Lessons in Self Worth

Send us a text Do you ever feel crazy? like your thoughts are spinning out of control over someone? That intense, obsessive longing where every little thing they do feels like a sign?  You might be experiencing limerence. It’s more than just a crush - it’s an all-consuming obsession that can feel like an addiction to this person. It feels crazy - but I assure you you're not In this episode Ca...

Send us a text If you’re going through a breakup right now, you already know how painful it is. But have you ever wondered why some breakups feel so much worse than others? Why, for some people, the pain feels overwhelming, like it's impossible to move on? Well, research suggests there’s a reason for that. And in today’s episode, we’re breaking down exactly what makes a breakup feel so unbear...

Send us a text In this episode of Lessons in Attachment , we’re joined once again by breakup coach Holly from Break Ups and Love   to dive even deeper into the challenges of heartbreak and healing. If you missed her first episode on May 26, 2024 , scroll back to listen - it’s packed with insights on navigating breakups. This time, we’re covering some really helpful and interesting topics to suppor...

Send us a text Healing your attachment wounds and childhood trauma starts with reconnecting with a very important part of you - your inner child. In this powerful episode, we dive into why inner child work is the key to true healing. Our brilliant guest expert shares three essential keys for practicing inner child work in a way that creates real change and healing. Whether you sare recovering from...

Send us a text Do you have an anxious or disorganised attachment style? If you've ever felt that gut-wrenching fear that your partner might leave, that sinking feeling when someone else gets too close, or the endless overthinking that keeps you up at night... I'm sure you know exactly how all consuming jealousy can be! In this episode, Carly Ann is diving deep into the jealousy through t...

Send us a text If you feel like life is against you, like nothing ever goes right and you’re stuck in a cycle of frustration...this 7-minute episode is exactly what you need.  When big/small, daily challenges pile up, it’s easy to slip into a victim mindset, but staying there only keeps you stuck and creates so much pain and negative energy.  This episode will help you shift your perspective, brea...

Send us a text Struggling to let go? Whether you're anxiously attached to a person, an outcome, or the way you thought life should be by now - this episode is for you. When you're constantly waiting for reassurance, obsessing over what might happen, or clinging to control, it only fuels more anxiety. Feeling secure and peaceful comes from learning to detach.. as you will hear in this epi...

Send us a text This podcast is for anyone stuck in a cycle of being attracted to unavailable partners and ready to make a change. If you want to start attracting secure, available types then you need to hear this! Join Carly Ann for practical steps, mindset shifts, and real-talk on how to start choosing secure, healthy love. No overanalyzing - just how you can change your type for good.  Support t...

Send us a text Do you have an anxious attachment style? Are you doing the work to heal attachment wounds but keep repeating patterns? In this episode, Carly Ann dives into key psychological techniques that can help break free from the anxious attachment drama cycle and create real, lasting change.  If you’ve ever felt stuck in overthinking, emotional highs and lows, or unhealthy relationship patte...

Send us a text Is your inner critic running your mood? Be honest, has it been running the show for too long? Usually the inner critic is loud, especially if you have an anxious attachment style.  In this episode, Carly Ann explores how this harsh inner voice keeps you stuck, settling for less than you deserve, and holding back from true happiness.  She shares a simple but powerful two-step process...

Send us a text Do you have an anxious or disorganised attachment style? So, you know that moment when your stomach drops because they took too long to text back? Or when you convince yourself they’re losing interest, even if nothing has actually happened? And then, before you know it, you’re overthinking, checking their socials, or panicking about being left? That’s the anxious attachment drama cy...

Send us a text In this episode, I’m joined by Frankie Olivia ( @Frankiestherapy ) , a trauma-responsive creative psychotherapist and EMDR psychotherapist, to discuss living with and healing anxious attachment . We explore: ✨ Understanding needs & unmet needs ✨ Separation anxiety and why it feels so intense ✨ The first thing to do when you notice you’re triggered ✨ Techniques to regulate yo...

Send us a text If you always lose yourself in love, put everyone else first, and feel like your happiness depends on someone else...this one is definitely for you today.  Carly Ann gives you a key principle from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) that will help you stop abandoning yourself in relationships, dating, and even situationships with unavailable partners.  This goes beyond just love...

