Life After Divorce Coaching

We’ve been on quite a journey together since 2021. Over 190 episodes, we’ve shared stories, strategies, and support to help you navigate past divorce and on to your best life. So many of you have taken these lessons and put them into action. You’ve rebuilt your life, restructured your families, supported your children, and created a new chapter for yourself. We are so proud of you and of the commu...

In this episode, "Winning the War, Not Every Battle," we challenge the common misconception that divorce is about conquering every single point. Instead, we delve into focusing on the bigger picture and strategically choosing your battles to achieve a more favorable and peaceful outcome. Join us as we explore the pitfalls of the "win the battle, lose the war" mentality, where getting caught up in...

In Episode 189 , Doreen and Jeff tackle a vital subject: the interaction between the primitive brain and the thinking or prefrontal brain during the challenging experience of divorce. This significant life transition can affect your emotional and physical well-being. By understanding how these distinct areas of the brain operate, you can empower yourself to better manage the emotional upheaval tha...

Rewriting your personal narrative is a transformative process of self-discovery and empowerment, especially during and after a divorce. In this episode, Doreen and Jeff explore the importance of stepping back from the stories you've either created or those imposed upon you by others. They encourage you to reconsider your experiences through a fresh lens. Your perceptions of past events may often s...

In this podcast episode, Doreen and Jeff delve into the complex emotions surrounding divorce, specifically the challenge of distinguishing between the emotional pain (the hurt) and the inherent difficulty (how hard it is). Perhaps you’re feeling lost, overwhelmed, angry, or even numb. You might be questioning why it hurts so deeply and why it feels so incredibly challenging. Here’s the key insight...

What if you could step into the version of yourself who’s already healed, empowered, and thriving after divorce—right now? In this episode, Doreen and Jeff explore how to embody your future self today to navigate the emotional storm of separation with clarity, self-respect, and purpose. Whether you're in the middle of legal battles or quietly grieving the end of a chapter, this conversation will h...

The phrase "the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results" is widely used as a cautionary statement about ineffective habits. In this episode Doreen and Jeff explore how the phrase is often used metaphorically to highlight irrational persistence without meaningful change. Want to explore how this idea applies to decision-making and behavior? This...

Considering divorce or coping with a spouse’s decision to end your marriage? This episode explores the complex emotional landscape and practical realities of divorce, unpacking both its potential benefits and challenges. We delve into how divorce can bring freedom, personal growth, and relief from unhealthy relationships, while also addressing common struggles like financial difficulties, emotiona...

In this heartfelt episode, we dive into those overwhelming days when getting out of bed feels impossible—especially during the emotional storm of divorce. Hosts Doreen and Jeff explore the delicate balance between honoring your feelings and taking small steps forward. They share practical strategies like gentle movement, self-compassion, and mindful separation of facts from fears to help navigate...

In this episode 182, Jeff and Doreen discuss a powerful tool that has been invaluable in everyone’s own life, exercise. It might seem like a simple solution to complex problems, but trust me, the benefits of regular physical activity during challenging times, including divorce, are profound and far-reaching. So, let's dive into why I call divorce and exercise "the perfect marriage".

In this episode Doreen and Jeff discuss the Fresh Start Effect. It’s that Intrinsic power of starting over and fresh. There are moments that promote this like a birthday, the New year and even a divorce. This is why so many people experience this start fresh mind set throughout even other milestones and other times, like a new semester in school, a new sports season (elaborate on…) , a new job, th...

Divorce is often perceived as a culmination of failure, marked by heartache and loss. Yet, beneath the surface of this challenging experience lies a powerful journey of vulnerability and courage. Embracing vulnerability allows individuals to confront their deepest fears, express their emotions, and acknowledge their struggles. This raw openness can lead to profound personal growth and healing. At...

