Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life

This week we're joined by Christin Baker. Christin is a Lesbian Filmmaker and the Co-Founder and CEO of Tello Films. We chat about her streaming service for LGBTQ content, her coming out story and what it was like to be front and center during the debate over gay marriage. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/supp...

Dr. Jaime joins us to talk about the difficulties of bonding with your partner's children -- and how to handle things when you just aren't feeling the love. We're also introducing an Ask Dr. Jaime segment where listeners can submit their questions to Dr. Jaime. Email us at melisaandalli@gmail.com with your questions! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chro...

Our friend Stacey joins us to talk about her very recent coming out -- and how she's worked to make friends in the LGBTQ community in Nashville. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .

We talk RED flags all the time -- but what are some GREEN flags in a relationship? Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .

Actor, Writer, and Second City alum Kirsten Rasmussen (Slo Pitch, Odd Squad, Schitt's Creek) shares her coming out story. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .

Did American Gladiators make you gay? Because Melisa thinks it may be some data for her coming out late in life story. We discuss this 90s mayhem of a TV show and other movies that gave us the feels as kids. And then swap topics to talk dealing with rejection in dating. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support...

What was the moment you knew you were gay? Listeners share their "defining moments" Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .

Author, Speaker, and Coach Dawn DiMicco joins us to talk about her life as a conservative Catholic who came out later in life after being married to a man for 16 years. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .

“Shame is that warm feeling that washes over us, making us feel small, flawed, and never good enough.” - Brené Brown We explore the topic of shame -- how it molds who we are today and how to overcome it's grip. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .

Anna Harissis, Co-Creater and CEO of OUT: the LGBTQ+ Social App, joins us to discuss her amazing app that is helping the queer community connect and find safe spaces and resources throughout the United States. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .

This week we share some advice a husband shared with us on what could make this process easier on them. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .

It's Our 200th Episode!! Hard to believe that our little decision back in June 2019 to record a podcast sharing our experiences of coming out later in life would grow to be where we are today. We are so gratefult to our faithful listeners. This week we reflect back on what we've learned over the years and how we've grown. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian...

Who asks for the first date? Who plans it? Who pays?? All questions we didn't really have to think about while dating men but here we are. Melisa breaks down the approach she has taken with those first initial dates with someone new -- and shares some tips from listeners. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/suppo...

Coming out seems to be filled with heartbreak on multiple levels. This week Melisa and Alli discuss giving yourself permission to be sad (Yes, even over your divorce) and ways to cope when you're in the thick of it all. (Spoiler: It doesn't include texting your ex.) Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .

Perrie Voss, Canadian award-winning actor, writer, editor, and producer, joins the show this week to talk about her award-winning series, Avocado Toast. She also shares what it was like to come out right as a global pandemic hit and her life now that she has found "Queer Joy!" Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/...

Do you ever feel guilty for traveling without your kids? Alli and Melisa totally relate to that feeling. This week we talk about travel guilt and how to feel better about taking time for yourself. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .

This week we're throwing out ideas on how to meet other people -- gay or straight. You never know who someone else might know, so hit up the dog park, theater, book store or take a cooking class! Get out there! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .

Our friend Stacy joins Alli to talk about dating over 50 and finally meeting the right person at 52. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .

Ali joins us again to give an update on The Messy Middle as she navigates meeting women and coping with her husband dating someone seriously. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .

Melisa and Alli chat about some TikTok drama and how there seems to be some patterns when it comes to your first same-sex relationship. NOTE: At one point, Melisa is talking about children in China and how they're very independent. The video she referenced seeing was actually children in Japan, not China. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-comin...

Alli shares some things she has learned over the years blending a family of four children and how difficult it can be for all parties involved. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .

Coming out can often feel very sexualized, this week we explore exactly why it shouldn't be and how coming out and living more authentic lives has created opportunties in other parts of our lives. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .

What qualifies as emotional cheating? And how do you protect your relationship with your partner and prevent a friendship from evolving into something that crosses the line? Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .

Dariella Blanco joins us to talk about Second Friday Atlanta and what it was like to grow up in Venezuela knowing she was lesbian. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .

Are there truly any wrong decisions? Even when it feels like a decision might be the wrong one -- in the end it's the path you're supposed to be on. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .