Living In The Third Degree With BPD

It's true that you cannot change someone else, but you can change yourself and how to cope and work better with the person with BPD as well as changing the circumstances and the situation to an extent. But I have always believed that when 2 people love each other you don't always have to sacrifice because its easier to compromise. This episode also has some tips on little things I have done to hel...

This episode covers the extremes that someone with BPD will go through to avoid being abandoned. This is one of the most confusing traits to someone with BPD.... Very confusing for the other person like me! *** AUDIBLE.COM SPECIAL FOR LISTNERS ***  Click the link below for a special for our listeners! ONE FREE MONTH of audible.com and 2 FREE AUDIBLE BOOKS which are YOURS TO KEEP FOREVER even if yo...

If you have BPD or if you live with someone who has BPD and would like to be a guest on our show please send me an email on what you think you could bring to the show and how you can help other listeners... Email: thirddegreepodcastnh@gmail.com ****** Please feel free to send me an email with questions, comments or feedback to thirddegreepodcastnh@gmail.com ****** *** AUDIBLE.COM SPECIAL FOR LISTN...

This episode covers the subject I have researched yet when I'm with my wife she acts jealous possessive and loving as well and asked me not to abandon her but when she sends me away all those things disappear she could care less if I'm with somebody else or even if I died. *** AUDIBLE.COM SPECIAL FOR LISTNERS ***  Click the link below for a special for our listeners! ONE FREE MONTH of audible.com...

This is a Listener Email, His name is Daryll and wants to get my opinion that it is OK for him to "Self Medicate" himself with Heroin ONLY BECAUSE he is just using it to deal with the bitching, complaining, accusing and turmoil so he thinks it is OK. But to make matters worse he tells his wife this as his excuse thinking she will forgive him and he thinks she will allow him to use heroin because i...

Julie a 34 year old married female wants to explain how she makes nasty comments about why her husband has to work late, but she never gets the response she expects. I try explain that "For every action, there is a reaction." and that "Like attracts like". I feel that I offer a better and more rational response that she can offer to the situation. If you would like to submit a question that you wo...

This is a theory that I designed just a short time ago that will allow you to show your person with BPD pros and cons of their good side and bad side give them credit where credit is due but explain it to them the cons of the bad side and the description and chaos that it causes and the lives around them.  *** AUDIBLE.COM SPECIAL FOR LISTNERS ***  Click the link below for a special for our listene...

This episode shows the narcissistic and selfish side of BPD which makes any relationship hard when it's one way street but extremely hard when somebody has BPD. It's hard enough to please somebody when it's going to be all about them but it's even harder when BPD is the main ingredient in the relationship. *** AUDIBLE.COM SPECIAL FOR LISTNERS ***  Click the link below for a special for our listene...

This episode deals with the analogy of off road 4 wheeling when it comes to our situations and emotional rollercoaster. *** AUDIBLE.COM SPECIAL FOR LISTNERS ***  Click the link below for a special for our listeners! ONE FREE MONTH of audible.com and 2 FREE AUDIBLE BOOKS which are YOURS TO KEEP FOREVER even if you decide to cancel! https://www.amazon.com/hz/audible/mlp/membership/plus?ref_=assoc_ta...

This episode is about dealing with somebody who has BPD and has delusions and hallucinations and I'll give some tips on giving them some rational explanations on what they accuse you of and maybe how you can get through it. *** AUDIBLE.COM SPECIAL FOR LISTNERS ***  Click the link below for a special for our listeners! ONE FREE MONTH of audible.com and 2 FREE AUDIBLE BOOKS which are YOURS TO KEEP F...

this episode is about somebody with BPD how they live in the past and during an argument sometimes we'll bring up the same things that hurt them in the past episode will help you to try to overcome those repeated hurts and try to make them feel more loved by validating their feelings and attacking the subject and apologizing and explaining because they're bringing it up because it hurt them in som...

I applied the 17 second rule to my wife with borderline personality disorder to get her to realize that I do love her and to get her thoughts away from a relationship she had when we were apart hopefully you can apply this to a situation in your own life. *** AUDIBLE.COM SPECIAL FOR LISTNERS ***  Click the link below for a special for our listeners! ONE FREE MONTH of audible.com and 2 FREE AU...

This episode explains that this could be the end of my marriage for the last time after being with my wife for 33 years after I found out some information and realizing my life is Merry-Go-Round and will never change being in the situation with her not wanting to change herself.

