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Brad S.

Living In The Third Degree With BPD

This podcast is about my experiences of having a wife of 34 years diagnosed with BPD. I talk about the turmoil, challenges and frustrations of my relationship and raising a family when BPD is present.** I do not have any professional experience with mental health all my knowledge is from my own research and living with someone with BPD. If you love someone who has BPD, remember...“Love and understand them, because they find it so hard to understand and love themselves” - 2020 Brad If you have questions or would like to be a guest on an episode, Email: thirddegreepodcastnh@gmail.com

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Brad S.

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Dernier épisode

14 juil. 2024

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Épisodes

#83 Not making them feel like a part of the furniture... 14.07.2024

This episode surprise of making him feel loved honored sexy beautiful and that you're in love with them not just love them!

#82 Houston, We have a Problem! 14.07.2024

This episode is directed and focused on when they have a hallucination one step above a delusion and just make something up out of the blue just to start an argument and it's not merely about what they said it's just merely a title to name their argument.

#81 Is Rational Reasoning an oxymoron? 14.10.2023

This episode focuses on rational reasoning when people with BPD don't know how to reason rationally. Some examples of effective ways that has worked in my relationship situation.

#80 Unlocking The Demon Within BPD 07.06.2023

This episode has to do with if you have a particular situation that includes something that is similar related to a deep-seated fear with the person with BPD you could possibly jump over the extra situation at hand and late night the deep-seated fiera within the person with BPD and after you fight more about that than the issue than the issue at hand.

#79 The absence of compassion can lead to BPD thoughts. 15.04.2023

This episode pertains to my experience when you have the absence of compassion and that closeness and loving words can lead to the thoughts Of infidelity from the person with BPD because they figure if you're not acting loving towards them and offering loving words that you must be offering all that to somebody else so that can be a huge trigger and either end up with them splitting or slowly lead...

#78 Splitting and effective ways to control the argument. 19.01.2023

These are suggestions that I have used as well as read about and watch videos when it comes to splitting on how to take control of the argument to avoid the person with BPD of them deflecting and getting off track when it comes to the matter at hand but as well as effective ways to show empathy and validate their feelings.

#77 Lying, Impulsivly, Deflecting and Not Sorry. 18.01.2023

This episode is about people with BPD lying deflecting and not saying sorry for things they say and things they do

#76 Dealing with Anhedonia when Combined with BPD. 15.01.2023

This episode deals with people who have BPD and are experiencing anhedonia as well. I talk about what I have learned involving the symptoms what causes antedonia the medical procedures and procedures you can do on your own at home with my suggestions and educating yourself from what you can find online through YouTube videos and podcasts.

#75 A BPD Favorite Person 12.01.2023

This episode is in addition to one I had done last year in regards to somebody with BPD who has a favorite person. This episode is specifically around someone who has BPD and builds their favorite person up to the point of perfection in a distorted way to get them in their life but this might also be helpful for somebody who doesn't have BPD so they might recognize if they are becoming a favorite...

#74 A defanged rattlesnake will still strike! 16.12.2022

This episode clearly outlines even if somebody with BPD can do a 180 they still have the instincts embedded in them from BPD where they split and still have the BPD characteristics of an argument.

#73 An Unconventional Approach with Loving Tactics 02.12.2022

This episode is about an unconventional approach as far as unconventional in mental health standards for the loving tactic if you have the patience and the love for the person in your life who has BPD you can apply this tactic and approach that I have and have a smooth relationship with a person in your life who has BPD.

#72 BPD Triggers of Love AND Hate... 02.12.2022

Any site that you look up and regards to BPD you always find information about triggers of BPD when it comes to episodes and splitting but very rarely will you find one that involves triggers of love so I want to do this episode involving triggers of love as well as hate.

#71 Characteristics of BPD during an argument. 07.10.2022

This episode is about what I've noticed there are certain characteristics of somebody with BPD specifically during an argument so I'm offering my experience with my wife dating back to when she had full blown BPD starting in 2012 and how she reacts now during full blown argumentative since she has done a 180 almost 6 months ago.

#70 What have you got to lose? Try this suggestions to help turn BPD 180 Degrees. 26.09.2022

This is suggestions on what I tried with my wife which helped turn her BPD 180° but I can also help any relationship that he's become stale....

#69 IMPORTANT: I have proof someone with BPD can do a 180!! Yes, even after 11 agonizing years!!! 23.09.2022

This episode proves that people with BPD can do a 180° change proven it with my wife who has had BPD since 2011 and after all this time I have seen a 180° changing her so with that being said enjoy this episode and hopefully if you have somebody in your life with BPD or if you have BPD yourself there is hope I guarantee you there is 100% hope

#68 IMPORTANT EPISODE!!! This is about a Surprising BPD change for good and 8 Days of Heaven! 24.05.2022

I would invite EVERYONE who has BPD or involved with someone who has BPD to understand that after knowing my wife and her disorder getting progressinly worse since 2012 to the point that she was so consumed by her disorder she became someone I did not know anymore, she was not the woman I fell in love with and not the person that was such a loving, kind and caring person not only to me and loved o...

#67 Their last interaction is how they perceive you. 15.03.2022

This is a cross between one of my older episodes of every time we fought she sound like a broken record along with a couple of new ideas that I had read in a couple of magazines and books about borderline personality disorder and how they perceive you with their last interaction.

#66 360 degree of hate and negative emotions 12.03.2022

This episode is about somebody who has BPD when they're splitting they have a 360° circle of emotions they will attack everything that you are to them a father a husband a lover a friend or anything that they ever said good about you they will reverse it when they're splitting.

#65 fueling the demon 06.03.2022

This episode is called feeling the demon and I'm trying to teach people how to not feed the BPD side of your loved one the more you feed into it the more it fuels them that's what they're looking for there's certain characteristics of BPD that you can fight by different actions for every action there's a reaction so I'm offering a suggestion that works for me hopefully it'll work for you

#64 Trauma Bond Relationship Signs 21.12.2021

After receiving an email from a listener asking if I thought my relationship with my wife was a trauma Bond relationship but I had never heard of that before so I had done some reading and figured I would bring to you what I learned about a drama relationship.

#63 A war during a nuclear disaster! 03.12.2021

This is the worst episode of recorded to date... My wife just went through extremely tragic event and because we were fighting she refused to allow me to be involved in this incident and pushed me away and I haven't spoken to her and afraid of going to be a long time they're so sweet to me and that's even if she ever will again.

#62 Interview With My BPD Wife! - PART 1 26.11.2021

**(To date part 2 has still not been recorded...) This is very special episode I never ever thought that I could get my wife Michelle to have an interview with me, considering I kept this podcast hidden from her for over a year!!! Unfortunately there was supposed to be a part 2 to her interview but there was an argument after part one, but at least I want to put up what I could get out of her for...

#61 Trying a different approach when accused will give you a different result... 20.11.2021

I hope you find this episode interesting I figured three different ways of approaching the same kind of situation and it actually made my wife open up and tell me the one approach not to take because it actually hurt worse than me denying an accusation I think you'll find it very interesting and helpful.

#60 The Hypochondriac BPD 17.11.2021

This episode is about her being a hypochondriac but got so much worse once she was diagnosed with BPD and when stresses come on it triggers more of her hypochondriac behavior.

#59 My 9 Hours In Heaven 17.11.2021

This episode is a follow-up from a couple of episodes back where I said I have not had contact with my wife and almost 2 months and the next time I did have contact with her that I would do a follow-up episode to let my listeners know what transpired and what came about during the visit and how it ended I think you'll enjoy this one obviously by the name of the title 9 hours in heaven it was an ex...

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