Les Chat Podcast - LGBTQ+ - Lesbian Latinas

Jojo & Dayra welcome Kenny on this week's episode to discuss how sexuality can actually be fluid! For some, labels allow them to be seen & approached by the public with what they self- identity but for others, labels can feel like a box, not flexible enough for growth. Kenny shares with us her coming out stories at a young age, the history of her romantic relationships with women, how ther...

In this episode we discuss humor.. When asked what you want in a partner the most common answer besides physical attraction is someone that is funny!  Most people don't share the same sense of humor or even know their/ partners humor type. Although humor isn’t the sole purpose of laughter, having the same understanding of what brings that sense of joy/ laughter helps to bond couples. We discu...

We hear straight women say quite often "I'm about to start dating women" with the idea that women relationships are easier to handle. Little do most people know lesbian/wlw relationships require much more effort than expected. Dayra and Jojo run down a list of things they wish they knew before dating women that could have potentially helped better prepare them for the types of relationship they ha...

Hii everyone! Happy Virgo Season! We took off Labor Day but we’re BACK! In this episode we go over the MOST frequently asked/ searched questions for the lesbian community. Here are some of the most common questions. Are lesbian relationships complicated compared to heterosexual relationships? Are lesbian breakups harder/worse? Can lesbians have a baby/get pregnant? How do lesbians have kids?? Why...

We introduce our favorite fellow podcast friends/couple Travis and Stephanie from the Westilllikeeachother podcast. In Episode 3 of their podcast, Steph talked about identifying as bisexual and they were open to introducing a third in their relationship but said “it never worked” yet they still had some sexual experiences… we get deep with Travis and Steph asking them the most common yet important...

Happy Monday everyone! In this episode we feature Brennah, 25-year-old owner and chef of LesbiVeggies, a Black-owned, LGBTQ+ friendly, all-vegan restaurant in Audubon, NJ! We talk a little bit about her entrepreneur journey but we also get into some interesting topics on dating outside our race, dating stories, zodiac signs, pronouns and lesbian stereotypes! We also discuss, - How our home backgro...

Leschat about setting boundaries and what makes setting boundaries so difficult? Jojo & Dayra go over examples of how they've had to set boundaries in the past with partners, family, friends, the workplace, etc..    We’ve all been in situations where we find it difficult to set boundaries with a friend because we’re worried about coming off rude or offensive. Dayra is the queen of bo...

Jojo & Dayra go over the 4 attachment styles and why it’s important to know them and how it may be affecting your relationship. Ask yourself.. ⁃ Do you get too clingy or jealous? ⁃ Or do you always seem to be more involved in the relationship than your partner? ⁃ Or maybe you want to be with someone, but as soon as things get serious, you back off? If any of these relate, you may have an anxious,...

Public spaces hold more heternomative expectations making it difficult for lgbtq+ to be open or authentic.. What was your first experience in a nightclub or a gay nightclub? Should straight people be allowed in gay clubs? We invite Jasmine to the podcast AGAIN and we talk about our experiences in nightlife. Why are lesbian bars disappearing? Why are queer spaces important? We go into some fun fact...

Grief is expressed differently across different cultures. Some people like to be expressive and public with their emotions, while others like to keep grief private. In this episode we talk about our personal experiences with grief and how we coped with it.  We discuss, - How can grief help/ allow us to grow? - When should you seek help for your grief? - How to cope with grief? Family Meeting...

LGBTQ+ individuals are more than twice as likely as heterosexual men and women to have a mental health disorder in their lifetime… In this episode we talk about mental and physical health with personal coach/trainer Jaime Filer who has over 118,000 followers on social media! Jaime helps LGBTQ+ women integrate their physical and mental health to decrease anxiety.. We discuss living with anxiety as...

As pride month is coming to an end we give a quick recap on all the gay festivities we got into as well as the awesome queer guests we were able to have on the podcast as a pride month special. Following our exciting recap we speak up on the political catastrophe of Roe v. Wade recently passing the ban of abortions. Not only as a woman but women of the LGBTQ+ community & apart of the minority comm...

