Mary

Lessons from the psychotherapy chair

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I have been in both chairs in the psychotherapy room, and I have learned the value of good therapy, and I have learned the value of bad therapy. Not only have I learned the value of therapy, but I have also learned a lot of lessons in both chairs. Today, I occupy the psychotherapist chair and sometimes the client chair, and I continue to learn lessons that both surprise me and teach me that a graduate degree does not guarantee expertise or even basic knowledge about mental health in today's world. I want to share some of the things that I have learned from both chairs that have set the course...

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Mary

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Health

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www.buzzsprout.com

Latest episode

Jun 15, 2026

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Episodes

Lena and Eli 15.06.2026

Send us Fan Mail Today I talk about BPD and some therapeutic ways of self management. Support the show

The Lingering Effect of Trauma 07.05.2026

Send us Fan Mail In today's episode I share a personal experience about trauma and talk about therapeutic interventions that are effective. Support the show

Being Relevant 30.04.2026

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Things We Are Insecure About But Rarely Admit 23.04.2026

Send us Fan Mail Today I talk about some things that go on in my head that feel like insecurities.  Support the show

A Connection Deeper Than Words 16.04.2026

Send us Fan Mail In today's podcast I talk about a topic that was suggested to me by a young client and while writing the podcast I got to explore my own feelings about the topic. Support the show

The High Cost of Perfectionism 09.04.2026

Send us Fan Mail Today's episode is another client suggested topic. It is on perfectionism and excellence. Hope you enjoy! Support the show

Encounters, Evidence, and the Unexplainable 02.04.2026

Send us Fan Mail Today I visit a topic that is one of my favorites and gives breadth to my woowooness.  The paranormal isn't a topic that one normally thinks about when they think about psychotherapy but it is relevant since several clients over the years have had paranormal experiences and needed to figure out if they were losing their minds. And sometimes they just needed a witness to their...

More about attachment 26.03.2026

Send us Fan Mail Today I talk about attachment theory, attachment wounding, and attachment trauma. Here is a list of resources if you want to go deeper. John Bowlby Bowlby, J. (1969). Attachment and loss: Vol. 1. Attachment. Basic Books. Mary Ainsworth Ainsworth, M. D. S., Blehar, M. C., Waters, E., & Wall, S. (1978). Patterns of attachment: A psychological study of the strange situation. Lawr...

Emotional shutdown vs Autism 24.03.2026

Send us Fan Mail Today I talk about emotional shutdown with CPTSD and autism. This is a client requested topic. I am not a trained autism therapist but have basic knowledge enough to speak with confidence. Here are some resources if you want to go deeper. Levine, P. A. (2010). In an unspoken voice: How the body releases trauma and restores goodness. North Atlantic Books. Ogden, P., Minton, K., &am...

Shame, CPTSD, and Dissociation: Understanding the Hidden Survival System 13.03.2026

Send us Fan Mail Today I talk about healing shame when there is CPTSD and dissociation. Here is a resource list if you want to go deeper. Bradshaw, J. (2005). Healing the shame that binds you . Health Communications. Brown, B. (2007). I thought it was just me (but it isn’t): Making the journey from “what will people think?” to “I am enough.” Gotham Books. Brown, B. (2012). Daring greatly: How the...

When Trauma Meets Attention: CPTSD and untreated ADHD 06.03.2026

Send us Fan Mail Today I talk about a common issue for many of my clients and that is untreated ADHD and CPTSD. Here is a list of resources you may find helpful. Resources: Arnsten, A. F. T. (2009). Stress signalling pathways that impair prefrontal cortex structure and function. Nature Reviews Neuroscience. Barkley, R. A. (2015). Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder: A Handbook for Diagnosis a...

Spirituality in trauma and grief psychotherapy 27.02.2026

Send us Fan Mail Today I talk about spirituality as part of the therapeutic process. Support the show

Depression, Dysthymia, and CPTSD 23.02.2026

Send us Fan Mail In today's podcast the topic is MDD, Dysthymia, and CPTSD and I take a look at that through the polyvagal lens. I have included a bibliography of sources. Bibliography — Trauma, Dissociation, and Polyvagal-Informed Treatment I. Foundational Trauma & Dissociation Theory The Body Keeps the Score — Bessel van der Kolk (2014) Neurobiology of trauma, somatic memory, developmen...

Polyvagal theory and dissociation 13.02.2026

Send us Fan Mail Today's topic is a follow up to topics that have been presented in previous podcasts and gives an overlay of polyvagal theory with dissociation. It helps to develop a new understanding of dissociation as central nervous system survival during trauma. Support the show

Attachment and attachment trauma 08.02.2026

Send us Fan Mail Today I talk about attachment and attachment trauma. I look at what that is through the lens of CPTSD, dissociation and polyvagal theory. Porges, S. W. (1995). Orienting in a defensive world: Mammalian modifications of our evolutionary heritage. A polyvagal theory. Psychophysiology, 32 (4), 301–318. https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1469-8986.1995.tb01213.x Support the show

One House, Many Rooms 29.01.2026

Send us Fan Mail Today I talk about DID. Below I have provided citations for the information mentioned in the blog. https://www.aetv.com/shows/many-sides-of-jane   ·  American Psychiatric Association. (2022). DSM-5-TR. ·  Brand, B. L., et al. (2013). A naturalistic study of dissociative identity disorder treatment. ·  Dalenberg, C. J., et al. (2012). Evaluation of the evidence for the trauma and f...

Let's start putting this together 23.01.2026

Send us Fan Mail In this episode I briefly review the information from previous podcasts and link them together by using metaphor and examples. Support the show

Aphantasia and IFS 15.01.2026

Send us Fan Mail In this episode I answer a question from podcast 1 about aphantasia, what it is, what it is not, and how it relates to autobiographical recall. I also give a brief overview of IFS as a way of working with internal parts.  Support the show

Dissociation and Dissociative Disorders 08.01.2026

Send us Fan Mail Today I am going to talk about dissociation and give a brief overview of dissociative disorders. This is not intended to take the place of counseling or therapy but to highlight some of the issues that could or need to be addressed with a licensed counselor or therapist. And for some, it will be educational information to increase understanding of therapeutic issues. None of the i...

PTSD vs CPTSD 07.01.2026

Send us Fan Mail In today's podcast I discuss the diagnoses of PTSD and CPTSD with a comparison and contrasting to demonstrate the similarities and differences. I give some case examples to illustrate some of the differences. Amazon Storefront This is an affiliate site with Amazon for resources mentioned in podcasts. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I ma...

Let's get this started. 25.12.2025

Send us Fan Mail Today's podcast in the first in a series of topics that will be discussed regarding mental health, counseling, psychotherapy, and healing from trauma and abuse with a focus on dissociation as a way the brain copes with childhood trauma and abuse. The topic featured this week is a very brief overview of mental health disorders that develop in human brains where the brain does...

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