Knowing Her Sexually

How can you help your wife engage more in the sexual experience? Chris and J share how a husband can use the five senses to increase his wife's focus and enjoyment. Resources J"s #SexTipTuesday Facebook post: What do you do with your eyes during sex? 70+ Intimate Face to Face Sex Positions | Christian-friendly Sex Positions) Experience Deeper Intimacy During Sex | The Forgiven Wife Bedroom Soundtr...

We're back after an unannounced and unexpected hiatus! Looking at the searches that bring husbands to our site, Chris and J ask and try to answer the question "Why doesn't / can't / won't my wife do ____?" in the bedroom.  Resources Why Your Wife May Not Want to Receive Oral Sex Why Doesn’t She Want to Give You Oral Sex? 8 Reasons That Are Not About You Why Doesn’t She Want to Give You Oral Sex? 5...

Every marriage goes through a big life transition at some point, and likely several. Chris and J talk about how transitions affect sex in marriage and how to keep intimacy going even through the big changes. Resources Are Stress & Fatigue Killing Your Sex Life? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Making a Habit | The Forgiven Wife Lost Her Way In Target (original song) - The Holderness Family - YouTube How Wiv...

A listener shared that "[husbands] are told...to be sensitive to our wives' physical discomfort such as menstrual cramps but are also told that we cannot share when lack of physical intimacy causes physical discomfort in us as that won't be well received." Is there a double standard? How can a husband effectively express his sexual discomfort to his wife? Sponsor Visit Married Dance HERE (affiliat...

Chris and J usually talk about women's sexuality with the hope of helping men understand their wives. But today, we discuss what women don't understand about men's sexuality. Resources Episode 12: Guy Talk - The Importance of Sex - Sex Chat for Christian Wives Episode 14: Guy Talk - A Wife's Beauty - Sex Chat for Christian Wives Episode 16: Guy Talk - Men's Sexuality - Sex Chat for Christian Wives...

J and Chris talk about the many ways your wife's hormones can affect her sexual interest and her ability to respond and enjoy sex. If you've wondered about her monthly cycles or the impact of menopause, be sure to listen! Resources 13 Thin gs I Heard at a Sexual Wellness Class | The Forgiven Wife Dealing with Vulvovaginal Atrophy without Hormones | The Forgiven Wife Can Daily Arousal Help with Vul...

Yes, on a sex podcast, we're talking today about romance for your wife. Not only does romance keep your relationship emotionally intimate—it can create a better atmosphere for physical intimacy as well! So, should you bring her flowers? Tell her she's pretty? We address what counts as romance to a wife. Resources August Is Romance Awareness Month - Hot, Holy & Humorous (with tips) Cultivating Roma...

We're often asked how a husband can get a wife to go to therapy for their sexual intimacy. J and Chris discuss some ideas. Resources Faithful Counseling - online therapy resource Have You Received Bad Marriage Counseling? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Healthy Marriages Start with Healthy People - Hot, Holy & Humorous The Power of One - The Forgiven Wife This Week's Takeaway Research counseling and/or mar...

other ways. What do wives think about these options? Resources Why Doesn’t She Want to Give You Oral Sex? 8 Reasons That Are Not About You Why Doesn’t She Want to Give You Oral Sex? 5 Reasons That Are About You (and What You Can Do About Them) Maintaining Sexual Intimacy When Dealing with Pain | The Forgiven Wife Maintaining Sexual Intimacy When Sex Isn't Possible | Worthy Bible Studies (this post...

It can be fun and intimate to add something fresh and exciting to their marriage's sexual repertoire! But that desire can also come from another place: fear of missing out. Chris and J tackle the issue of sexual FOMO. Resources Spicing Up Your Bedroom – Webinar Replay Q&A with J: Resources for Spicing Things Up in the Marriage Bed - Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 45: Help Your Wife Learn What She Li...

Over and over, we've heard and experienced how the way a husband treats the wife's kids impacts her sexual interest. If you want to get into her bed, consider getting into her heart by caring for the ones she loves. Resources Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson's tea party with his daughter Why Being a Good Father Turns Your Wife On - Hot, Holy & Humorous Helping Your Wife Balance Motherhood and Sexual Inti...

Research shows that men are far more likely to have an orgasm during sex than women are. This difference is referred to as the Orgasm Gap. J and Chris help you understand why this gap exists and how you can address it. Sponsor Visit Married Dance online store Resources Webinar - Increasing Your Wife's Sexual Pleasure ($10) What Does Her Orgasm Mean? 3 Things Your Wife Wants You to Know About Her S...

What does your wife really think of your sex drive? We share what we've experienced and, more importantly, what we've heard from wives. Resources What a Quickie Taught Us About Sexual Intimacy | The Forgiven Wife Your Husband's Libido May Not Be What You Think | The Forgiven Wife #1 Myth Christian Men Learned About Sex | Hot, Holy & Humorous (about desire being good) Sex Chat for Christian Wives E...

