Just Drawz - The Podcast

We are back in the studio! This show, our conversation heads into the world of dating. We share our personal experiences with both good and bad dates. Should you end a date early? Do you know when there’s a “spark?” Why do people catfish with all of the technology we have to prove we are who we are?  We talk about the lessons we’ve learned and how to have an enjoyable time! “Just: The Good, The Ba...

We welcome Anjeleigh back to JustDrawz as she and DMC explore the perplexing world of common sense—or the lack thereof. From personal anecdotes to societal observations, they discuss why common sense seems to be a rare commodity these days. Expect laughter and a touch of chaos as they have a candid conversation through topics like education, healthcare, and the quirks of everyday life. "Just....

We are concluding this edition of Unsolicited Advice with some sexy topics. Selfies. Bath houses. Plain sex. We're giving our take on what we would do if put in the situations presented by some redditors. Take our advice if you want to... results not guaranteed. We are not telling you what to do... just what WE would do. Like our advice? Want us to do this again? Let us know in the comments! Or hi...

Once again, we found some random people looking for help on a few subreddits and we are giving our takes on what we would do in these situations. We were not asked. We just did it. It's Unsolicited Advice! We're tackling how to deal with friends trying to push up on your man, a Black guy working on finding other Black men attractive, approaching that gym crush, and how to go about a fitnes...

In this episode, we dig into performative queerness —how queer identity is expressed, curated, and sometimes judged in today’s world. We talk social media, authenticity, fast fashion, family dynamics, and the pressure to perform for both online and offline audiences. It’s a real conversation about identity, expression, and the power of being true to yourself—even when the world’s watching.  We wra...

We welcome Joshua Cruz to the show in a discussion on vulnerability, healing, and the impact of toxic masculinity on emotional expression, particularly for Black and brown gay men.  We discuss the importance of self-discovery during, the journey of unlearning negative self-perceptions, and the role of chosen family in personal growth. Joshua shares his experiences with vulnerability, the challenge...

The Talking Stage timeline debate from Twitter and X was too irresistible for us not to tackle on Just Drawz. We break down the progression of dating in to six stages. Is your "Talking Stage" another man's "Dating Stage?" Let's align on what these mean and provide our perspective and give you some of our personal stories. "Just... The Six Stages of Dating" ___...

Make sure you catch Part 1!This conversation concludes with this episode. We're talking about sex education for queer people, the aftermaths of our transitions from "straight" to gay, and throw it back a bit to when we came out."Just... The First Time Part 2" _______________________________ Takeaways:  Everyone has a unique first time story. First sexual experiences shape our understanding of inti...

We're talking about our first sexual experiences, our personal stories, societal myths, and the evolution of intimacy.  We share some of our humorous experiences, misconceptions we were told about sex, and discuss the impact of our first... entanglements and our current perspectives. This is a candid and insightful conversation about our youth and our sexuality. "Just... The First Time" __________...

In this episode, Darius opens up about the real meaning of blood family versus chosen family, especially within the LGBTQ+ community. He reflects on childhood experiences, growing up as a quiet, chubby kid with Sears Toughskins jeans, and how early lessons in independence and self-discovery shaped his understanding of family. From navigating college life and finding his tribe, to challenging old-s...

In this conversation, DMC and Dr. David Glover explore the intersection of spirituality, identity, and the experiences of Black gay men within the church.  They discuss the challenges of reconciling faith with sexual identity, the impact of church teachings on mental health, and the duality of church as both a refuge and a place of rejection. Dr. Glover shares his personal journey and initiatives...

We welcome sex therapist Machel Hunt to Just Drawz to discuss the importance of intimacy, communication, and understanding in relationships. We explore common misconceptions about sexual health, the significance of honest communication, and the challenges of discussing kinks and desires. We talk about hoe phases, b8 culture, kinks, sexual exploration, and more!   “Just: Sexy, Healthy, and Wise” __...

On this show, we discuss the concept of performative masculinity within the Black gay community, drawing on Judith Butler's theories of gender as a social construct. We touch on how societal pressures shape masculine identities, the everyday manifestations of masculinity, and personal experiences with conforming to these expectations. Does the perception of masculinity affect dating and relationsh...

The clocks have sprung forward, the daylight is saved, and it’s heating up outside! Just in time for the start of vacation season, we welcome Steve Johnson to the show to discuss the significance of travel within the LGBTQ community. We explore the evolving landscape of LGBTQ+ travel, the importance of choosing the right destinations, and the representation of people of color in the travel industr...

This conversation delves into the complexities of relationships, particularly focusing on the themes of dishonesty, infidelity, and the emotional ramifications of cheating. The guys explore the differences between emotional and physical infidelity, share personal experiences with cheating, and discuss the challenges of non-monogamous relationships. They emphasize the importance of communication an...

We are covering a lot of topics this season with a bunch of guests! Travel. Cheating. Performative Masculinity. Dating. Casual Sex. Advice. Religion. Like and subcribe! And be sure to catch up on previous seasons as well!

It's here! It's here! Season 3!!!Just Drawz - The Podcast starts our new season with a bang! Special guest Lamont White sits in with DMC and Jeff for a rousing conversation on dating in 2025. We're talking dating apps, profile pictures, ghosting, and intentional dating. From top to bottom to all of the sides around and in between, we get into it. Just... Shooting the Breeze with Lamont...

Grab your popcorn, and pour up a drink. In this restored episode, all four of the original Just Drawz hosts have a discussion on navigating the possibility of dating a friend’s ex. This episode was originally recorded in the fall of 2023. This is an edited version of that discussion. We have removed personal and sensitive details while maintaining each host’s thoughts and the sprit of the conversa...

Surprise, surprise! Here's special episode ahead of our third season. With the inauguration coming up, we felt we needed to talk about the results of the election. We welcome Ben back to the podcast to discuss the aftermath of the 2024 US Presidential election. We continue the conversation on voter behavior and turnout, challenges that faced Kamala Harris, and how to navigate political convers...

In this special episode, we discuss the evolution of Just Drawz podcast, including the origins of the show, the recent changes, and what's next. _________________________________________ Hosts: DMC: https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/ https://x.com/DMCureton Jeff: https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/ https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/ https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social https:/...

It's the end of the season! We sit together to answer your questions! Find out if your question made it to the show! If it did, let us know in the comments! And if it didn't.... we'll try to get it next time! We'll have another opportunity coming soon! Live Show Survey: ⁠https://forms.gle/YZaWE1LSF2FVADxF9⁠ _________________________________________ Hosts: DMC: Instagram:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠@kklothesminded⁠⁠⁠⁠ T...

Just Drawz wraps up the year in this Christmas themed episode. The guys discuss their holiday plans, traditions, and the Christmas spirit; reflecting on the past year, sharing their goals for 2025, and exploring explore the impact of personal growth and relationships. Live Show Survey: https://forms.gle/YZaWE1LSF2FVADxF9 _________________________________________ Hosts: DMC: Instagram:  ⁠⁠⁠@kklothe...

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In this episode of the Just Drawz podcast, Jeff and Darius welcome DeMarco Majors to the show! DeMarco is a life coach and former professional athlete, who shares insights on the complexities of depression, the impact of minority stress, and the importance of understanding one's identity. This discussion is about depression, particularly within the LGBTQ+ community. The conversation delves into th...

DMC and Anjeleigh delve into the concept of love languages, exploring their personal love languages and how they impact relationships. They discuss the significance of understanding one's own love language and that of their partner, the challenges faced in expressing and receiving love, and the importance of effective communication. The conversation emphasizes that love is a choice and that intent...