Lifting the Veil

Today, we’re diving into the reality that even the most experienced vendors can feel overwhelmed. It often feels like a feast or famine situation. Highs and lows are expected, but lately, it’s been more intense than usual. Christina and I chat about feeling overwhelmed, the anxiety that comes with slow periods, and the random thoughts that keep us up at night. Despite the chaos, we truly love this...

Today we’re diving into something that might hit close to home for many of us—social media etiquette, and why you might not be getting tagged in posts as often as you’d like. It’s easy to get frustrated when you see your colleagues or counterparts sharing photos of a project you collaborated on, and they don’t tag you. But what if it’s not intentional? What if they’re just moving too fast and forg...

You're engaged and smack-dab in the middle of that love-filled blissful haze with not a problem in the world. Well soak it up because it's time to start planning your big day and that can mean big bucks!  But before you get started, we thought we'd share some helpful tips to get you started. Now of course, the very first thing we are going to tell you to do is hire a planner BEFORE...

Did you know that by not diversifying your client base, you’re not just making a decision—you’re making a statement. And in doing so, you might be closing the door on incredible opportunities to connect with people who are celebrating love in all its vibrant forms, just as passionately as any “traditional” couple. Join Kathy & Christina as they lift the veil on inclusivity and dive into Adam G...

This hot topic episode doesn't need much introduction, other than to say...if you are easily offended, or if you think you might know vendors with unethical practices, that you protect, you might want to steer clear of what we have to say.  In this episode we expose the ugly truth behind unethical vendors, how their true behavior ultimately gets exposed, and what we are doing to prevent it fr...

In today's episode, we dive deep into the crucial topic of work-life balance, featuring Kayley Bacon, with Kayley Bacon Creative Solutions. With years of industry experience, Kayley offers practical advice on setting boundaries, prioritizing tasks, embracing flexibility, and knowing when to ask for help.  Listen along as Kayley shares her insights as a Virtual Assistant managing various types...

Everywhere you turn there's bad news about how trash and pollution are building up around us, leaching into everything we do and ultimately making us sick. There's so much information, it's SO overwhelming, so much so that most people just think, "this is be beyond my control, so why bother". But what if it wasn't? Believe it or not, making small changes in your daily...

Today Kathy & Christina are THRILLED to have their dear friend, Rick Bennett with Mobile DJ Services join Lifting The Veil! Tune in as we laugh, happy cry and Lift The Veil on music, teamwork, and all things wedding DJ! This is one you won't want to miss!  Rick Bennett, a.k.a. DJ Silver Spinner, began as a professional Disc Jockey in the early 1980s, first spinning as a local DJ in Brookl...

When was the last time you went to an open house where you actually had a good time and got to enjoy a new experience? That's exactly what was delivered during the Ohhh the Options When You Plan It With Me, The Mason Dallas Open House on July 22nd. More than 30 interactive sponsor vendors came to share their passion, art, food, drinks, products, to network and meet new potential clients. If y...

Let's be honest...getting married is the easy part. Being married and bridging families can, at times, be a whole other level of difficult BUT when you have people that truly care about each other and the people in their life that they love, it can be handled like a pro. That's what this family did beautifully and we felt like that was worth celebrating and sharing with our audience.  In...

How to avoid the after wedding panic of "I forgot to get a photo of 'x'". This week we talk about all things shot list. From moments to consider, logistics to make it happen and how to keep your expectations realistic. What is "full day wedding coverage", how do family formals impact your day and why golden hour may not always be as clear cut as it seems.  Come along...

Join us for part 2 of our discussion with Paige Mejia of Pyrotex. In this episode we talk about how she is the queen of networking. How does she do it? How to make it work for you and your business and why it matters. We also talk about how to find local networking groups in your area to get started.  For so many businesses, networking makes all the difference, so like it or not, get out of your s...

Independence Day is upon us, so it's the perfect time to talk all things fireworks. Paige Mejia is with us as we discuss how she got started in the business, taking us on a little stroll down memory lane where we learned Pyrotex's first client was the Bee Gee's. I don't care who you are, that's just cool!  We'll learn the actual names of different types of fireworks,...

Join us as we visit with Ruth Spirer of Weddings & Events by Ruth, where we talk about networking events and social awareness of the Jewish calendar. The Jewish faith follows the Lunar calendar, so being aware of other cultures and groups that may be affected by date conflicts is crucial when planning large events and/or being inclusive of our fellow wedding partners.   About Ruth, and Wedding...

Join Kathy & Christina as they visit with Ruth Spirer of Weddings & Events by Ruth , where they'll learn more about the Jewish community, the culture and her path into the wedding industry. Fun fact, with Ruth, we have a combined 65  years in the event industry.  Ruth has vast experience in the hospitality industry, where she has held key management, catering and event planning positi...

What is “neurodivergent”? Neurodivergent is a nonmedical term that describes people whose brains develop or work differently for some reason. This means the person has different strengths and struggles from people whose brains develop or work more typically. While some people who are neurodivergent have medical conditions, it also happens to people where a medical condition or diagnosis hasn’t bee...

Ohhhh where do we start about all things irritating in dealing with wedding vendors? Sometimes you gotta get it out of your system and this episode is the real truth about how our podcast began. We had one rule at the beginning...don't say the "F" word and that got blown out of the water in the first 2 minutes.  Just a few of the items: vendors that don't tag on socials, photog...

Ever heard the expression "Stay in your lane."? Well there's a reason for that. You're not always the expert and just because you think something is worth saying, or a good idea, it's not. Collaboration is key, overstepping into someone else's lane is not.  In this episode we're talking about staying in your lane, taking feedback, growing and working together. Af...

Why your vendor team matters. This is a hot topic of why hiring vendors at a discount, or the dreaded "friend/family" vendor almost never works in your favor. Take this STRONG advice and hire pros to bring your day to life.  True professionals understand this, so when you are looking for your dream-team, it's a best practice to stay away from "friend and/or family" vendors...

Ever wondered why you really need to hire a planner? This episode will dive in and help you understand the full benefit of hiring your planner FIRST. Your planner will guide the process, help you understand costs of each wedding category, how to break that out most efficiently, and how quickly that budget will be spent. In short, hire your planner before you do anything else to make the most of yo...

Editorial style. Documentary style. Photojournalistic style....what the hell does all this mean? I don't know but I know I want a photographer that's good. We've heard (and felt this) before. Not sure what the different type of styles are or how to even know what style you like, this episode will help you understand the differences and how to figure out which one you like best. And...

The reason we created this podcast. You are not alone and sometimes we all just need an outlet for points of frustration and celebration. We are working to share education about the industry to hopefully provide insight to fellow vendors and clients alike. Our episodes will always provide the good, the bad and the ugly. It's time to Lift the Veil on the industry AND the process of weddings.  

Why you want to hire your vendors sooner than later and why this matters to your overall budget. Hiring a vendor last minute can be detrimental to your overall event feel, level of stress and can even be a waste of money when not done correctly. In this episode, we're addressing the risk of hiring your vendor too late and how that limits our ability to properly assist and serve you. 

A somewhat daunting task, vetting vendors can be overwhelming. In this episode, we'll discuss how to tackle the task, things to keep in mind and honestly if you can afford it, hire a planner to do this part for you. It will truly save you on so many levels when it's all over with. 

Wedding Trends: Do they matter? Sometimes yes, for the greater good. Other times, they're just flat out annoying and make us feel bad if we can't afford to do what the "trends" tell us to do. In this episode, we dive into some of the industry's popular trends for 2024 and discuss their popularity, practicality and now unrealistic these actually are. Hot tip....the sexiest,...