Send us a text Have an anxious attachment? If you’re stuck in patterns of overthinking, self-doubt, and craving reassurance in love, relationships & dating... your inner critic might be running the show. That harsh voice keeping you small, making you question your worth, and pushing you into relationships where you give more than you get...it’s exhausting and you've probably had enough! I...

Send us a text DOWNLOAD YOUR ACCMPANYING PDF (DOC 12) Do you feel trapped in endless “what if” thoughts, especially in relationships? For anxious attachers, uncertainty can feel unbearable, fueling overthinking and constant worry. In this episode, Carly Ann will explore why uncertainty triggers anxiety and share practical tips to help you break the cycle. Learn how to sit with the unknown, challen...

Send us a text Going no contact? Are you feeling torn, uncertain, or even panicky about breaking no contact? As an anxious attacher, it’s easy to feel consumed by the urge to reach out, even when part of you isn’t sure it’s the right thing to do. In this episode, I’m sharing three powerful questions that will help you connect with what you’re really feeling and give you the clarity and guidance yo...

Send us a text DOWNLOAD YOUR ACCMPANYING PDF (DOC 11) Anxious attachment can keep you stuck in obssessing, overthinking and self-doubt.  In this episode Carly Ann shares how to shift your perspective on your thoughts so you can approach relationships with confidence, calm, and reduced reactivity. Discover how to zoom out and step back from overwhelming thoughts to create space to respond - helping...

Send us a text In this episode of Lessons in Attachment , I’m sharing a sneak peek from the Attachment Recovery Gym with guest expert Holly, also known as Breakups and Love . Holly, an accredited EFT International practitioner combining EFT tapping & journaling to help with stress and life's challenges. You’ll hear why these tools are so powerful and how they can support your healing jour...

Send us a text Download PDF for Accompanying this Ep (10) Do you have an anxious attachment style? Do you feel panicked when it seems like someone you care about is pulling away? Maybe you start overthinking their messages, checking your phone non-stop, or reacting in ways you wish you hadn’t. You’re not alone, and there’s a way through it. In this episode, Carly Ann dives into the 3 things anxiou...

Send us a text Have you ever felt like change is impossible? Like no matter how hard you try, you keep slipping back into the same patterns? If you’re on a healing journey with anxious attachment, you’ve likely experienced moments of doubt, frustration, and even hopelessness.  In this episode, Carly Ann offers a powerful exercise to help you rebuild your belief in yourself and your ability to chan...

Send us a text Do you find yourself overthinking every little thing in your relationships? Like making up reasons to text them, holding back your true thoughts, or even pretending you’re totally fine when deep down, you’re not? Maybe you’ve noticed you’re moulding yourself into what you think they want or making excuses for behaviour you know isn’t OK. Sound familiar? In this episode, Carly Ann is...

Send us a text As we step into a brand new year, it’s time to focus on how to create the life you truly desire. In today’s episode, I dive deep into practical goal-setting techniques that will help you design your dream 2025.  Whether you’re looking to transform your career, relationships, or personal development, I am giving practical steps to align your goals with what's important to you. ...

Send us a text In this special episode, I’m bringing you affirmations designed to support you through the holiday season and beyond. Living with anxiety can make boundaries, self-love, and emotional security feel like constant battle but today, we’re flipping the script. These affirmations are here to help you reclaim your power, set boundaries that protect your peace, and nurture the secure versi...

Send us a text Have you ever felt that gut-wrenching moment when someone you care about pulls away? You’re left questioning everything from what you did wrong, why this always seems to happen, and if it’s somehow all your fault. But what if the reason had nothing to do with you? In this episode, I dive deep into why people suddenly withdraw and what you can do to protect yourself as the anxious at...

Send us a text Do you ever feel like your anxious attachment is just too much for others to handle? Maybe you’ve been in situations where you needed support, but the person you turned to couldn’t quite meet your needs. This can trigger big emotions, anger, or feelings of rejection, leaving you wondering why they don’t understand what you’re going through. In this episode, I dive into what it feels...