Amy Lang, M.A.

Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!

Kids EN ↓ 99 episodes

Are you dragging your feet about having the sex talks? Do you wish someone would just tell you what to say to your kid about this important part of life? You are in the right place. Whether your kid is neurotypical or neurodivergent, I've got ya. I'm Amy Lang, a sex and parent educator, and in my frank (really frank), opinionated, and full-of-swears-advice-column style parenting podcast, I answer real questions from real parents about the talks. I also provide topic-specific scripts so you can sound like a pro. Most episodes are a potluck of questions that run the gamut from abortion to porn a...

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Amy Lang, M.A.

Episodes

Stretch marks -- Episode 143 23.11.2022 5:17

In this episode, Amy explains stretch marks. BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids The podcast can only get you so far... The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustwo...

Pornisode: Stats; what you need to know today; and a child is porn exposed and addicted -- Episode 142 16.11.2022 26:58

In this episode, Amy talks all about how to help your kids navigate how to handle porn when they see it. Websites 20 Stats About The Porn Industry Culture Reframed Defend Young Minds RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline – where to find suport in your area BBK Bookstore is here Good Pictures Bad Pictures - Jr. and Sr. Sexy YA novels Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What...

Teen sleepovers 101 and penis haver with hand-down-the-pants issue -- Episode 141 09.11.2022 18:43

In this episode, Amy talks about teen sleepovers. She also explains how to handle young penis-holders. Resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It Join my newsletter list and get tips and info and event announcements! Birds & Bees & Kids The podcast can only get you so far... The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex...

Casual sex 02.11.2022 4:11

In this episode, Amy explains casual sex. Resources: Join my newsletter list and get tips and info and event announcements! Birds & Bees & Kids The podcast can only get you so far... The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Includes group coaching and special topic webinars. Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more...

How to explain adoption -- Episode 139 26.10.2022 4:50

In this episode, Amy explains adoption. Resources: Join my newsletter list and get tips and info and event announcements! Birds & Bees & Kids The podcast can only get you so far... The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Includes group coaching and special topic webinars. Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more he...

How to handle sex talk push-back; explaining a rape scene to a pre-teen and 8-year-olds crushing -- Episode 138 19.10.2022 23:17

In this episode, Amy talks about how to handle sex talk push-back. She also advises a mom on how to talk about a movie rape scene to an 11-year-old. And she helps a mom discuss crushes with her 8-year-old. Resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It Sex Talks With Tweens virtual book launch! October 20. You can win a book, books for kids, a Quickie, a Solutions Ce...

How to explain sperm donation -- Episode 137 12.10.2022 4:52

In this episode, Amy explains sperm donation. Resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It Sex Talks With Tweens virtual book launch! October 18 @ 5PM PT. You can win a book, books for kids, a Quickie, a Solutions Center membership and a grand prize of all the things! Sign up here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZ0qdeuhqDMvHtf5MgxSXUc2SnJJCDJMD0MO Join my...

Want to win a Quickie? Want to help a sister out? -- Episode 136 05.10.2022 3:44

In this episode, Amy asks for help. Resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It Sex Talks With Tweens virtual book launch! October 18 @ 5PM PT. You can win a book, books for kids, a Quickie, a Solutions Center membership and a grand prize of all the things! Sign up here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZ0qdeuhqDMvHtf5MgxSXUc2SnJJCDJMD0MO Join my newslette...

How to explain what being a lesbian means -- Episode 135 28.09.2022 3:24

In this episode, Amy explains what being a lesbian means. Resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It Sex Talks With Tweens virtual book launch! October 18 @ 5PM PT. You can win a book, books for kids, a Quickie, a Solutions Center membership and a grand prize of all the things! Sign up here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZ0qdeuhqDMvHtf5MgxSXUc2SnJJCDJM...

F-off 'stranger danger' and porn talk success story!!! -- Episode 134 21.09.2022 17:59

In this episode, Amy explains explains why stranger danger is bad and also includes a great porn talk success story. Resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It Sex Talks With Tweens virtual book launch! October 18 @ 5PM PT. You can win a book, books for kids, a Quickie, a Solutions Center membership and a grand prize of all the things! Sign up here: https://us02we...

How to talk about objectification -- Episode 133 14.09.2022 4:46

In this episode, Amy explains objectification. Resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It Sex Talks With Tweens virtual book launch! October 18 @ 5PM PT. You can win a book, books for kids, a Quickie, a Solutions Center membership and a grand prize of all the things! Sign up here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZ0qdeuhqDMvHtf5MgxSXUc2SnJJCDJMD0MO Join m...