Divorce can significantly impact children's well-being, affecting their emotional, social, and academic development. It is a difficult period for all family members, necessitating understanding and support to navigate the transition effectively. The effects vary depending on the child's age, temperament, and the support system available. In this episode Jeff and Doreen explore the issues with pare...

In a divorce, the fate of the marital home can vary significantly depending on several factors, including state laws, the couple's financial circumstances, and the agreements made during the divorce process. In the episode  Jeff and Doreen will talk about the ins and outs and the dos and don’ts of what happens to the family home during the divorce process.

In episode 177, Jeff and Doreen dive into the complexities of divorce proceedings, particularly highlighting the advantages of settling a divorce case prior to going to trial. They emphasize that while emotions can run high during this process, finding common ground and reaching an agreement can lead to a more favorable outcome for both parties. 

Jeff and Doreen discuss “Learning to let go of the things that don’t matter”, being inspired by Mark Manson’s incredible book, *The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F***.    Divorce can leave you carrying a heavy load—expectations, regrets, and societal judgments—but today, we’re going to explore how to choose where to invest your energy and focus on what truly brings value to your life. Book your free...

In this episode Jeff and Doreen wishes you the best New Year ever and talk about new starts and the opportunities we have with a brand-new year ahead of us. The reality is, we can choose to have a new start whenever we want, not just at the beginning of the year. We have more control over our lives than we often realize. Book your free call with Jeff at: https://lad-coaching.com/schedule-appointme...

Divorce can feel like an emotional battlefield, but the key to surviving and thriving through it is understanding that not every fight is worth your energy. During this episode, we will dive into why and how you can make smarter decisions on what to fight or not fight over during one of the most challenging transitions in your life. Book your free call with Jeff at: https://lad-coaching.com/schedu...

The holidays are here once again and if you’re not feeling the warm and fuzzies we understand. The holidays can bring up some memories that can be both good and bad. TV commercials, social media or just people in general are telling you to be thankful, merry and joyful. Easier said than done! In episode 173 Jeff and Doreen discuss some tips to help you make it through the holidays. Book your free...

Remember the fairy tales we read as children? Snow White? Cinderella? Beauty and the Beast? Each ended with one version or another of “…and they lived happily ever after.” In this episode, Jeff and Doreen discuss how the idea of "They lived happily ever after" is not possible because life is 50/50. Imperfect and full of trials and disappointments. This story book phrase is a romantic illusion that...

Can a Marriage Survive Adultery? Yes, many marriages do survive infidelity. For thousands of couples, working through the pain and betrayal, learning to forgive, and establishing firm boundaries to prevent future issues have all helped them to rebuild their relationships. With commitment, a renewed focus on growth, and the actions that make love deepen, some marriages even become stronger than the...

During a divorce, you’re surrounded by a sea of information—but not all sources are equally reliable. With just a few taps on your phone, you can access an entire library of legal documents, guides, and more. Alongside what’s online, you’ll likely receive advice from friends, family, and acquaintances, many of whom may have their own experiences to share (or at least think they do). In this whirlw...

One of the lessons that we have teach often is how to recognize the 50-50 good/bad of the world. And a big part of that is learning how to accept pain and to develop the capacity to feel. In the episode Doreen and Jeff discuss the benefits of excepting your feelings and working through the emotions you will experience in marriage, during divorce and after divorce. Book your free call with Jeff at:...

Running away from emotions and the feelings you’re experiencing before, during and after divorce is often a coping mechanism that can make your problems harder to deal with in the long run. In this episode Doreen and Jeff talk about getting unstuck during your marriage, divorce and afterwards. They discuss that getting unstuck doesn’t mean that you will suddenly going to have clarity about what th...

In this episode Doreen and Jeff give you more clarity on when it’s time to divorce. If you are in any stage of confusion, this episode is a must listen to. They discuss the warning signs that just might give you the ah ha you need to make the correct discussion in your best interest. Book your free call with Jeff at:  https://lad-coaching.com/schedule-appointment/