Knowing Her Sexually

Today, we are not just two Christian wives, but are joined by guest Kevin A. Thompson to discuss his blog post, "I Wouldn't Sleep with You Either," and its great takeaways. Resources I Wouldn't Sleep with You Either - Kevin A. Thompson Kevin's Full Website: kevinathompson.com Friends, Partners, and Lovers: What It Takes to Make Your Marriage Work by Kevin A. Thompson Happily: 8 Commitments of Coup...

Chris and J tackle a question some husbands have asked: "Why won't my wife engage in a specific sexual activity with me when she did with a previous boyfriend?" Resources Your Wife’s Past - Knowing Her Sexually Entering Marriage with Sexual Baggage | Hot, Holy & Humorous Why You Feel Worse Than He Does about the Premarital Sex | Hot, Holy & Humorous Lessons Learned from Premarital Sex | The Forgiv...

Is sex painful for your wife? J and Chris talk about what causes pain and how you can help your wife deal with it. Resources Episode 32: What Does Your Wife Need Before You Enter? Dealing with Vulvovaginal Atrophy without Hormones - The Forgiven Wife DIY Sex Swing - The Forgiven Wife When It Hurts: Maintaining Sexual Intimacy While Dealing with Pain - The Forgiven Wife Working Through Physical Pai...

How do you know when your wife is ready for your penis to enter her vagina? It may not be what you think. J and Chris clue you in on what to look for. Resources Why woman are different from men and vice versa, by Amanda Gore Why Your Wife Needs Extra Lube - Knowing Her Sexually Let's Talk Lube | Hot, Holy & Humorous Good Clean Love Almost Naked Organic Water-Based Personal Lubricant Sliquid Natura...

A woman's sexual interest is affected by everything else going on in her life, yet many overextend themselves so much that they don't have time or energy for sex. Chris is joined by Gaye Christmus from Calm. Healthy. Sexy. to explain why this happens and give husbands suggestions for how to create a change. Resources Calm. Healthy. Sexy. Where Do You Need to Say "No" to Say "Yes" to Your Marriage?...

Quite a few emails and comments we receive express hurt and frustration about wives avoiding sex. In todays' episode, J and Chris talk about what wives should be doing—and we share some insight about what you can do to help. Resources Your Husband's Hurt - The Forgiven Wife You Go First - The Forgiven Wife Why Is He Trying to Fix Sex When It's the Relationship That Is the Problem? - The Forgiven W...

It's a common question we receive from husbands: How can he get his wife to read resources about sexual intimacy? He knows it would help, but she's reluctant. What's a husband to do? Resources The Magic Relationship Ratio, According to Science (Gottman Institute) The Generous Wife - a daily reminder to grow your marriage The Generous Husband | Daily rants on being a better husband CalmHealthySexy...

A listener asks about his wife not touching her vulva or his penis. J & Chris address possible reasons and ways to encourage a hesitant wife. Resources Episode 28: Male Anatomy - Sex Chat for Christian Wives Get to Know His Penis - The Forgiven Wife Q&A with J: How Can I Feel More Free Around His Naked Body? | Hot, Holy & Humorous This Week's Takeaway Explain to your wife how you view her vulva in...

What makes you attractive, appealing, or even "hot" to your wife? It may not be what you expect. Visit Our Sponsor Click to Buy or Learn More Resources Helping Your Wife Balance Motherhood and Sexual Intimacy – Knowing Her Sexually Why Being a Good Father Turns Your Wife On | Hot, Holy & Humorous What’s So Great About Men? – Knowing Her Sexually Praying Together for Your Marriage | Hot, Holy & Hum...

Both wives and intimacy experts often advise husbands to "take it slow" when it comes to sex. But what does it look like to go slow? Visit Our Sponsor Click to Buy or Learn More Resources The One Sex Tip I Give Husbands Over and Over | Hot, Holy & Humorous Newsflash, Hubbies! She Loves Foreplay. | Hot, Holy & Humorous Increasing Your Wife’s Sexual Pleasure – Webinar Replay Episode 13: The Timing o...

How do you and your wife deal with sexual intimacy during her period? J and Chris share some ideas to help you both get through that time of the month. Visit Our Sponsor Resources Sexual Intimacy & Your Period: Tips for Wives | Hot, Holy & Humorous Q&A with J: Sex During That Time of the Month? | Hot, Holy & Humorous How Well Do You Know Her Cycle? | The Generous Husband 11 Best Period Tracker App...

Your wife said no, not this time, and you’re feeling disappointed, frustrated, even lonely. What now? Well, since we want you gents to get a “yes” next time, today we’re talking about how your response to her rejection can impact her sexual interest. Visit Our Sponsor Click Here to Learn More Resources The Power of "And" - The Forgiven Wife Climate Change - Honeycomb & Spice How the Sexually Disin...