It's never too late to do the things that make you happy even if you have to take a few losses along the way. We invited Kristin Holden on to the podcast to share her experience in what it’s like coming out in her 30's. Although it hasn’t been an easy process with telling family and friends, she still manages to find her peace and courage to live as her truest self. Kristin also shares some super...

Pride month is here and in full effect!!! Excited to celebrate an entire month full of gay festivities where we get to be our gayest selves, share an abundant amount of love, meet new fellow queer friends and give all the "YASSS BITCHHH" compliments until our voice is gone. We can't forget the people who fought the fight that got us to this point. In this episode we give a little bit of the story...

In this episode we talk about THE L-WORD! We focus on some scenes from the Original L-Word (2004-2009). You don’t need to watch the L-Word to understand what we’re talking about in this podcast episode. Is there such a thing as “coming out too late” in life? Listen/watch Phyllis ask Bette if it’s too late for her to come out (she’s an older married woman with kids)... Imagine coming out in front o...

Sex may be the most desirable type of intimacy to share with a partner but it certainly isn’t the only form!! Dayra and I share our top form of intimacy followed by some research on “12 different types of intimacy to experience with you partner”. We also go over the 5 E’s to help improve intimacy in a short time span from Jay Shetty’s Podcast! We discuss our definition of intimacy and how we exper...

Lesbians are known to u-haul in a short time span! However, when is it an appropriate time to move in together? What are the common problems couples encounter after moving in together? How does living together affect the relationship? In this episode we discuss OUR story of living together. We talk about finances, chores, boundaries, pet peeves, alone time, etc! We end it with family Q&A’s and...

We all have our own personal opinions but we don't always choose to voice them. Sometimes the subject can be a little more touchy so people shy away from those discussions in fear of being judged. However, in this episode we are choosing to STIR the pot and go over some of the most commonly controversial unpopular opinions about relationships. Some are.. is marriage only for business purposes...

In this episode we chat with Steve and Mateo about the differences and similarities between lesbian couples and gay couples! Steve and Matt are married and share their story on how they met.. We talk a little bit about about what we were afraid of before coming out and what made us wanna come out. What is dating like as a gay man? Do you think you can turn someone straight?…How does gay sex work f...

We all remember our "Baby Gay" phase where we were quiet, timid, and full of questions! The most frequently asked question like.. How do I flirt with girls? How do you show that you're gay for girls to know? Where did you find your queer friends? How do you know if someone is just friends or likes you? etc. All of which are normal questions to ask. Dayra & Jojo answer those questions to help s...

Being bullied in grade school is something we all experienced at least once... For our lgbtq+ listeners, how has being gay affected how you navigate through life? We talk about our personal experiences during high school from shaving our latina mustache to our glow up experience. We talk about how WNBA Candice Wiggins was "bullied" in the league for being "straight"..  Dayra brings up current even...

In a world full of imperfection we know that NO ONE is perfect! Have you ever played or treated someone bad and then felt bad about it after? Has anyone done any shady things to you? In this episode we talk about our experiences and tell your our dirty little *secrets*.    Also, WHAT is considered a hoe phase do you think it’s necessary? Dayra says yes it’s essential! Lastly, If you came with a wa...

To be in love is something we all crave to experience.. but not all love stories have a happy ending. Love isn't meant to be perfect but with the right person it won't always feel so hard. Dayra and I open up about our not so "happily ever after" relationships that ended in heartbreak. We speak on the red flags and signs we noticed leading up to the break ups as well as touch base on how it can ne...

“Lesbians fall in love fast” may be the most COMMON stereotype but it isn’t completely wrong. Dayra & I share a lot of personal experiences from coming out, to old relationships, red flags, cheating, stereotypes/preferences & even had the SEX talk… but we haven’t shared the story of how we met! For some, dating during Covid wasn’t at all ideal & for others “quarantine quickies” was all...

In Episode 8 we talk about multiple topics! Have you ever cheated on someone? Has someone ever cheated on you? If so, why do you think people cheat? We give talk about the top 8 reasons why people cheat in relationships.   Do you believe in second chances? What is considered cheating to you? What is worse, emotional or physical cheating?   Dayra talks about her breakup story, J...