Why you need monitoring and filtering (again) -- Episode 132 07.09.2022 6:32

In this episode, Amy explains why you need to monitor what your kids sees online. Resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It Sex Talks With Tweens virtual book launch! October 18 @ 5PM PT. You can win a book, books for kids, a Quickie, a Solutions Center membership and a grand prize of all the things! Sign up here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZ0qde...

Kid makes moaning noises that sound like sex (thanks playground buddies) and 6 year-old gal learns about the f-bomb and it ain't quite right -- Episode 131 31.08.2022 28:23

In this episode, Amy advises a parent on how to get their kiddo to stop making moaning noises that have been heard on the playground. Also, reading books about sex to teens - yay or nay? and explaining the f-word to a 6-year-old. Show notes: A Kids Book About Body Hair Resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It Sex Talks With Tweens virtual book launch! October 18...

Menopause -- Episode 130 24.08.2022 3:50

In this episode, Amy explains menopause. My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It The podcast can only get you so far… The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. There are multiple ways to pay, so if you need a monthly, yearly or a one-time payment you are good to go! Need more help? S...

Alternatives to porn: The Joy of Sex! The Joy of Gay Sex! The Lesbian Sex Bible! -- Episode 129 17.08.2022 6:39

In this episode, Amy discusses alternatives to porn for teenagers. The Joy of Gay Sex The Lesbian Sex Bible The Joy of Sex BBK Bookstore is here . My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It The podcast can only get you so far... The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.

Sexual fantasies -- Episode 128 10.08.2022 4:31

In this episode, Amy explains sexual fantasies. My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It The podcast can only get you so far… The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. There are multiple ways to pay, so if you need a monthly, yearly or a one-time payment you are good to go! Need more...

What grooming is and living in dad's penis --Episode 127 03.08.2022 10:04

In this episode, Amy discusses grooming. Also, a funny story about a 3 year old questioning his time living in dad's penis. Worried About Grooming? Teaching Kids Comprehensive Sex Ed Could Help. My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It The podcast can only get you so far... The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Use co...

IUD -- Episode 126 27.07.2022 5:08

In this episode, Amy explains vasectomies. My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It The podcast can only get you so far… The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. There are multiple ways to pay, so if you need a monthly, yearly or a one-time payment you are good to go! Need more help?...

Wonderful words about wanking; sisters need to stop privates game and lil penis-haver is holding it 24/7 --Episode 125 20.07.2022 24:44

In this episode, Amy talks with parents who have questions about young kids and their privates. Also a gold star award to a dad who called in to relay his conversation with his son about masturbation. My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It The podcast can only get you so far... The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks....

Vasectomy -- Episode 124 13.07.2022 5:28

My abortion story (it's not what you think) -- Episode 123 06.07.2022 17:27

In this episode, Amy talks about the recent Supreme Court ruling that overturns Roe v. Wade. !!! BIG FUCKING TRIGGER ALERT !!! Daring to Remember: Tell Us Your Abortion Story Whoops! Not "Susan Something" it's Monica Hesse. Big apologies to her and a big round of applause for her kick-ass column - Pull Back the Curtain on Reproductive Gore Reclaim Our Vote My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens...

Explaining 18 year old cousin's pregnancy; mom is concerned about her kid's fascination with her butt; kiddo shows penis to pal when they ask for a peek; and college kid wants the door closed when his girlfriend is over. 29.06.2022 20:47

In this episode, Amy answers questions from the emailbag. My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It The podcast can only get you so far... The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com BBK...

LGBTQIA -- Episode 121 15.06.2022 4:22

In this episode, Amy gives you the LGBTQIA definitions. The Pride Guide: A Guide to Sexual and Social Health for LGBTQ Youth The Trevor Project GLSEN works to ensure LGBTQ kids go to schools free from bullying and harassment My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It The podcast can only get you so far… The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to pe...

Sex and intimacy coach Leah Carey chats about how your sex life can influence your sex talks! --Episode 120 08.06.2022 43:00

Amy talks with sex and intimacy coach Leah Carey in this 'can't miss' episode. Leah Carey Sex & Intimacy Coach - https://www.leahcarey.com/ My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It The podcast can only get you so far... The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. There are multiple ways to...