Lifting the Veil

Children at Weddings? Let’s Talk About It. It’s one of the most debated (and emotionally charged) wedding topics out there—children at weddings. Some couples can’t imagine saying “I do” without their littlest loved ones in attendance, while others dream of an adults-only celebration without high chairs, meltdowns, gentle parenting (oy!) or early bedtimes. So…who’s right? In this episode, we’re div...

You thought you hired a wedding photographer or planner…but little did you know, you also got a therapist. In this episode, Kathy and Christina dive into the unofficial role every wedding pro takes on; becoming a make-shift therapist for their couples. From family drama and emotional overload, to managing expectations and calming nerves, they share why these moments are not the exception—they’re t...

The wedding pro survival guide for building a sustainable business without burning yourself out...or trying like hell.  Christina kicks us off with words that hit home, "Let’s be real — running a creative business is hard enough. Add homeschooling two kids, working with your spouse, and trying not to burn it all down? That’s a whole different game." Then Kathy coming in with the corporat...

You may have seen this social media trend going around….”Things We Would Tell You if We Weren’t Afraid of Hurting Your Feelings”, we're going to share our take on the trend. While we've got a LOT of things we could share, we've narrowed down our Top 10. This episode is unfiltered for sure, and has language so if you're listening without headphones or around the kiddos, be advis...

Before the cake is cut and the dance floor opens, there are five conversations that every couple should have — and they might be a little uncomfortable. In Episode 46, Kathy and Christina get honest and real about the top 5 things you should talk about before your wedding day: 1. Children 2. Finances 3. Goals 4. Religion 5. Sex These are the topics that can make or break your long-term connection,...

In this eye-opening episode of Lifting the Veil , Christina and Kathy dive deep into the concept of wedding dysmorphia —that overwhelming feeling couples experience when Pinterest boards and social media dreams collide with real-world wedding budgets and timelines. Our wedding pros offer advice on approaching planning with clarity, communication, and priorities. They break down what a realistic we...

Ever been dazzled by a vendor’s “award-winning” status and thought, “Wow, they must be the best!”? Hold up, gorgeous. Before you get swept away by the glitter, let’s talk truth. In this episode, we’re peeling back the sparkly curtain on wedding industry awards. Spoiler alert: many of these accolades are more about paying than earning. That’s right—some vendors are just buying their bragging rights...

If you are a "thick glowing goddess", or pretty much anyone with a pulse, this episode is for YOU. In this episode, our two thick glowing goddesses tackle the "I need to lose weight to fit into my dress pandemic.  Common problems among brides, bridesmaids, moms, grandmoms, etc are :  Waiting for alterations so you can lose as much weight so your dress will be perfect. Unless you&apo...

What are the top 10 most common wedding planning mistakes most couples make? Everyone has an opinion about this but together we  have pulled together the most common mistakes we hear about from couples. And you know the drill, these are in no specific order...that's not how our brains work.  Hiring your vendors too soon or without proper research. Hiring vendors outside your budget point. And...

Are you planning a destination wedding? Thinking it'll be easier, save you money, be fun for all involved...maybe think again. While destination weddings are magical and amazing, there is just as much work involved, if not more.  Being outside the country there are often elements that can affect literally everything you do. Island time and mountain time are real...everything takes a bit longe...

Weddings are exciting, but they can also be financially overwhelming—especially if you fall into the trap of being “venue poor.” In this episode, we break down what it means to spend too much on your venue and how it can throw your entire wedding budget off track. We’ll walk through the numbers, common budgeting mistakes, and what you really need to consider before signing that venue contract. Plu...

Today's episode dives into the art of healthy arguing and playful banter with your spouse after the wedding day. We're talking about how to navigate disagreements, communicate effectively, fight fair, and be accountable, without letting the little things build up. Whether you're the person that can't seem to get their clothes into the laundry basket, or the one that loads the d...

