Amy Lang, M.A.

Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!

Kids EN ↓ 99 episodes

Are you dragging your feet about having the sex talks? Do you wish someone would just tell you what to say to your kid about this important part of life? You are in the right place. Whether your kid is neurotypical or neurodivergent, I've got ya. I'm Amy Lang, a sex and parent educator, and in my frank (really frank), opinionated, and full-of-swears-advice-column style parenting podcast, I answer real questions from real parents about the talks. I also provide topic-specific scripts so you can sound like a pro. Most episodes are a potluck of questions that run the gamut from abortion to porn a...

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Amy Lang, M.A.

Episodes

Chirp: Midwife -- Episode 171 02.08.2023 5:47

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy talks about how to explain what a midwife is. Resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds...

Mom overhears gay son say he's going to 'slut his way through high school' and questions from kids with special guest star Rowena from Amazing Me! -- Episode 170 26.07.2023 20:31

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here Resources: Check out the Amazing Me site Rowena's IG account is fab! Other resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – ...

REPLAY - Chirp: Sixty-nine (how could I resist?) -- Episode 169 12.07.2023 5:07

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy talks about how to explain 69 to your kiddos. Resources How do you have oral sex? From Planned Parenthood - don't let the title freak you out! Also, throw a little cash their way if you can afford it! Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tw...

Phubbing and birth control for teens -- Episode 168 05.07.2023 15:20

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy gives advice on phubbing (and why not to do it) and also talks about the hows, whens, and whys of birth control for teens. Resources: Parental Phubbing Leaves Kids Feeling Ignored and May Increase Depression How to Deal with People Who Won't Make Eye...

F-you detrans movement; explaining Mx. to a preschooler, and navigating friends' phones -- Episode 167 28.06.2023 23:37

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy gives advice on talking to a kiddo about a new teacher with the Mx. prefix. She also helps a mom whose 10-year-old doesn't have a phone when all of the 10-year-old friends do. Resources: The Trans "Detransition" Wars Study Examines The "Social Conta...

REPLAY - How to explain what being a lesbian means -- Episode 166 21.06.2023 3:45

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy explains what being a lesbian means. Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & B...

REPLAY - Alternatives to porn: The Joy of Sex! The Joy of Gay Sex! The Lesbian Sex Bible! -- Episode 165 14.06.2023 7:00

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy discusses alternatives to porn for teenagers. Show notes: The Joy of Gay Sex The Lesbian Sex Bible The Joy of Sex Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news le...

REPLAY - Gay guy and his gal-pal sexually bullied by 10-year-olds. True story. -- Episode 164 07.06.2023 35:36

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy interviews two college students about their weird experience with a group of young kids. Show notes: Be a Positive Bystander What is Sexual Bullying and Why Do Kids Engage in It? Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & Ho...

Gay Pride Episode! -- Episode 163 31.05.2023 21:29

REPLAY - A 13-Year Old With a Newly Transgender Friend... Who He Kissed Before, A 9 Year Old Who Wants to Dress Sexy, and Explaining Rape Scenes in Movies -- Episode 163 GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy gives advice to a mom who wants to know how to support her son whose friend has...

Personal baggage but still needing to do the sex talks. And comments about kids' bodies -- Episode 161 03.05.2023 20:25

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy talks to a parent who is worried about their past experiences with their own sex education creeping into their talks with their kids. Amy also gives advice to a parent who is worried that her partner, through his conversations with their kids, could...

Mifepristone and a never-ending period --Episode 160 19.04.2023 6:58

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks about medication abortion, plus a story about a never-ending period. Great video for kids about medication abortion BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my...

Ejaculate Responsibly! And vasectomies --Episode 159 29.03.2023 10:52

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks about the book, Ejaculate Responisbly . BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – ...

Guest Star! Questions from kids and more with Rowena from Amazing Me! -- Episode 158 15.03.2023 44:50

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks with Rowena from Amazing Me , who provides sex education resources for families and schools. Check out the Amazing Me site Rowena's IG account is fab! Article: Empathy in children BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to S...

IVF -- Episode 157 08.03.2023 7:00

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks about IVF. Books for kids about kids concieved through fertility treatments BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips t...

Ganged by the Ski Patrol and parents on different pages about the talks -- Episode 156 01.03.2023 22:11

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy talks to a mom about what to do after her young son gets ahold of a racy book on Kindle Unlimited. Also, how to handle the talks when parents disagree on how to have them. If you want to check it out (and buy it) Ganged by the Ski Patrol Sexual Value...

Guest Star! First Period Pointers with Liz from Raising Flora -- Episode 155 15.02.2023 52:41

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks with Liz from Raising Flora , who offers first period pointers for kids and caregivers. BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful...

Our Bodies, Ourselves -- Episode 154 08.02.2023 4:39

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks about the book, Our Bodies, Ourselves . Our Bodies, Ourselves Today BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Gre...

Guest Star! Emily Cherkin talks about how to get a grip on screen time -- Episode 153 01.02.2023 39:36

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks with The Screen Time Consultant, Emily Cherkin, about ways to help your kids manage their screen time. Screen Time Consultant - check out Emily's freebies: Top 3 Tech-Intentional Tips Webinar and her eBook "7 Ingredients for Screentime Balance" on the top of her webs...

IUD -- Episode 152 25.01.2023 3:50

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy explains IUDs. BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids The podc...

Abortion and fertility BS; girl wants mom to smell her fingers; boy wants to see mom's privates up close; and a funny about an angry penis -- Episode 151 18.01.2023 19:39

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I'll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks about abortion and fertility. She also disucsses young, developmentally typical kiddos' antics. Abortion Care 101: The different types and their impact on fertility BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say...

How to handle "sexy" dance moves and ending co-sleeping -- Episode 149 04.01.2023 15:48

In this episode, Amy talks about sexy dance moves and co-sleeping. Rebecca Michi - Children's Sleep Consultant BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids The podcast can only get you so far.....

REPLAY: Talks with uninterested 13 year old, consent with doctors, and explaining transitioning friend to a 2 year old -- Episode 148 28.12.2022 31:43

Savvy Parents Safe Kids C is for Consent (book) BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids The podcast can only get you so far... The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the tru...

Labia -- Episode 147 21.12.2022 3:33

In this episode, Amy explains the labia. BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids The podcast can only get you so far... The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy...

Semen -- Episode 145 07.12.2022 3:56

In this episode, Amy explains semen. Article: 13 Things You Need to Know About Semen BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids The podcast can only get you so far... The Birds & Bees Solutions...

Explaining 69 to an 8-year-old; penis and banana "joke"; and sperm banking for a 12-year-old -- Episode 144 30.11.2022 22:32

In this episode, Amy answers mail bag questions. BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids The podcast can only get you so far... The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the t...