Let's Talk About Sex

Have you ever had trouble reaching orgasm? Maybe you were fine with one partner but can't seem to make it happen with another? Maybe you lost the ability at random or after an event? This isn't as uncommon as you think and Maia Bilyk and our resident sexpert Tanya Koens are here to talk you through Anorgasmia, how it happens and what to do if you're having trouble with your O's See omnystudio.com/...

Have you ever had trouble reaching orgasm? Maybe you were fine with one partner but can't seem to make it happen with another? Maybe you lost the ability at random or after an event? This isn't as uncommon as you think and Maia Bilyk and our resident sexpert Tanya Koens are here to talk you through Anorgasmia, how it happens and what to do if you're having trouble with your O's See omnystudio.com/...

Vagazzling, Jade Eggs, Dick Pills - there's a lot of stuff out there being sold as the solution to having the best sex ever. In this episode, we are cutting through the noise and telling you what works and what doesn't and what is plain snakeoil. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sometimes erections can just be hard to come by, other times you might be able to get it up but the fun is over sooner than you expected. Erectile dysfunction is the name of the game this week and Tanya Koens and Maia Bilyk are here to tell you it's a lot more common and probably a lot more manageable than you think. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Continuing on our discussion of intimacy in the media, Tanya Koens and Maia Bilyk this week talk about the more positive elements of sex in movies and TV. We are talking Intimacy Coordinators and the representation of the actually good sex on screen. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sex scenes on TV, bangin' on the big screen, this week Tanya Koens and Maia Bilyk are discussing how intimacy is represented in the media, what this teaches us about intimacy and some tropes about sex on screen we'd like to throw in the bin. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

~~Lockdown Special Extended Cut!!~~ This week Maia Bilyk is broadcasting live from her laundry to bring you another chat with resident sexpert Tanya Koens. LTAS is now fully remote but that won't stop us from bringing you another chat about being single in this lockdown, finding new ways to make connections with people, and how to stay in touch with, well, touch! See omnystudio.com/listener for pr...

Well, here we are again. I know we're all sick of hearing about it but we are back at home, but this shouldn't mean that you need to pump the breaks on your love life. This week Maia Bilyk and Tanya Koens are giving you a crash course in Zoom dates, Facetime romance, and getting saucy on Google Hangouts. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Happy 69 episodes! In honour of this milestone, Tanya Koens and Maia Bilyk will be discussing the much renowned 69 position, the myriad ways to do it and how to maximise your pleasure while doing the two (or more!) person cartwheel. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Maia Bilyk and resident sex and relationship counsellor and all-round sexpert Tanya Koens, are discussing dating with a disability. We are talking ableism and how able-bodied folks can approach the dating world better when interacting with folks with a disability. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

>>>Trigger Warning < < < This episode discusses Kinks/Fetishes and contains mentions of ageplay, consensual non-consent as well as sexual assault. If these are topics which are difficult for you, feel free to give this episode a miss. This week we are discussing foot fetishes, who has em, who wants em and why are people into things like this? Tanya and Maia are discussing fetishes, kinks, paraphil...

Ever have an amazing date and then the person never texts you back? Been talking to a cutie online and suddenly they smokebomb out of the chat, never to be heard from again? Tanya Koens and Maia Bilyk are talking about ghosting this week, when it's ok to ghost, why people do it and maybe what could potentially be a better approach than disappearing without a trace. See omnystudio.com/listener for...

We're getting back to basics this week. Maia Bilyk and Tanya Koens discuss why we as humans feel compelled to smush our faces together and attempt to answer the age old question of how to be a good kisser. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's been a big few months in Australian politics and women and femme presenting/identifying folk are starting to feel the fatigue. This week we discuss every day sexism, the feeling of exhausting many of us are feeling and some of the ways to talk to the men in your life about what's going on. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Heard about BDSM and think it's all whips, chains and humiliation? This week, in true LTAS fashion, Tanya Koens and Maia Bilyk want to rid you of your preconceptions about this misunderstood sexual subculture. Tune in to find out how professional doms can turn you into a cashpig or learn the ways kinksters are leading the way in consent. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

--TW: Episode discusses sexual assault-- In light of the assault allegations that have rocked Canberra this week we thought it was high time we revisited one of our very first topics on the podcast: Consent. Tanya Koens and Maia Bilyk discuss what is consent, what isn't consent, how to have constructive conversations with your mate who might be outside consent and try to figure out whatever it is...

Teledildonic hackers, medieval jokes and long distance doms. We're discussing the strange history and usage of chastity devices. Maia Bilyk and Tanya Koens discuss where they came from and how they are used (or misused) today. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Celebrities putting their name on products to make a quick buck is nothing new, but this week we are discussing the new trend in celebrity endorsements - sex toys and sexual wellness! We get into some good celebrity products and where it can get a bit questionable. Tanya Koens and Maia Bilyk also have a chat about sex shop etiquette and how to get to most out of your adult store experience! See om...

We've reached the end of the year and this week Tanya Koens and Maia Bilyk are recapping what was certainly a strange 12 months. They discuss things they've learned about the wild beast that is love, dating and self-care, favourite episodes and things that surprised them this year. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week Tanya Koens and Maia Bilyk continue their chat on how to start meaningful communication with those special people we're getting naked with. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

As our name suggest, we here at LTAS love to talk about sex, but we also want you to know to talk about sex. Tanya Koens and Maia Bilyk give tips of how to approach the tricky subject of bringing up conversations about sex with your partner. We also get intos some ways we refer to sex that need to go in the bin!how See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In part two of our chat about Vaginismus Tanya Koens and Maia Bilyk get into why there are discrepancies in research relating to painful sex for people with vaginas. They also discuss how to get treated if you're experiencing painful sex of Vaginismus symptoms. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ever heard of Vaginismus? It's a condition that affects a pretty significant number of people with vaginas, but not a lot of people know about it and it can sometimes be hard to get a diagnosis. Tanya Koens and Maia Bilyk are shedding light on what the heck it is, how people get it and what you can do about it if you are experiencing trouble with penetration. See omnystudio.com/listener for privac...

In Part 2 of our discussion on getting in the mood, Tanya Koens and Maia Bilyk are getting into how to curate your sexy vibe. We're talking tactics to get yourself feeling frisky, the sexiness of being able to take a "no", and how to get saucy in the chat in a way all parties can enjoy. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I think we can all agree, lately it's all been.... kind of a lot and maybe feeling sexy has been at the bottom of our priority list. Tanya Koens and Maia Bilyk are navigating how to get in the mood when maybe the global vibe is making that a bit difficult. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.