Love & Cherish Podcast with Laura How

When your wife says she “doesn’t feel safe,” it might sound like an accusation. What does that even mean, and how is it your fault when you’ve worked hard to provide? In this team episode, Marijke, Zac and I unpack what safety actually means for women and for men, why it affects desire, and how two people who love each other end up feeling unsafe with the one person who’s meant to be home. 👉 Book...

Leigh Fitzpatrick Snead spent years navigating unexplained infertility before becoming a mother of four sons through adoption. Her debut book, Infertile But Fruitful: Finding Fulfillment When You Can't Conceive (Sophia Institute Press, 2026), is the book she wishes had existed when she was a young woman carrying that cross alone — a memoir, a resource, and a quiet argument that a marriage can be f...

If you've noticed your sex life decline after having children, you're not alone. In this team episode we talk honestly about why intimacy after baby is one of the biggest threats to a marriage, what drives resentment between partners in the newborn phase, and what couples can actually do to reconnect sexually before distance becomes the default.👉 Book online sessions with Zac or Marijke: https://...

“Feminism has always been a force for good and equality.” Is that really the full story? In this conversation with philosopher and author Carrie Gress, we explore how feminist ideas have shaped modern relationships, and why many men and women are now questioning the narrative they were raised to believe. 👉 Book an online session: https://laurahow.com/online-therapists/ Carrie Gress, Catholic phil...

"The Future is Female." But where does that leave our sons? In this conversation with George from The Tin Men, we examine the silent crisis facing men and boys, the institutional bias in our schools and courts, and why society seems to have lost its compassion for male suffering.👉 Book an online session: https://laurahow.com/online-therapists/ George, the creator behind The Tin Men, joins me for...

I'm joined by two therapists from my practice, Zac Fine and Marijke Roberts, for the second episode of our monthly series exploring how to restore sacred connection in long-term relationships.👉 Book online sessions with Zac or Marijke: https://laurahow.com/online-therapists/ When intimacy becomes mechanical or disappears entirely, couples lose more than just sex, they lose sacred space together....

"Feminism has always been a force for good and equality." Is that really true? In this conversation with retired Professor Janice Fiamengo, we examine feminism's actual origins, its pervasive influence on modern relationships, and why so many men and women are waking up to a very different reality than what we've been told. 👉 Book an online session: https://laurahow.com/online-therapists/ Profess...

Michele Weiner-Davis joins me for a conversation about sexless marriages, desire differences, resentment, and how couples can rebuild intimacy after betrayal. 👉 Book an online session: https://laurahow.com/online-therapists/ Michele is a therapist and bestselling author known for her work with sexless marriages, infidelity recovery, and long-term relationship repair. We talk about why sex is neve...

I’m joined by two therapists from my practice, Zac Fine and Marijke Roberts. This informal conversation marks the start of a new monthly series where we speak openly about marriage, intimacy, sexlessness, consent, and the growing tension many couples feel between men and women. 👉 Book online sessions with Zac or Marijke: https://laurahow.com/online-therapists/ We talk honestly about what happens...

Why do so many men struggle to engage with therapy, and why do so many who try it drop out feeling misunderstood or dismissed? In this podcast episode, I’m joined by Chris Hemmings, a therapist who works exclusively with men and the founder of Men’s Therapy Hub, a growing UK directory connecting men with male therapists. Together, we explore why men are a minority on both sides of the therapy room...

Join me live on Friday, December 5th at 11am EST (4pm GMT) for a candid Q&A with @drpsychmom (Dr Samantha Rodman Whiten). We’ll be answering your live questions about: Love, sex, marriage, mental health, intimacy, and anything else you want to ask us. ABOUT DR PSYCH MOM Dr Samantha Whiten is a clinical psychologist in private practice, author, podcaster, wife, and mother. Visit her group pract...

Relationship communication expert Dr Warren Farrell joins me, Laura How to discuss defensiveness, conflict, and how couples can rebuild intimacy through intentional practices. 👉 Book your session: https://laurahow.com/online-coaching-sessions/ In this episode, I talk with renowned author and relationship expert Dr. Warren Farrell for an honest, heartfelt conversation about strengthening marriages...

