Just Drawz - The Podcast

"I chose me." - Brandon In this deeply personal episode of the Just Drawz Podcast, we sit down with Brandon, who courageously shares his journey through addiction, recovery, and what it means to choose healing one day at a time. Together, we have an honest conversation about substance use in the LGBTQ+ community, particularly among Black gay men, and examine the factors that often go uns...

Surprise!! Darius and Jeff of JustDrawz have linked up with Dana from HellaChisme to bring you a supersized and extra long episode combining all of our personalities together! The topic is the Black Gay Monolith. Are we as a culture monolithic? Do we always put the same artists, content creators, and cultural moments on? If so, why do we always say “We are not a monolith” then? Well we dive into t...

And we are wrapping it up with this edition of our advice series. On this one, we’re dealing with hairy Black men, if watching adult content is cheating, struggling with smell and taste, checking your best friend pushing up on your boyfriend, and more! “Just… Unsolicited Advice: 3 Part 2” _______________________________ Key Topics: Relationship honesty and trust. Personal growth and second acts in...

It’s that time again! We’re dishing out some good old fashioned Just Drawz advice and this time, John is back with us! You know how we do! In the first half, we’re covering what to do when your partner lies about a cheeseburger, the best ways to take advantage of your youth before getting ‘old’, finding gay friends without going to the bar, and getting comfortable going topless as a man and more!...

Be sure to watch Part 1 of of this conversation first! We conclude the conversation on 50/50 relationships and dating. Anjeleigh, Ray, Jeff, and DMC talk about dating, transactional situations, and handling different responsibilities in today's dating world compared to the past. " Just... The 50/50 Theory: Part 2 "_______________________________ Takeaways: Why perfect equality is unr...

In this first part of a two part episode, Jeff and DMC explore the evolving dynamics of relationships beyond the common 50-50 rule. They unpack the complexities of partnership, traditional roles, emotional equity, and what it really means to show up fully for each other, whether in heterosexual, LGBTQ+, or unconventional arrangements. Returning to the panel is frequent guest Anjeleigh in her first...

Being a Black man in today’s world comes with challenges that often go unspoken. An additional challenge is to be non heterosexual. Society tells us to tone down our authenticity just to make others comfortable. But let’s be real... it's a form of control and conformity, not solidarity. Your worth doesn’t hinge on others’ approval. It’s time to reclaim your space and voice, to show up for your...

We've selected some of your questions to answer for this third round of our Q and A session! Tune it to see if yours made it! We are always down for more so feel free to hit us up at AskJustDrawz@gmail.com for questions about the show, us, or for a future advice show! We want to thank our viewers for submitting these! PS: Darius is showing us his editing chops in his first fully edited and produce...

In this episode, we engage in a candid conversation with guest Taune about the complexities of marriage within the LGBTQ+ community. With marriage being a ‘new’ option for gay men, not many have had the experience of getting married yet, let alone divorced. We wanted to explore this and we appreciate Taune’s willingness to share his journey through marriage, divorce, and remarriage. We discuss the...

Are you an overachieving gay? Is independence a high priority for you? This discussion might just be of interest! In this episode, we explore the concept of 'gaychievement,' discussing the pressures and expectations that gay men face in their pursuit of success.  We delve into the psychological implications of overachievement, the role of identity in professional spaces, and how these fact...

We welcome DaddiDecent and DeeBearDaG to JustDrawz for an interesting and entertaining discussion on the world of gay content creation.  Our guests let us know how they got into the industry, society perceptions, and the importance of authenticity.   They also share the reactions they got from family members when their foray into this world was exposed. We even hear about some dream collabs and th...

Jeff presents his Get to Know Me episode where it is all about him! You'll learn about who he is and what drives him day to day.  Plus, there's a little Q and A at to wrap it up.  "Just... Get to Know Jeff" ______________________________ Listen to Our Winter 2026 Playlist: YouTube Music: ⁠https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTty_XQzxa8iJSNr2iDb2kyDR⁠ Spotify: ⁠https://open.spotify.com...