In the busy world of being engaged and wedding planning, it can sometimes be hard to "stay connected" during the planning process. Even as vendors (especially as vendors) we often let work take over our daily lives and forget the important things...including those closest to us. It's important to set aside time to be with your partner, your supporter, your loved ones. After all, tha...

Oh how weddings have turned into their own living breathing organism over the years. Long gone are the days of the church wedding with the nut, mint, punch fountain reception. Today weddings are intentional curated events. But have they gone too far? Possibly! In this episode Kathy and Christina discuss the "forgotten intent of the wedding". Rarely are couples focused on "getting ma...

Bridal shows can be overwhelming...especially prior to Covid, they tended to be overly large. Post-Covid, they are a bit smaller but can still be a tad much to navigate through as a bride...even sometimes for a vendor too. Join Kathy & Christina as they discuss the origination of the Dallas Bridal Show with President, Naomi Butler. Together, we are addressing:  How are shows different post-Cov...

We are officially in the middle of engagement season and you likely know someone – or maybe you – got engaged recently. If so, you’re in good company. Did you know that The Knot “Real Weddings” Survey shows that 45% of couples get engaged during engagement season? That sweet spot of the year between Thanksgiving and Valentines Day. If you got engaged, or proposed over the holidays, what should you...

Every year vendors and leaders throughout the industry come forward with their projections on upcoming wedding trends. This year, we’ve created a comprehensive list of those trends and narrowed down to our top 25. These top 25 trends to note for 2025 include the most common and easy to utilize trends for couples. In no particular order, here are a few to get you going; otherwise, tune in for the f...

Where did 2024 go? It flew by! Let's do an end-of-the-year recap of our first 11 months of Lifting the Veil. Looking back, we loved sharing our podcast with you, and we are so thankful for everything that the year brought to our businesses, to our families....and to each other. Specifically speaking our recap words of the year are community and relationships. These are the things that make us...

Regardless of what time of year you decide to host your event, every good planner will tell you that you need a contingency plan...especially if you plan to host any part of your event outside.  Texas is notorious for it's fickle weather patterns and since there are only about 2-4 months out of the year that are reliable enough to even be outside for an extended amount of time, it's impe...

Whether you’re attending your first wedding, hosting a formal dinner, or just trying to figure out which fork to use, etiquette isn’t just about rules—it’s about creating an atmosphere of respect and grace. And let’s face it, we’ve all had those moments where we wonder, ‘Am I doing this right?’ In this episode, we’ll unpack some of the most common, misunderstood, and often unknown etiquette tips,...

What to wear and what NOT to wear at upcoming weddings. While Kathy & Christina tend to agree on guest attire, they have varying opinions about what is appropriate for vendors. This topic has made its' way around the internet so it's time they lend their two cents. Just to give you a little taste, here are some quick take-a-ways:  Know the event style/dress code: Casual, Cocktail, Fo...

Hey there cutie pies! We're back this week to talk about our Top 24 Tips for 2024. In this episode we're chatting about all things helpful. Things you might have thought about, things we're pretty sure you never thought you'd care about and so much more. So what might these things include? Well here are a few but you'll have to tune in for the entire list. And these are in...

Are you someone that constantly finds themselves trying to navigate chaos in their daily life, running into various conflicts in the workplace or with clients? Then sit down with Kathy & Christina and tune into today's episode with speaker, educator and communications expert, and owner of Lip Service Makeup , Jen Trotter , where we talk about how to: Manage and negotiate conflict with con...

In this episode of Lifting The Veil , Kathy & Christina dive into the why behind choosing the perfect time for your wedding ceremony! From when the heck "golden hour" really is to how first looks, family formals, and cocktail hour all impact your timeline, we’ve got you covered. Tune in for expert tips from a Dallas wedding photographer and planner duo—and of course, a little laughte...

Join Kathy & Christina as they walk along some of the most fun, silly and ridiculous stories we've decided to share in this episode. Sometimes we focus too much on the negative, so this episode is fully dedicated to fun, insightful stories.  You may find yourself in some of these stories, so let's stroll and tell old stories. Examples include the bride that wanted to put potted plant...