why so many high-achieving women and entrepreneurs still feel stuck despite their ambition. Larisa shares her science-meets-soul approach to breaking through mental blocks, overcoming procrastination, and stepping...

If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the “right” things in relationships — healing, setting boundaries, communicating — yet love still feels just out of reach, this episode is for you. In today’s episode of Love & Lattes , Victoria breaks down three often overlooked ways we accidentally push love away without realizing it . These patterns don’t come from being “too much” or not enough — t...

In this radiant episode, Victoria sits with Amanda Reece , founder of Amandafesting — a wellness movement designed to help women manifest joy, confidence, and connection.  After overcoming cervical cancer, stage 4 endometriosis, and years of pain, Amanda shares how her healing became a mission: to make wellness accessible and empowering for all women.  Together, they explore how to turn pain into...

The holidays are supposed to be joyful… so why do they feel so heavy? In this solo episode, Victoria gets honest about the emotional weight of the holidays, the grief of unmet fantasies, and the quiet loneliness that can show up even in the most festive moments. She breaks down the “holiday illusion,” explores why this season amplifies relationship pressure, and shares practical, grounding ways to...

In this powerful and deeply healing episode of Love & Lattes , Victoria uncovers the one F-word that has the ability to transform every relationship in your life — From family wounds to romantic heartbreak, and personal betrayals , this episode explores how this one WORD becomes a form of energetic cord-cutting that frees you to love and live differently. If you’ve been holding onto something...