Note 3/14/2026: This version replaces the original that was uploaded on March 5, 2026. ----- DMC presents his Get to Know Me episode where it is all about him! You'll learn about who he is and what drives him day to day.  He talks about his family and how they've impacted his life. You'll find out what he loves and what he  does in his spare time.  Plus, there's a little Q and A at...

It's the Season 4 Premiere!  DMC and Jeff discuss Dating Preferences Versus Dating Prejudices,  focusing on the distinction between them. We explore how societal norms and personal experiences shape our attractions and biases. We talk about the impact of trauma on dating preferences, the cultural influences that affect attraction, and the importance of connection over superficial criteria in r...

Subscribers new and old, welcome! We present to you moments from 2025 and our third season. If you've missed something, and want to go back, this is the bonus episode for you! 00:16 - Let's Talk About Sex - 00:38 - And Then There Were Two - 00:26 - Inauguration Aggravation - 01:11 - Tips for Navigating the Dating Scene - 01:29 - Infidelity and Dishonesty in Gay Relationships - 02:22 - Inte...

Welcome to our channel! JustDrawz is a show for the section of the LGBTQIA space that sometimes feels overlooked by the current mainstream and influencer crowd. Hosted by two Black gay men, DMC and Jeff,, we have real conversations that matter. Sure, we talk about sex and dating, but there's more to our lives that that. Politics, personal growth, society, pop culture and more are all topics th...

Happy Holidaze! It's our third Christmas show and this year, we discuss some of our holiday traditions, the significance of gift-giving, and how we spend Christmas Day. What's the first decoration to go up? What are our favorite holiday themed movies and shows? And would we wear matching pajamas with our significant others? From food to what Christmas means to us, we talk about that and mo...

This show, DMC and Jeff wrap up the “Performative” series with “Performative Blackness” having already covered Performative Masculinity and Performative Queerness.  We explore the concept of performative Blackness, discussing its historical roots, contemporary interpretations, and personal experiences with identity. Then delve into the expectations and stereotypes associated with being Black, the...

It’s Thanksgiving week, family! And we recorded an episode about food and our relationship with it. But the conversation took a little bit of a shift as we ended up talking about body image and social media. Let’s call it a ‘side’ to the entree of our main conversation.  This is an expanded show that runs a little bit longer than we normally go for one sitting but we think this dish is best served...

Darius and Nikki continue their revealing conversation about their decades long friendship. Witness recovery and healing in action through their conversation with heartfelt moments, laughter, and new understanding of each other. "Just... Unfriended: Part 2" _______________________________ Takeaways:  Friendships can endure long periods of silence and still reconnect. Consistency in commu...

In this episode, Darius and Nikki, one of his oldest friends, explore the complexities of long-term friendships, focusing on their own relationship that has spanned over 40 years. They discuss the challenges of maintaining connections through life changes, the importance of communication, and the process of mourning friendships that have faded. The conversation highlights the significance of consi...

On this show, Jeff and DMC explore the experiences of being Black gay men over 40, discussing the evolution of their social lives, dating dynamics, and sexual experiences. They reflect on how their perceptions of self and body image have changed over the years, the impact of club culture on social interactions, and the role of confidence in their sexual lives.  The discussion also touches on the i...

The conversation continues between DMC, Jeff, and guest DeMarco Majors on the complexities of growing up as Black, same gender loving males. They explore themes of vulnerability, identity, and the impact of societal expectations on self-perception. They discuss early awareness of sexuality, the influence of family dynamics, and the role of cultural differences in shaping masculinity. The conversat...

Guest DeMarco Majors, joins DMC and Jeff for a discussion on the complexities of growing up as Black, same gender loving males. They explore themes of vulnerability, identity, and the impact of societal expectations on self-perception.  They discuss early awareness of sexuality, the influence of family dynamics, and the role of cultural differences in shaping masculinity. The conversation highligh...

Who inspires us? Who do we think is cute? Find out on this special bonus episode! Shout out to ATL Basement Studios for hosting this session and their production assistance.  https://www.instagram.com/atlbasementstudio/ _______________________________ Takeaways:  Recognizing compatibility earlier rather than later is key.  Self-esteem plays a significant role in dating and attraction. Catfishing a...