With Valentine's Day approaching, J and Chris share what wives tell us they want from their husbands on this holiday of love. Visit Our Sponsor Click here to shop! Bonus: Insight from Other Wives I always say that it’s “just another day” and I don’t want to do anything big, but then I find myself sad when he does what I say! (why am I like this?!) He says the same, but I always cave at the last mi...

J and Chris answer a listener's question about whether it is common for a woman to not want any kind of touching or exploration of her vulva. We talk about some reasons a wife might want to avoid this kind of touch, and we share some ideas on what to do about it. Visit Our Sponsor Click Here to Shop! Resources Beautiful | The Forgiven Wife He Can’t Really Be Happy with My Body – J’s guest post | T...

It's the time of year when we think about rebuilding and renewing, even when it comes to sexuality. J and Chris talk about how you can reboot your sex life. Visit Our Sponsor Click Here to Shop Resources 11 Tips for Husbands | The Forgiven Wife Where All Marriages Should Start Improving Their Sex Lives | Hot, Holy & Humorous How to Talk about Sexual Problems with Your Spouse | Hot, Holy & Humorous...

How can you give your wife a gift that speaks to her heart? A great gift can create feelings of being seen and valued that encourage the trust and vulnerability she needs for sexual intimacy. Visit Our Sponsor Click here to shop! Resources The Ultimate Gift List for Married Couples, 2020 Edition - Hot, Holy & Humorous Hot, Holy, and Humorous: Sex in Marriage by God's Design by J. Parker ("Cultivat...

Many couples report that sex and intimacy don't happen as much during the holidays. How can you keep up or even increase intimacy with your wife this holiday season? We share ideas. Visit Our Sponsor Click here to shop! Resources 10 Intimate Things to Enjoy for Christmas - Hot, Holy & Humorous My Gift to You: Christmas Intimacy Playlist - Hot, Holy & Humorous Bow-Dazzle! and 10 Other Ways to Keep...

What happens at the end of a sexual encounter? Today we talk about what wives have to say about what happens after sex. Hint: It matters. Visit Our Sponsor Get the Replays! Join the community! (includes webinars) Resources What Does Her Orgasm Mean? After the Lovin’: What Happens after Sex? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Does Sex Wake You Up or Make You Sleepy? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Praying Before, Durin...

How well do you know your wife’s body? Just because you’ve interacted with it a number of times, up close and personal, doesn’t mean you know all of its ins and outs. Today, we’re going to be talking about how women’s bodies and sexuality actually work—their anatomy and physiology. Sponsor Click to buy or learn more about our webinars! Check out our subscription community (including webinars)! Res...

Most men love their wife’s chest. But what’s the best way to touch her there? Chris and fill-in host Julie Sibert of  Intimacy in Marriage  advise husbands what to do with a wife’s breasts. Visit Our Sponsor J. Parker is one of the speakers, with 5 Steps to Better Sex. Click here to sign up!   Resources Rhythm Can Rock Her World Episode 13: The Timing of Sex Increasing Your Wife’s Sexual Pleasure...

Communication is another way couples connect, and how well your wife feels understood can have an impact on her sexual interest. Today, we talk about what wives want most in conversation with their husbands. Visit Our Sponsor J. Parker is one of the speakers, with 5 Steps to Better Sex. Click here to sign up!   Resources Why She Communicates the Way She Does (and It May Not Be What You Think) – J’...

Plenty of husbands feel their wife pulled a "bait-and-switch," meaning she reeled him in with sex and switched to disinterest. What happened? Sponsor We've wrapped up our summer webinar series, but you can still get the replays! Click to Buy or Learn More about the Replays! Resources Why "Why" Matters - The Forgiven Wife Where Did Your Sexual Interest Go? - Hot, Holy & Humorous 7 Reasons You Don’t...

WHEN you have sex can have an impact on the quality of the experience. J and Chris share some ideas on how to think about the timing of sex. Visit Our Sponsor We've wrapped up our summer webinar series, but you can still get the replays! Click to purchase or learn more. Resources How Do You Manage Sex When Your Schedules Are Different? – The Forgiven Wife When I Rejected My Husband’s Advances Outr...

Does your wife believe you when you tell her she's beautiful? J and Chris talk about some of the struggles women have and then give you some ideas on how you can help your wife. Visit Our Sponsor Click to learn about the webinar. Resources A Wife's Breasts Have History! - The Forgiven Wife How My Husband Sees Me - The Forgiven Wife The Only Woman in the World - Gary Thomas The Most Beautiful Woman...

How can you introduce new sex positions in your marriage? Visit Our Sponsor Click to learn about the communi ty. Resources Enjoy a Plus-Size Sex Life, Part 2 - The Forgiven Wife "Considering Sexual Positions," Hot, Holy, and Humorous: Sex in Marriage by God's Design Why You Should Try This Sex Position - Hot, Holy & Humorous Should You Get a Sex Pillow? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Sex pillows and wedge...