What if you had a sexual experience before marriage? How can you help your wife—especially if she was a virgin bride—deal with your past? We answer this listener question. Resources Does Your Spouse Think about Previous Lovers? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Why You Feel Worse Than He Does about the Premarital Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous Entering Marriage with Sexual Baggage - Hot, Holy & Humorous Does You...

What goals do you have for sex in your marriage this year? Chris and J share three goals that could help awaken your wife's sexual desire. Please pardon the lesser audio quality this time! J's input was not as good, because her schedule required her to record from a hotel room. ~smile~ Resources Webinar: Helping Your Wife Want to Have Sex Webinar: Increasing Your Wife's Sexual Pleasure Webinar: Sp...

Have you asked your wife what she likes in bed, only to hear her say that she doesn't really know? As unbelievable as this may sound to you, it's pretty common. J and Chris share some ideas to help you help your wife figure out what she wants. Resources Webinar: Increasing Your Wife's Sexual Pleasure Episode 43: Rebuilding Her Trust, with Jessica McCleese Episode 6: Does Choreplay Work? Creating a...

A husband in our KHS Community recently asked about staying hopeful through the sexual ups and downs in marriage. J and Chris share some ideas that can help you maintain hope. Resources Are You Bitter in Your Marriage? So Was I. How Having Friends Is Good for Your Sex Life Work on Yourself (Even if Your Husband Is the Problem) | Honeycomb & Spice He Doesn't Care About Progress. He Just Wants Resul...

With Chris out today, Dr. Jessica McCleese joins J to discuss how a husband who may have mishandled sexual intimacy in the marriage before can rebuild his wife's trust in the bedroom and beyond. Resources Dr. Jessica McCleese's website FREE webinars with Jessica and J. Parker: Let's Talk About Talking Dirty and Negative Teaching About Sex: How It's Hurt Your Marriage and What to Do About It Two Wo...

We welcome special guest Dave Barringer , senior pastor of Kalamazoo First Assembly of God and author of Mosaic Marriage , to talk with us about foreplay in and out of the bedroom. Resources Dave Barringer's website Launch Point book site Mosaic Marriage by Dave Barringer Episode 6: Does Choreplay Work? - KHS Ministry Freshen Up Your Foreplay - Hot, Holy & Humorous Newsflash, Hubbies! She Loves Fo...

Chris and J tackle four truths about sex that husbands should know, especially those who long for better physical intimacy in their marriage. Resources Why Doesn't She Initiate? Work on Yourself (Even If Your Husband Is the Problem) | Honeycomb & Spice The Power of "And" | The Forgiven Wife I Worked on Sex, and Then He Got Angry | The Forgiven Wife He Doesn't Care About Progress. He Just Wants Res...

Being touched in nonsexual areas can be a real turn-on for your wife. J and Chris talk about where some of these areas are and give you suggestions for learning your wife's body. Resources How Do You Like to Be Touched? - Hot, Holy & Humorous 6 Kinds of Touch Every Marriage Needs - Hot, Holy & Humorous Why woman are different from men and vice versa by Amanda Gore Sexual Timing Matters - Knowing H...

Your grooming and hygiene can have an impact on your wife's interest in sex. J and Chris explain why in today's episode. Resources What About His Grooming and Hygiene? | The Forgiven Wife Q&A with J: What about “Manscaping”? | Hot, Holy & Humorous Why She Needs Him to Shower | Hot, Holy & Humorous Mentioned in the episode: NPR's Delicious Dish: Schweddy Balls - SNL - YouTube And a recommendation:...

Today we take on the question Chris's husband and many other husbands have: "Why didn't your wife come with a manual?" That would be so much easier, right? Resources What Does Her Orgasm Mean? The Romantic Vineyard, by Tom & Debi Walter This Week's Takeaway Ask your wife this question: "If marriage to you came with an instructional manual, what would the most important instruction be?"  

How could sex be "risky" when it happens in marriage with the one you love? Chris and J discuss three ways sex can feel risky for some wives. Resources What Are Your Sexual Fears? | Hot, Holy & Humorous 7 Reasons You Don't Want Sex | Hot, Holy & Humorous Which Words Do You Use? | The Forgiven Wife What Were You Taught About Sex? | The Forgiven Wife This Week's Takeaway Ask yourself what about sex...

In this episode, J and Chris tackle that age-old question, "What do women want?" It might be more simple than you thought! Resources What Is Emotional Safety? (and What Does It Have to Do with Sex?) Security in the Bedroom | Hot, Holy & Humorous What Do Women Really Want? - The Gottman Institute Emotional Safety is Necessary for Emotional Connection - The Gottman Institute Praying Together for You...