And listeners submitted a comments and questions in regards to her thinking she has paranoia along with BPD. *** AUDIBLE.COM SPECIAL FOR LISTNERS ***  Click the link below for a special for our listeners! ONE FREE MONTH of audible.com and 2 FREE AUDIBLE BOOKS which are YOURS TO KEEP FOREVER even if you decide to cancel! https://www.amazon.com/hz/audible/mlp/membership/plus?ref_=assoc_tag_ph_1...

Do as I say not as I do deals with exactly what the title is it is okay for my wife to do things but if I do just repercussions for it so since she makes the rules that's exactly how it is do as I say not as I doI have told her before you make the rules so you can bend the rules you can change the rules because you make the rules *** AUDIBLE.COM SPECIAL FOR LISTNERS ***  Click the link below...

When it comes to someone with borderline personality disorder it's hard for them to apologize because they feel shame and guilt this episode covers why it's so hard for a person with BPD to apologize about the ax they commit when they have an episode. *** AUDIBLE.COM SPECIAL FOR LISTNERS ***  Click the link below for a special for our listeners! ONE FREE MONTH of audible.com and 2 FREE AUDIBL...

And this episode I'll be discussing how bad people with BPD can rip words out of their mouth before they think that are unnecessary and completely unforgivable can cause so much havoc that it can ruin a completely broken relationship and possibly take somebody's life. *** AUDIBLE.COM SPECIAL FOR LISTNERS ***  Click the link below for a special for our listeners! ONE FREE MONTH of audible.com...

This episode deals with people with BPD that have paranoia and detailed delusions and the confusion between slight delusions that include jealousy and stories opposed to deep full-blown detailed delusions. *** AUDIBLE.COM SPECIAL FOR LISTNERS ***  Click the link below for a special for our listeners! ONE FREE MONTH of audible.com and 2 FREE AUDIBLE BOOKS which are YOURS TO KEEP FOREVER even i...

This isn't really an episode as it is a sneak peek into what I plan on putting in for content and structure for episodes going into season 2. I encourage you to listen and then send me your comments or emails into suggestions on how I can structure my episodes and content better to help you if you have BPD or if you are someone who has a loved one with BPD. *** AUDIBLE.COM SPECIAL FOR LISTNERS ***...

This episode focuses on the question that we always get from other people asking us why we keep going back to the person and situation! and at the same time people with BPD may ask their rather have why they keep coming back to them and the same situation. *** AUDIBLE.COM SPECIAL FOR LISTNERS ***  Click the link below for a special for our listeners! ONE FREE MONTH of audible.com and 2 FREE A...

In this episode will be discussing matches that hurt that is inflicted on somebody by the person who has BPD but the additional hurt on top of that which brings up the term and so the injury. *** AUDIBLE.COM SPECIAL FOR LISTNERS ***  Click the link below for a special for our listeners! ONE FREE MONTH of audible.com and 2 FREE AUDIBLE BOOKS which are YOURS TO KEEP FOREVER even if you decide t...

This episode deals with my experience and I fight with my wife during a BPD episode she literally acts like a broken record and brings up the same stuff during every single argument which is completely irrelevant to the initial argument.

This episode is about frustration even though I don't like I understand and try to apply rules when it comes to BPD with my wife. I'm only human and sometimes you have to apply those rules. *** AUDIBLE.COM SPECIAL FOR LISTNERS ***  Click the link below for a special for our listeners! ONE FREE MONTH of audible.com and 2 FREE AUDIBLE BOOKS which are YOURS TO KEEP FOREVER even if you decide to...

This episode is my experience with dealing with someone with borderline personality disorder applying skills tips and tricks on dealing with somebody with borderline personality disorder and sometimes it put you ahead one 1 step and then a day later you can have been put two steps back. *** AUDIBLE.COM SPECIAL FOR LISTNERS ***  Click the link below for a special for our listeners! ONE FREE MO...

This episode describes the difference between conforming and tiptoeing I believe that can for me is being proactive in tiptoeing is being in the moment. ** AUDIBLE.COM SPECIAL FOR LISTNERS ***  Click the link below for a special for our listeners! ONE FREE MONTH of audible.com and 2 FREE AUDIBLE BOOKS which are YOURS TO KEEP FOREVER even if you decide to cancel! https://www.amazon.com/hz/audi...