Sexless Relationship Therapy Guide: How to Help Couples Restore Intimacy and Sexual Bond Sexless marriages are far more common than most couples realise, and the impact is deeper than many therapists are trained to address. In this episode, I break down why sex matters in long-term relationships, what’s driving the sharp rise in sexlessness, and how both therapists and couples can tackle it head-o...

**Sexless Relationship Therapy Guide:** How to Help Couples Restore Intimacy and Sexual Bond 👉 Book a 1-on-1 session: https://laurahow.com/online-coaching-sessions/ Sexless marriages are far more common than most couples realise, and the impact is deeper than many therapists are trained to address. In this video, I break down why sex matters in long-term relationships, what’s driving the sharp ri...

In this candid episode, I talk with Ralph Brewer—author, YouTuber, and founder of @DadStartingOver and @RealHelpForMen—for an eye-opening and deeply personal conversation about marriage, attachment styles and the realities of sexless marriages. BOOK A SESSION ▶▶▶ https://laurahow.com/online-coaching-sessions/ 🔥 TOPICS WE COVER: • Ralph’s personal story of betrayal, divorce, and rebuilding • Why s...

We discuss emotional needs vs. sexual needs, why couples who have regular sex raise happy children, the lack of education about physical intimacy in marriage and why relationship counsellors aren’t addressing marital sex as a priority in therapy. BOOK A SESSION ▶▶▶ https://laurahow.com/online-coaching-sessions/ Dr Samantha Whiten is a clinical psychologist in private practice, author, podcaster, w...

How has culture & marriage changed? What does a moral marriage look like? When should you leave a sexless or otherwise immoral marriage? How can men and women live in harmony? BOOK A SESSION ▶▶▶ https://laurahow.com/online-coaching-sessions/ Renowned Marriage Therapist, Rick McCarthy, shares his wisdom from almost 5 decades of experience as a marriage therapist and 28 years as a psychology pro...

Dr Robert Glover discusses the root cause of ‘Nice Guy Syndrome’, co-dependency, fear of confrontation with women, self-growth in relationships, self-soothing, sexless marriages & advice for wives of ‘Nice Guys’. CHANNEL MEMBER PERKS ▶▶▶ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCE_Fs1wPifrghIGdSzsbrKg/join Dr. Robert Glover has over 40 years of professional experience as a relationship therapist and m...

Bettina Arndt promotes gender equity through advocacy for men and challenging anti-male feminist propaganda. She tours university campuses challenging illegal kangaroo courts adjudicating abuse. Here, we discuss sex starved marriages and misandry in society. BECOME A CHANNEL MEMBER ▶▶▶ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCE_Fs1wPifrghIGdSzsbrKg/join On today’s podcast, Bettina & I discuss: • Sexl...

My first podcast guess is George 'TheTinmen' who advocates for the less than popular side of gender equality; boy's and men's issues. He has a remarkable ability to present uncomfortable facts and ugly truths about the challenges' our boy's and men are facing in society. BECOME A CHANNEL MEMBER ▶▶▶ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCE_Fs1wPifrghIGdSzsbrKg/join Our recording platform decided to fail...

If you want your husband to function well, then sex needs to be regular and enjoyable feature of your marriage. If you have committed to loving your spouse, then do it well!

Why do so many women stop wanting sex with their husbands after marriage or children? And what can you do, as a couple to rescue your sex life? This in-depth guide is for men & women. If you want your marriage to thrive and to be filled with pleasure, contentment and satisfaction, then you simply cannot give up on sex. Choosing to have no or little to no sex in marriage is like taking a wrecki...

In a sex positive marriage, both partners experience greater feelings of intimacy and aliveness. These marriages are filled with more joy, connection, excitement and laughter than their sexually dull counter parts. Developing and maintaining a sex positive attitude is important for the quality of not only our marriages, but also every other aspect of our health as human beings. To develop this sex...

If your husband tells you that sex is important to him, then in my view sex simply isn’t optional in your marriage if you want him to feel loved. We expect our husbands to meet our emotional needs, so we need to meet theirs. Surely real love means caring about the general well-being of our partners and giving them what they actually need, rather than what we feel like giving? If our husbands say t...

If your marriage is unfulfilling and your husband or wife is refusing to engage in a healthy way, then you need to take responsibility for its recovery and lead by example. If our marriages have been unhappy for some time, it’s likely that many of the things we already tried did not work, and it’s probably time that we try something new. As the old saying goes, the definition of insanity is doing...