Love Beyond Limits

So, Purity hit up Amsterdam's Red Light District, and let me tell you, it was a trip. Ever wonder if a solo gal can actually hire a prostitute there? Purity's got the scoop, plus some wild stories about giving unsolicited business tips to pimps and getting mistaken for one of the local working girls. It's all in a day's (or night's) adventure when you're exploring solo in Amsterdam's most buzzing...

Is it time to open up about being poly or exploring kink? Let's dive into Desire's story. After spending six years in a monogamous relationship, she decided it was time to embrace and open up about being poly. If you're sitting on a similar fence, this episode's for you. We're unpacking those moments that whisper, "Hey, it's time," and how to lean into those conversations with your nearest and dea...

Diving into the kinky scene? It's a whole world of excitement and exploration, but it comes with a price tag. What does it really cost to get your kink on? We're going beyond the entry fees of those high-end, glitzy events to uncover the real deal about splurging versus saving in this lifestyle. Ever wonder if those luxe kinky parties are worth it, or what sneaky expenses might catch you off guard...

Are you getting mixed results on the Feeld app and wondering if you should give their socials a go? In this episode, Desire and Purity delve into the intriguing world of Feeld, exploring the difference between its in-person events and the online dating app. Is the crowd the same? From discussing the allure of the venue to detailing the nuances of bar service, they leave no stone unturned. Wonderin...

Desire had high hopes for her date with the man she met online. Their virtual connection sizzled with anticipation, promising an evening filled with excitement and potential fireworks. But as the night unfolded, what started as a promising encounter quickly took a turn for the uncomfortable. In this episode, we're diving deep into Desire's date disaster. We'll chat about how men and women see onli...

So, picture this: Purity's on cloud nine, vibing with a new submissive who ticks all her boxes. The chemistry? Off the charts. But then, out of the blue, bam! Ghosting or a major boundary breach? Purity's left scratching her head, wondering what went wrong and why her play partner disappeared into thin air. Now, let's get real about ghosting. It stings, right? Especially in the BDSM scene where tr...

Picture this: you're engrossed in a conversation with someone you're considering as a potential polyamorous partner. The chemistry is palpable, and everything seems to be falling into place until you realize you're not looking for the same things in a relationship. It's a frustrating scenario, but fear not – in this episode, we're tackling this common dating dilemma head-on. We'll delve into the i...

Ever wondered what it truly means to be a sadist? Curious about the world of sadism and its often-misunderstood nature? Well, you're in for a treat! In this episode, we'll take you on a fascinating journey through the experiences of Purity as she navigates the discovery of her own sadistic tendencies. From childhood influences to the liberating effects of acceptance, we'll uncover the nuances of s...

Wondering where to meet polyamorous people? Now you've had the conversation, opened your relationship, or simply decided solo poly is your ideal relationship style, how do you go about finding potential partners? Since coming out as poly, our host Desire has tried all the dating apps from the kinky ones like Feeld to the more vanilla ones like Hinge. She's even hit up social meets for poly people....

How would you like to attend a kinky event where you can shop for new BDSM gear with your partner, put on a performance on a stage with your new toys, and meet potential play partners too? Welcome to the London Alternative Market, or LAM for short. Hosted the first Sunday of every month in East London, LAM is a fetish market that turns into a kinky afterparty as the evening dawns. Desire and Purit...

Foot fetish is one of the most common and known fetishes - as Desire happily discovered when her last monogamous partner showed a tremendous interest in her feet. So what makes foot so arousing? And how do you develop a foot fetish? Desire and Purity bring on their friend Mr X, a real life psychologist and foot fetishist (who, for the time being wishes to remain anonymous) to talk about all things...

Curious about polyamory? Are you starting to feel like monogamy isn't for you but you don't know what other options are out there? Ever wondered what swinging, solo poly, hierarchical non-monogamy? In this episode, we break it all down, from friends with benefits to genuine connections that go way beyond a simple hookup. It all started when Desire realised she was polyamorous... and quickly realis...